My Pretty Woman Story: Hiring and falling in love

[+ ThroatCummer]

I'm going to write you guys a story here that's very applicable to these forums that I have refrained from telling.  Mostly because you don't want to give everyone hope and my situation is probably pretty unique and rare. 

Backstory: 

I'm a 47 year old gay guy who had never hired before or considered it up until about four years ago. I am very masculine and cool and comfortable. For reference, a bigger guy (5'11, 255#) but carry it well. Handsome face and usually attracted both women and men. I'm not fucking paying for sex is what I always thought. Spent my life in IT and rode the crypto wave a decade ago. I founded my own company and built it with my then partner at the time. It was crazy successful but tore us apart emotionally. We separated and I moved out. When the company was crashing down and almost bankrupt, I was drinking every single day and didn't leave my house for a week. Didn't shower and shave. I was a mess. 

For many reasons, I lost all my friends. I had lawsuits against me and couldn't go hang out at the bars. My lawyers said I couldn't talk about everything and my entire social world was with my partner. If I walked into a bar, people would be like "how's work? how's your partner?" and I just had nothing. So I stayed home.  

After a month or so of this, I wanted a person. Someone to just hold me and tell me life would be okay and to just have raw sex with and unload everything in my balls as much as possible, because at least that would feel good for the moment, right? 

Escort: 

So I jump on Rent Men. $300 per hour. Had a guy come over. It was decent, I got off, and he went away. Not great not bad. Tried it a second time, same thing. At least I had someone with a pulse. 

Third time, I was in New York city which is amazing for escorts and I decided okay, let's do this the right way. I have a list of 20 requirements I want.  Handsome as fuck, masculine, square jaw, deep voice, a body like you just walked off a stage. Just raw dripping testosterone... and that's a little hard to find right. But that's when Trevor walked into my life. 

Paid for an hour. We met up and guess what? Didn't even have sex or get off. Just talked and I was too nervous and shy because I had never been around someone like him before. A day after we met up, he texts me and says "You know I do overnights, right?" and so I paid $2,400 for an overnight and it kind of changed my life. I had been a top my entire life and never got fucked, but this dude railed my lights out and I LOVED it. I didn't understand why or how guys bottom until him.  

So I go back to NYC and we do it again. Then again. After a few meetings, he basically looks at me and is like "What are you doing with your life?" -- I think he could see the depression and me not taking care of myself. My gut reaction was "I'm not paying you to question me like this!" but it sat with me. I kept thinking about the question. 

I wound up hiring him for a trip out of the USA as a 4th person for a group of three of us.  It was a lot of money but worth it. Fast forward a year and he actually made me a better person. I woke up in the morning and thought "What would Trev do?" so I hauled myself out of bed and showered and shaved and hit the gym. Then did it again. I realized that I am not just paying Trev for sex, but the value is flowing both ways. I'm getting more out of this then I am paying. 

Jose: 

So I am back in Boston and lonely. But I am doing better. I have more energy, I look better, and I see the sun and the good things and natural energy takes over in all my interactions during the day. I don't want or need a boyfriend or a relationship and that's why I was hiring, because  they go home afterwards. 

But I am horny and bored on a Friday night. There's a new escort in town I haven't seen so I get him over for an hour for $300. 

He leaves but there was a real connection. I text him after and ask if he has plans the following night, and he said he can come back. I offer $2000 for the night. 

.... and he doesn't leave. We sit on the beach watching the sun come up together. He lives in Miami and says "Come to Miami and stay with me."  Well wouldn't you know I had a conference in Miami that Wednesday, already had an Airbnb booked with work people, and flights planned. I say what the hell and take him up on the offer. I walk in the door to his apartment and it's clean, and comfortable, and feels like home. We spend the next week together each night. No payment. Nothing. 

Passionate sex. But more than that, an actual connection.  I go home and tell him to come back to Boston and go to Ptown with me in two weeks. 

One year later, I asked him how many people he invited to his house before. He said nobody. His house is his temple and he doesn't bring clients back.

Fast forward almost two years and I am now living in Miami at his place. My company went bankrupt and I lost everything, and he's here paying the bills supporting us. He said "I don't care how much money you have, I would be happy eating a sandwich with you in the room with nothing"

We are getting married soon.

Lesson: 

I'm writing this to show people that escorts are also humans. Will this happen to others? Probably not. But beyond the business transaction, they are also people with their own problems, their own life, and their own desires. I happened to find someone who was single, available, open, and fell in love with me (although I didn't know it at the time). But at the end of the day, what really matters is will they be there for you when you have nothing and the money runs out?  In my case, yes.  He was there to pay some of the bills and give me a place to live. That's how you know it's genuine and authentic. 

