How many times can you cum in a day ?

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, alexslaveboy said:

I’ll be ready for round 2 pretty quickly and if it’s a longer session as I said I can go 3 or 4 times depending on how much fun we’re having. 

I'm wired exactly the same way.

It's good to hear I'm not alone. I often feel like such an outlier. Sometimes I find it difficult to make providers and even Grindr hook ups understand that just because I've cum ONCE doesn't mean I'm done !  At 53 I'm still good for three loads, over two hours if I'm having a good time. I have that same unfortunate trigger as you...where if get too excited / too fast I can shoot my first load in the first ten minutes.  Fortunately I re-load pretty quickly. Even at my more mature age.  When I was younger and hitting the sex-party scene pretty frequently, I'd manage 6 or 7 ejaculations on a fun night. My record was 8 at a particularly hot gang bang years ago. 

[+ purplekow]

I make it clear that I may want to come more than once but usually I just hold off and come right at the end so there is no confusion.  I have a regular escort who is a one and done guy and I have to be sure not to get him to come early in the session.  

[BuffaloKyle]

I'm still in my late 30's so I can cum easily 4 or 5 times in a day especially if I haven't cum the day before. I also tend to shoot a big load every time as well.

Edited September 1, 2024 by BuffaloKyle

[LookingAround]

I once hooked up with a guy on Grindr for an edging session. He came 7 times one after the other with only like a five minute rest period beteeen each edging. It was amazing. 

[Guest]

I’m admittedly not well versed in the concept of counting this statistic. To take a page out of @Vin Marcos book, I'm used to shooting where and when I want 😇.

I got my start dancing at the cock in NYC where I’d be down to shoot multiple loads in a night. Ever since it’s been one of those “if I’m feeling good and the stars align, I’m able” type of deals. Granted I might not produce as much on load 8 vs load 2, but I still jack off pretty much multiple times daily 🤪

[Simon Suraci]

On 9/1/2024 at 6:28 AM, pubic_assistance said:

I hate when you book an hour session and the provider wants to wrap things up when I cum within half hour. I've got plenty more for a round two. But guys act surprised that a 50-something can go for multiple rounds.

The norm for the majority of clients is one and done. I can get some massage clients off more than once, and they tend to be on the younger end of the spectrum, but normally just one time, regardless of age or overall health. They may want to go more but just can’t, even when they are hard again.

I think some of this dynamic has to do with the time constraints of the session. If we had longer together, maybe it would flow more naturally into two or more rounds, but everyone has a budget.

Same with escort clients. Usually one and done, and the CLIENT starts wrapping up ready to go, not me. This is why I try to pace the session so I don’t get them off too early unless they communicate that’s what they want and I oblige.

For those of you like @pubic_assistance, communicate with your escort or masseur that you want to go again. I’m happy to entertain my clients for as long as they want within the time they are paying for. You may want to extend your session when you’re really having a good time and want to keep going. Ask to extend.

The norm is one and done. It may not be that your guy is trying to cut your time or enjoyment short. He’s just used to one and done clients and unless you communicate, it’s really easy for him to miss your cues and fall into his rhythm of wrapping up after the first orgasm.

[Durk]

I can cum three times in a hour. But usually don't cum more than 8 times a day. 

[pubic_assistance]

11 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

I’m happy to entertain my clients for as long as they want within the time they are paying for.

Unfortunately not everyone gets that. A lot of providers are wrapping things up as soon as I shoot my (first) load. 

[alrajee]

Purely masturbating, three times. 

If there's sex involved, add another one or two.

[+ FrankR]

On 10/26/2024 at 9:41 AM, LookingAround said:

I once hooked up with a guy on Grindr for an edging session. He came 7 times one after the other with only like a five minute rest period beteeen each edging. It was amazing. 

Dare I say: you had fun but you didnt understand the assignment...  The idea behind edging is to build up, continue to build up and build up some more, staying on the edge to get to the point of one big blow.   😉

[pubic_assistance]

14 minutes ago, FrankR said:

Dare I say: you had fun but you didnt understand the assignment...  The idea behind edging is to build up, continue to build up and build up some more, staying on the edge to get to the point of one big blow.   😉

Difficult to believe this claim of 7 ejaculations within 45 minutes....so not so sure this event even happened (in anything but his head).

