Abusive client towards providers in NYC

[Pd1_jap]

2 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

It sounds like Mr. Number had this guy pegged already. Not exactly hush-hush. And you're allowed to post Mr. Number screenshots.

I want to see the screenshots. 

[Walt]

6 hours ago, Asterisk said:

And has been pointed out in myriad threads about "rating clients," there are escort-only message boards, blacklists, Mr. Number, etc. to share this very type of information.  Not sure what hobbyists are meant to do with this "warning" about an anonymized abusive client here, except sympathize.

Yes, there is Mr. Number.

Beyond that, there is substantially more evidence of the Loch Ness Monster and Big Foot than evidence of any other escorts only message boards or blacklists. Nobody is able to give a web address or a secret handshake or an email or a phone number or associated with these message boards or names of who started them or the secret society that manages them now. Zilch. I think the secret escort-only message board would be the great basis for a Ean Brown bestseller where Tom Hanks stars in the movie version.

[+ WestGuy]

@Walt there is in fact such a secret society! Here is a photo that a whistleblower took at the last meeting:

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[Spikeguy]

There is a special list for flatulent clients.

[Asterisk]

16 hours ago, Walt said:

Yes, there is Mr. Number.

Beyond that, there is substantially more evidence of the Loch Ness Monster and Big Foot than evidence of any other escorts only message boards or blacklists. Nobody is able to give a web address or a secret handshake or an email or a phone number or associated with these message boards or names of who started them or the secret society that manages them now. Zilch. I think the secret escort-only message board would be the great basis for a Ean Brown bestseller where Tom Hanks stars in the movie version.

Not being a provider, I couldn't say, and am humble enough to admit my ignorance.  I included the other thread because it includes messages from a provider (and forum member) who acknowledges the invite-only message boards; maybe he was being humorous, but if so, it was so dry that it read to me as sincere.  Apologies if I misread.

Nonetheless, this particular forum, the Deli, is dedicated to discussing providers (not clients).

[Ali Gator]

On 2/21/2025 at 12:23 PM, WestGuy said:

Yes, harassment and stalkers are some of the unfortunate things that go with this territory.

This is true with any profession in which you deal with the public, it's not exclusive to escorts / masseurs.  You just don't know who you will encounter in any business situation if you are providing a service of some kind, especially if you are in business for yourself. 

Anyone watch 'Baby Reindeer' last year on Netflix ? The victim was jus a friendly bartender. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

20 hours ago, Walt said:

Beyond that, there is substantially more evidence of the Loch Ness Monster and Big Foot than evidence of any other escorts only message boards or blacklists. Nobody is able to give a web address or a secret handshake or an email or a phone number or associated with these message boards or names of who started them or the secret society that manages them now. Zilch. I think the secret escort-only message board would be the great basis for a Ean Brown bestseller where Tom Hanks stars in the movie version.

Escort blacklists only work well when they're controlled, kept quiet and by invite-only.

This very board had a hidden 'escort only' section (by invite only) in the Hooboy days.

Spaces like these aren't meant for client access.

Some things in this business aren't for the customers...  They're for the protection of the talent.

Both female and male escorts have their own systems. 

Some of them look a lot like this board, tbh.

Edited February 22 by BenjaminNicholas

[Luv2play]

I think we get the picture. 

[+ JamesB]

43 minutes ago, Asterisk said:

But this one intrigues!  What's the pop-up?! 

(Is this Mr. Number?)

 

The pop-up is from the TextNow messaging app.

[+ PhileasFogg]

On 2/21/2025 at 7:06 PM, afterfallhours1 said:

link to the thread? 

I’m pretty sure that I know the thread and that this particular provider would just like the issue to be left alone and not rekindled.  

[Intoyvr]

I for one appreciate the lesson of this topic. Both hobbyist and provider have trepidation about meeting someone to do intimate things. It is good to remember that enthusiasm and doggedness can be frightening to a provider.  Both sides of this equation are illegal in many places.

In Canada the police can be called. (I had to do it once - the 911 operator was deadpan as hell. It's funny looking back.) In other jurisdictions things may be trickier.