As far as Trevor goes -- those types of escorts are just magic. You can pay for sex, sure. But sometimes you can get so much more if you open yourself up and let it in. It isn't always about sex. He and I still keep in touch. He doesn't escort anymore and is back in Canada living his fulfilling live off of Rent.men. He will be back at some point and if you have the chance to hire him (he is easily searchable on here), don't walk, but run at the chance. He's fucking awesome. 

So that's my story. It feels good writing it. Not looking for any validation, just something to share. 

Be good guys.

Edited October 9, 2024 by ThroatCummer

[Tane]

Such a beautiful story. Thanks for sharing with us.

[pubic_assistance]

17 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

I'm going to write you guys a story here that's very applicable to these forums that I have refrained from telling.  Mostly because you don't want to give everyone hope and my situation is probably pretty unique and rare. 

Congratulations.

Sometimes good relationships start up in the most unexpected ways.

 

[Rudynate]

20 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

I'm going to write you guys a story here that's very applicable to these forums that I have refrained from telling.  Mostly because you don't want to give everyone hope and my situation is probably pretty unique and rare. 

Backstory: 

I'm a 47 year old gay guy who had never hired before or considered it up until about four years ago. I am very masculine and cool and comfortable. For reference, a bigger guy (5'11, 255#) but carry it well. Handsome face and usually attracted both women and men. I'm not fucking paying for sex is what I always thought. Spent my life in IT and rode the crypto wave a decade ago. I founded my own company and built it with my then partner at the time. It was crazy successful but tore us apart emotionally. We separated and I moved out. When the company was crashing down and almost bankrupt, I was drinking every single day and didn't leave my house for a week. Didn't shower and shave. I was a mess. 

For many reasons, I lost all my friends. I had lawsuits against me and couldn't go hang out at the bars. My lawyers said I couldn't talk about everything and my entire social world was with my partner. If I walked into a bar, people would be like "how's work? how's your partner?" and I just had nothing. So I stayed home.  

After a month or so of this, I wanted a person. Someone to just hold me and tell me life would be okay and to just have raw sex with and unload everything in my balls as much as possible, because at least that would feel good for the moment, right? 

Escort: 

So I jump on Rent Men. $300 per hour. Had a guy come over. It was decent, I got off, and he went away. Not great not bad. Tried it a second time, same thing. At least I had someone with a pulse. 

Third time, I was in New York city which is amazing for escorts and I decided okay, let's do this the right way. I have a list of 20 requirements I want.  Handsome as fuck, masculine, square jaw, deep voice, a body like you just walked off a stage. Just raw dripping testosterone... and that's a little hard to find right. But that's when Trevor walked into my life. 

Paid for an hour. We met up and guess what? Didn't even have sex or get off. Just talked and I was too nervous and shy because I had never been around someone like him before. A day after we met up, he texts me and says "You know I do overnights, right?" and so I paid $2,400 for an overnight and it kind of changed my life. I had been a top my entire life and never got fucked, but this dude railed my lights out and I LOVED it. I didn't understand why or how guys bottom until him.  

So I go back to NYC and we do it again. Then again. After a few meetings, he basically looks at me and is like "What are you doing with your life?" -- I think he could see the depression and me not taking care of myself. My gut reaction was "I'm not paying you to question me like this!" but it sat with me. I kept thinking about the question. 

I wound up hiring him for a trip out of the USA as a 4th person for a group of three of us.  It was a lot of money but worth it. Fast forward a year and he actually made me a better person. I woke up in the morning and thought "What would Trev do?" so I hauled myself out of bed and showered and shaved and hit the gym. Then did it again. I realized that I am not just paying Trev for sex, but the value is flowing both ways. I'm getting more out of this then I am paying. 

Jose: 

So I am back in Boston and lonely. But I am doing better. I have more energy, I look better, and I see the sun and the good things and natural energy takes over in all my interactions during the day. I don't want or need a boyfriend or a relationship and that's why I was hiring, because  they go home afterwards. 

But I am horny and bored on a Friday night. There's a new escort in town I haven't seen so I get him over for an hour for $300. 

He leaves but there was a real connection. I text him after and ask if he has plans the following night, and he said he can come back. I offer $2000 for the night. 

.... and he doesn't leave. We sit on the beach watching the sun come up together. He lives in Miami and says "Come to Miami and stay with me."  Well wouldn't you know I had a conference in Miami that Wednesday, already had an Airbnb booked with work people, and flights planned. I say what the hell and take him up on the offer. I walk in the door to his apartment and it's clean, and comfortable, and feels like home. We spend the next week together each night. No payment. Nothing. 