[LookingAround]

30 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Difficult to believe this claim of 7 ejaculations within 45 minutes....so not so sure this event even happened (in anything but his head).

lol. Believe what you want or not. Who cares what you believe. I was there and lived it.

[Whippoorwill]

@pubic_assistance thanks for starting this thread…it’s pretty awe-inspiring. I think I’d better go jerk off. 

[Simon Suraci]

On 11/17/2024 at 3:53 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Difficult to believe this claim of 7 ejaculations within 45 minutes....so not so sure this event even happened (in anything but his head).

It’s rare, but possible. My clients practicing their tantric sexual techniques can orgasm many times in an hour with or without ejaculation(s). Often most/all of these orgasms are non-ejaculatory. When you get into the right rhythm and you have developed the practice over time, multiple orgasms are possible. 8-12 in a session is not crazy. It takes experience, intense self awareness, and the right situation to get there.

[pubic_assistance]

4 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said:

Often most/all of these orgasms are non-ejaculatory.

This sounds like something from a Lesbian self awareness retreat. 

[Simon Suraci]

5 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

This sounds like something from a Lesbian self awareness retreat. 

LOL, don’t knock what you’ve never tried!

It feels amazing. A lot of men never get there over the course of their lives. What a shame. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea either. That’s fine.

I might suggest diverging slightly from the topic discussion from “CAN” to “How many times do you WANT to cum in a day? And HOW?”

If you were able to cum as much as you want and how you want, what would be your ideal? Under what circumstances, types of stimuli (or lack of), and how long are the refractory periods (if any). What types of orgasms? Long? Short? Intense? Mild? Ejaculatory, dry, prostate? Any mix or order of any of the above? Can you cum with no physical stimulation at all, and would you want to?

Have you ever achieved your ideal day, and how did it differ from what you wanted or expected? 

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, Simon Suraci said:

I might suggest diverging slightly from the topic discussion from “CAN” to “How many times do you WANT to cum in a day?

Let's not.

The question is about physiological ability of men to ejaculate multiple times.

People's desire to cum dry like a lesbian isnt the least bit interesting to me.

 

[ShortCutie7]

Honestly, especially while receiving oral, sometimes I cum without even realizing I’m cumming.  I guess I’ve never experienced a full-body orgasm because the sensation is not particularly intense.  With that, I can cum multiple times a day.

[Simon Suraci]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

Let's not.

Fair enough. I’ll have to start a separate thread then. It’s interesting to some of us, and not to others.

[Simon Suraci]

4 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

Fair enough. I’ll have to start a separate thread then. It’s interesting to some of us, and not to others.

Here is the thread:

Your ideal orgasms per day

[pubic_assistance]

OK.....so now that @Simon Suraci has come-out as a lesbian...let's get back to the subject at hand.

How many times can you cum in a day ?

Sex parties used to be so much fun where you could instantly meet a new guy every few minutes. How many times could you recharge for another hot fuck ?

My record was 8 in one (particularly hot) night at a gang-bang.

[PileDriver]

well pubic_assitance that seems like an admission of lesbian tendencies on your part...you ejaculated 8 times in one night? full on fluid? lol. maybe 8 guys shot inside you? your memory is hazy at best

[borgerback]

16 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

Fair enough. I’ll have to start a separate thread then. It’s interesting to some of us, and not to others.

Wow!  I guess if I want to talk about 'ruined' orgasms or post-orgasm play, I'd better head over to the Fetish Forum!  (And this is just for fun, for that is the right place to put such a discussion).  

[viewing ownly]

I like to build up my ejaculation when I'm slated to be with someone else intimately. For my own body, I don't want to be edged, as this messes with my output significantly, or leads to a premature release. 

As far as the question of how many times, I'm presuming this is meant as individual time frames rather than the volume of the exploding spurts. I love being the envy of "dribblers" by being a shooter, and will never use hair follicle growth products, as they are known to turn shooters into dribblers. 

Two (time frames) in a day is an extreme rarity. My spurt count varies from two to eight, tops. My distance can be dangerous (wink).

[pubic_assistance]

1 minute ago, viewing ownly said:

I'm presuming this is meant as individual time frames rather than the volume of the exploding spurts

Yes. Frequency of ejactulations over the course of a day ( or within a few hours of play time ) was the original intention of my question. 

But it's also interesting to hear about "distance". 

I do love a big shooter. ( I always take it as a compliment ) 😉