How do escorts handle cleanliness?

[carolus]

For escorts who top, how do you handle clients who aren't clean down there? We all know shit happens, both literally and metaphorically, and even when a person usually tries to clean themselves. Isn't off-putting? How can it not kill your boners?

[+ Jamie21]

Clean up, tell him it’s all ok and carry on in whatever way he wishes. In my experience if it happens it’s the bottom who feels bad and then prefers to play in other ways (if atall) thereafter. It’s something that happens sometimes and you shouldn’t make a big deal of it. Even if he’s experienced at douching things can go wrong. 

[56harrisond]

Some previous discussions:

 

[carolus]

1 hour ago, Jamie21 said:

Clean up, tell him it’s all ok and carry on in whatever way he wishes. In my experience if it happens it’s the bottom who feels bad and then prefers to play in other ways (if atall) thereafter. It’s something that happens sometimes and you shouldn’t make a big deal of it. Even if he’s experienced at douching things can go wrong. 

For sure, it's always intentional. It's happened to us all at some time, but all the same it must be grating, no?

[+ Jamie21]

6 minutes ago, carolus said:

For sure, it's always intentional. It's happened to us all at some time, but all the same it must be grating, no?

Not grating no. I don’t think that’s how I’ve felt when it’s happened. I felt awkward because sometimes you have to tell him it’s dirty and that’s kind of difficult. I remember one time I pulled out and it was a bit dirty so I wiped his bum as discreetly as I could but he said ‘oh is it ok?’ and I had to say ‘no it’s a little bit messy’ and he then wanted to shower and douche some more. That usually doesn’t work because you need to douche and then let things settle down before trying anything again.

Other times I’ve felt sorry for the guy, because he’s usually embarrassed by it. The session often ends at that point because he doesn’t want to continue but I don’t mind if he wants to clean up and carry on doing things other than penetration. 

[carolus]

53 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Not grating no. I don’t think that’s how I’ve felt when it’s happened. I felt awkward because sometimes you have to tell him it’s dirty and that’s kind of difficult. I remember one time I pulled out and it was a bit dirty so I wiped his bum as discreetly as I could but he said ‘oh is it ok?’ and I had to say ‘no it’s a little bit messy’ and he then wanted to shower and douche some more. That usually doesn’t work because you need to douche and then let things settle down before trying anything again.

Other times I’ve felt sorry for the guy, because he’s usually embarrassed by it. The session often ends at that point because he doesn’t want to continue but I don’t mind if he wants to clean up and carry on doing things other than penetration. 

It's good you have that level of understanding. Doesn't even the smell bother you? lol

[+ Jamie21]

7 minutes ago, carolus said:

It's good you have that level of understanding. Doesn't even the smell bother you? lol

Oh yes the smell isn’t good! That’s probably worse thing lol. 

[Boygeorge]

On 7/7/2024 at 10:12 PM, Jamie21 said:

Oh yes the smell isn’t good! That’s probably worse thing lol. 

As long as you pay, they dont care! They are just whores!

[+ Jamie21]

2 minutes ago, Boygeorge said:

As long as you pay, they dont care! They are just whores!

Well yes that’s true. It’s a great job. I love it. 

[Monarchy79]

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[hungry4darkmeat]

Had my top master and his friend for our first tag team session on his birthday last year and despite having fasted and cleaned out repeatedly for some reason almost as soon as his friend started fucking me there was a nasty smell that signaled a problem - I’ve been around the block so many times I usually just get cleaned up and get back to it but this time my body was not cooperating so I let them go and took it as a loss. Turns out I had a gall stone that was infected and I had to get it removed.  When your body acts in an unusual way you should pay attention.

I could tell so many stories but its no secret that butt stuff can result in a shitty situation. Don’t let it bother you too much it’s part of life and it’s natural.

[hungry4darkmeat]

Best situation ever was a pro who sensed the issue coming and had me go get cleaned up and then got right back to work on this ass. When I offered other options he said no I want more pussy and I made sure there was flushed clean with nothing else in me before he went buck wild on me. So unbothered- he handled it perfectly