Passionate sex. But more than that, an actual connection.  I go home and tell him to come back to Boston and go to Ptown with me in two weeks. 

One year later, I asked him how many people he invited to his house before. He said nobody. His house is his temple and he doesn't bring clients back.

Fast forward almost two years and I am now living in Miami at his place. My company went bankrupt and I lost everything, and he's here paying the bills supporting us. He said "I don't care how much money you have, I would be happy eating a sandwich with you in the room with nothing"

We are getting married soon.

Lesson: 

I'm writing this to show people that escorts are also humans. Will this happen to others? Probably not. But beyond the business transaction, they are also people with their own problems, their own life, and their own desires. I happened to find someone who was single, available, open, and fell in love with me (although I didn't know it at the time). But at the end of the day, what really matters is will they be there for you when you have nothing and the money runs out?  In my case, yes.  He was there to pay some of the bills and give me a place to live. That's how you know it's genuine and authentic. 

As far as Trevor goes -- those types of escorts are just magic. You can pay for sex, sure. But sometimes you can get so much more if you open yourself up and let it in. It isn't always about sex. He and I still keep in touch. He doesn't escort anymore and is back in Canada living his fulfilling live off of Rent.men. He will be back at some point and if you have the chance to hire him (he is easily searchable on here), don't walk, but run at the chance. He's fucking awesome. 

So that's my story. It feels good writing it. Not looking for any validation, just something to share. 

Be good guys.

Lovely story.  Thank you.

[+ ThroatCummer]

On 10/10/2024 at 8:59 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Congratulations.

Sometimes good relationships start up in the most unexpected ways.

 

What's really interesting is now hearing and knowing it all from the escort side. I see the things people write him, and what they ask, and how they interact.  That was a little mind blowing. 

He still does it because shit, it's good money. But it's also not a long term success plan because we all get older and have less energy.  He advertises his age a little lower than it really is, but he can because he looks it. Give it up to the relaxed latin slower lifestyle. In reality he is 10 months older than me.  Everyone thinks I have the young hot latin guy but he's really my daddy. lol  

Edited October 11, 2024 by ThroatCummer

[sociogenic]

This is INCREDIBLE!!! Wow, congratulations. 

 

FYI I love Trevor, he has also changed my life and I haven't bottomed since him but he is definitely a magician lol

[+ Italiano]

20 hours ago, sociogenic said:

This is INCREDIBLE!!! Wow, congratulations. 

 

FYI I love Trevor, he has also changed my life and I haven't bottomed since him but he is definitely a magician lol

Link?

[marylander1940]

On 10/9/2024 at 3:21 PM, ThroatCummer said:

I'm going to write you guys a story here that's very applicable to these forums that I have refrained from telling.  Mostly because you don't want to give everyone hope and my situation is probably pretty unique and rare. 

Backstory: 

I'm a 47 year old gay guy who had never hired before or considered it up until about four years ago. I am very masculine and cool and comfortable. For reference, a bigger guy (5'11, 255#) but carry it well. Handsome face and usually attracted both women and men. I'm not fucking paying for sex is what I always thought. Spent my life in IT and rode the crypto wave a decade ago. I founded my own company and built it with my then partner at the time. It was crazy successful but tore us apart emotionally. We separated and I moved out. When the company was crashing down and almost bankrupt, I was drinking every single day and didn't leave my house for a week. Didn't shower and shave. I was a mess. 

For many reasons, I lost all my friends. I had lawsuits against me and couldn't go hang out at the bars. My lawyers said I couldn't talk about everything and my entire social world was with my partner. If I walked into a bar, people would be like "how's work? how's your partner?" and I just had nothing. So I stayed home.  

After a month or so of this, I wanted a person. Someone to just hold me and tell me life would be okay and to just have raw sex with and unload everything in my balls as much as possible, because at least that would feel good for the moment, right? 

Escort: 

So I jump on Rent Men. $300 per hour. Had a guy come over. It was decent, I got off, and he went away. Not great not bad. Tried it a second time, same thing. At least I had someone with a pulse. 

Third time, I was in New York city which is amazing for escorts and I decided okay, let's do this the right way. I have a list of 20 requirements I want.  Handsome as fuck, masculine, square jaw, deep voice, a body like you just walked off a stage. Just raw dripping testosterone... and that's a little hard to find right. But that's when Trevor walked into my life. 

