Topping where bottom remains hard

[asian sensatin]

I have a fetish where I love topping when the bottom is also hard which get's me even more turned on. Obviously you can't force the bottom to be hard and each situation is different but if you could let me know of any escorts you have been with where you topped them and they were hard while getting pounded 

Location does not matter as I travel regularly so can meet them or fly them to me

Edited December 12, 2024 by asian sensatin

[+ Jamie21]

2 hours ago, asian sensatin said:

I have a fetish where I love topping when the bottom is also hard which get's me even more turned on. Obviously you can't force the bottom to be hard and each situation is different but if you could let me know of any escorts you have been with where you topped them and they were hard while getting pounded 

Location does not matter as I travel regularly so can meet them or fly them to me

Like this? ( it’s me bottoming 😉)

https://media.invisioncic.com/k323430/monthly_2024_12/IMG_3596.jpeg.2c6eb675b59c3d1d54dafdf40cf013e1.jpeg

 

Edited by moderator to remove explicit pic in public forum.

[asian sensatin]

Exactly like that. might need to come visit you.

[DznNYC]

On 12/12/2024 at 9:46 AM, asian sensatin said:

I have a fetish where I love topping when the bottom is also hard which get's me even more turned on. Obviously you can't force the bottom to be hard and each situation is different but if you could let me know of any escorts you have been with where you topped them and they were hard while getting pounded 

Location does not matter as I travel regularly so can meet them or fly them to me

 

 

I love these posts that basically invite bottom providers to brag.  How can I not pile on?

Agreed that every situation is different.  Some situations are so ass-focused that nobody in the room cares about your cock, and it just makes a quiet exit.  But  not gonna lie ... nothing beats working my rock hard cock - or getting it worked - while pleasing a man with my ass.  Usually accompanied by a steady flow of pre-cum.

Learned my lesson about sharing visual evidence here, but happy to send privately!  😇

 

 

[BrickBuilder]

So I find this a fun topic since I also enjoy it when a guy is rock hard and I am topping him.  I find it fun edging him as I edge myself inside of him.  There are several categories of providers I have found. 

1. Providers that never get hard and don't try (many reasons for this - physical, psychological, substance, poppers, interest, etc).  Some never tell you this during discussions and either pop it on you if you ask or tell you when they show up, so I am starting to ask the more and more if they get hard during a session.  Having them cum is a whole other topic.  

2.  Providers that need a little TLC before all the assplay starts...once they get hard it keeps going as long as the session goes.  They need that up front time to get hard and then all is good.  The TCL usually is something that they enjoy (giving head, getting head, dirty talk, manual stimulation...it varies).

3.  Providers that always stay rock hard.

#3 is the rarest.  #2 and #1 are more common in my experiences over the years.  But like I mentioned above...I am asking more and more providers if they get hard or what gets them hard during a session so I can discern how things can go.  

 

 

[SometimesBi]

On 12/12/2024 at 6:46 AM, asian sensatin said:

I have a fetish where I love topping when the bottom is also hard which get's me even more turned on. Obviously you can't force the bottom to be hard and each situation is different but if you could let me know of any escorts you have been with where you topped them and they were hard while getting pounded 

Location does not matter as I travel regularly so can meet them or fly them to me

As long as the top isn't super big, I can do that every time (and I'm not a provider, so... no charge here 😁)

My favorite position is on my back at the edge of the bed, legs up over the top's shoulders as he fucks me. I can stroke my hard dick with one hand, and caress his chest, pecs, nipples, with the other. Or, both my hands on his chest while he strokes me. 

The question will be: who cums first, me or him? 

[DznNYC]

45 minutes ago, AtlTopGuy said:

...I am asking more and more providers if they get hard or what gets them hard during a session so I can discern how things can go.  

 

 

These kinds of questions are ideal.  It’s so helpful knowing what turns a client on when you arrive.  

[Vin Marco]

I know it's not exactly on topic and I apologize but I remember when the gold standard was for a top to remain hard 😂the entire time... 

Not sure why but this reminds of when I was asked if I could perform heavy alternating dumbbell 💪🏽 bicep curls while topping...  To not over promise and under deliver I said something a long the lines about fantasy and reality not always jiving. I'm good but not that good lol it's one before the other but not both at that same time 🤣

Edited December 16, 2024 by Vin Marco

[asian sensatin]

1 hour ago, AtlTopGuy said:

So I find this a fun topic since I also enjoy it when a guy is rock hard and I am topping him.  I find it fun edging him as I edge myself inside of him.  There are several categories of providers I have found. 

1. Providers that never get hard and don't try (many reasons for this - physical, psychological, substance, poppers, interest, etc).  Some never tell you this during discussions and either pop it on you if you ask or tell you when they show up, so I am starting to ask the more and more if they get hard during a session.  Having them cum is a whole other topic.  

2.  Providers that need a little TLC before all the assplay starts...once they get hard it keeps going as long as the session goes.  They need that up front time to get hard and then all is good.  The TCL usually is something that they enjoy (giving head, getting head, dirty talk, manual stimulation...it varies).

3.  Providers that always stay rock hard.

#3 is the rarest.  #2 and #1 are more common in my experiences over the years.  But like I mentioned above...I am asking more and more providers if they get hard or what gets them hard during a session so I can discern how things can go.  

 

 

Please share your research 😃 

[queensboroboy]

40 minutes ago, DamizzonNYC said:

These kinds of questions are ideal.  It’s so helpful knowing what turns a client on when you arrive.  

Damizzon do you have a link to RM ad?

[DznNYC]

1 hour ago, queensboroboy said:

Damizzon do you have a link to RM ad?

Sent you a DM.  😇

[Viking]

35 minutes ago, DamizzonNYC said:

Sent you a DM.  😇

Me too, please?

[+ Italiano]

As a bottom I can't imagine being fucked while not being rock hard, but I understand that for a provider I assume it's different...

[MusclesandSemen]

 LOVE seeing a fully erect bottom. Like flicking their cocks and hearing that thick piece of meat just slap their stomach when they're on their back

Edited December 19, 2024 by MusclesandSemen

[asian sensatin]

On 12/19/2024 at 3:55 PM, MusclesandSemen said:

 LOVE seeing a fully erect bottom. Like flicking their cocks and hearing that thick piece of meat just slap their stomach when they're on their back

That’s the ultimate turn on

[Toronto Daddy]

So I had a masseuse in Toronto who explained that there was an extra $100 charge if I wanted anything more than a hand job at the end. And I said that the hand job was fine. 

When he rolled me over on to my back and and saw my hard cock, he asked if he could climb on top because he got so turned on. I told him I wouldn't pay extra but that didn't stop him. He stayed rock hard as he rode my cock and even came when I pumped my load into him. 

As someone on this thread mentioned, every situation is different. 

 

[BuffaloKyle]

On 12/12/2024 at 9:57 AM, Jamie21 said:

Like this? ( it’s me bottoming 😉)

https://media.invisioncic.com/k323430/monthly_2024_12/IMG_3596.jpeg.2c6eb675b59c3d1d54dafdf40cf013e1.jpeg

Aw, link is dead. Can you pm me the pic @Jamie21?

[+ Jamie21]

Done!