Paid for an hour. We met up and guess what? Didn't even have sex or get off. Just talked and I was too nervous and shy because I had never been around someone like him before. A day after we met up, he texts me and says "You know I do overnights, right?" and so I paid $2,400 for an overnight and it kind of changed my life. I had been a top my entire life and never got fucked, but this dude railed my lights out and I LOVED it. I didn't understand why or how guys bottom until him.  

So I go back to NYC and we do it again. Then again. After a few meetings, he basically looks at me and is like "What are you doing with your life?" -- I think he could see the depression and me not taking care of myself. My gut reaction was "I'm not paying you to question me like this!" but it sat with me. I kept thinking about the question. 

I wound up hiring him for a trip out of the USA as a 4th person for a group of three of us.  It was a lot of money but worth it. Fast forward a year and he actually made me a better person. I woke up in the morning and thought "What would Trev do?" so I hauled myself out of bed and showered and shaved and hit the gym. Then did it again. I realized that I am not just paying Trev for sex, but the value is flowing both ways. I'm getting more out of this then I am paying. 

Jose: 

So I am back in Boston and lonely. But I am doing better. I have more energy, I look better, and I see the sun and the good things and natural energy takes over in all my interactions during the day. I don't want or need a boyfriend or a relationship and that's why I was hiring, because  they go home afterwards. 

But I am horny and bored on a Friday night. There's a new escort in town I haven't seen so I get him over for an hour for $300. 

He leaves but there was a real connection. I text him after and ask if he has plans the following night, and he said he can come back. I offer $2000 for the night. 

.... and he doesn't leave. We sit on the beach watching the sun come up together. He lives in Miami and says "Come to Miami and stay with me."  Well wouldn't you know I had a conference in Miami that Wednesday, already had an Airbnb booked with work people, and flights planned. I say what the hell and take him up on the offer. I walk in the door to his apartment and it's clean, and comfortable, and feels like home. We spend the next week together each night. No payment. Nothing. 

Passionate sex. But more than that, an actual connection.  I go home and tell him to come back to Boston and go to Ptown with me in two weeks. 

One year later, I asked him how many people he invited to his house before. He said nobody. His house is his temple and he doesn't bring clients back.

Fast forward almost two years and I am now living in Miami at his place. My company went bankrupt and I lost everything, and he's here paying the bills supporting us. He said "I don't care how much money you have, I would be happy eating a sandwich with you in the room with nothing"

We are getting married soon.

Lesson: 

I'm writing this to show people that escorts are also humans. Will this happen to others? Probably not. But beyond the business transaction, they are also people with their own problems, their own life, and their own desires. I happened to find someone who was single, available, open, and fell in love with me (although I didn't know it at the time). But at the end of the day, what really matters is will they be there for you when you have nothing and the money runs out?  In my case, yes.  He was there to pay some of the bills and give me a place to live. That's how you know it's genuine and authentic. 

As far as Trevor goes -- those types of escorts are just magic. You can pay for sex, sure. But sometimes you can get so much more if you open yourself up and let it in. It isn't always about sex. He and I still keep in touch. He doesn't escort anymore and is back in Canada living his fulfilling live off of Rent.men. He will be back at some point and if you have the chance to hire him (he is easily searchable on here), don't walk, but run at the chance. He's fucking awesome. 

So that's my story. It feels good writing it. Not looking for any validation, just something to share. 

Be good guys.

Congratulations!

Thank you for sharing this with us! 

 

[+ ThroatCummer]

13 hours ago, Italiano said:

Link?

Sadly, he doesn't keep an active RentMen profile anymore --  

But here: 

 

Edited October 12, 2024 by ThroatCummer

[sociogenic]

On 10/12/2024 at 5:45 AM, Italiano said:

Link?

what @ThroatCummer said, but also he has let me know he's enjoying private life with a new relationship for the foreseeable future.

[Luv2play]

On 10/12/2024 at 5:53 PM, ThroatCummer said:

Sadly, he doesn't keep an active RentMen profile anymore --  

But here: 

 

We have someone in common as I met Trevor early in his escorting career. September of 2021. Spent an overnight with him  after an evening session the night before. I wouldn’t say he changed my life in any way as he was one in a long list of guys from Rentmen. But he was memorable. 
I had an overnight very recently with a new find which does have me hankering to see him again but he lives on the other coast of Canada so don’t know when that will be. 
I still have a pic of Trev on my phone taken in that Montreal hotel room. Very handsome and rugged guy. 

Edited October 14, 2024 by Luv2play

[Guest]

This makes me very happy for you. Congratulations. 

[+ Drew Collins]

This story REALLY made me smile.  Congratulations to you both!

What's meant to be, will be.

[BaronArtz]

Lovely, heart warming story.  Thank you for sharing.  

Did you get married?  I wish you all the best.