Site or App for Reviewing Clients

[Trick]

Has anyone found the website, forum, or app where clients are reviewed instead of providers?  I met a guy who told me about it but he wouldn’t give me details.

[56harrisond]

 

[+ Jamie21]

6 hours ago, Trick said:

Has anyone found the website, forum, or app where clients are reviewed instead of providers?  I met a guy who told me about it but he wouldn’t give me details.

You have 3* on there (out of 5*) not bad but I think you need to up your game a little to get to 4*.  Tip better, do more groaning and say “harder… ugh it’s so big”  regularly during the session, and arch your back more when you’re on your front. Otherwise you seem to have some decent reviews on there (except for the 1* in Sep,23…what happened there? I guess we can all have a bad day).

I can’t share the website because of data protection laws. But if you keep doing a good job as a client I’m sure your rating will improve. 

Seriously though! …no such site exists. No one is interested in rating clients, there’s no practical way to organise it since there’s no register or website of clients advertising their potential custom. All anyone cares about is whether a client is going to be a time waster, refuse to pay or is crazy (or all 3 which is usually the case). You can tell that when they contact you 99% of the time. There are some sites where the phone number of seriously troubled individuals are shared so that guys know who they are but these don’t ‘rate’ clients. It’s solely from a safety and security perspective. 
 

 

 

 

[Trick]

3 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Seriously though! …no such site exists.

I don’t remember how many but there were providers who’ve told me about a such a site, but they just won’t identify it. 
 

Some have hinted at it.

[soloyo215]

4 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Seriously though! …no such site exists. No one is interested in rating clients, there’s no practical way to organise it since there’s no register or website of clients advertising their potential custom.

I agree with this. Especially this being an unrecognized (legally speaking) profession.

I've heard of Mr. Number that uses the phone number that the client uses as the means for client identification. I believe that the proper use of that type of communication can be useful for providers in terms of personal safety. That is, if/when used ethically. One of my providers mentioned that he knows of more than one provider who have posted negative information about a client in an attempt at keeping them, so they don't go to other providers (shady bitch!). So the same issue that we have with review of providers might exist in review sites for clients.

All we all can do (IMO) is reduce risk as much as possible. No tool is going to be immune to being misused and exploited. Just my thoughts.

[+ Jamie21]

3 hours ago, Trick said:

I don’t remember how many but there were providers who’ve told me about a such a site, but they just won’t identify it. 
 

Some have hinted at it.

Maybe they’re teasing you? Or it genuinely is just the site for sharing the number of known trouble makers?  

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Mr Number is the one that many clients seem to know about.

There are also private Facebook groups, message boards and Reddit subthreads. 

Those are the ones clients don't know about.

Edited June 4, 2024 by BenjaminNicholas

[TallMuscl37]

12 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Mr Number is the one that many clients seem to know about.

There are also private Facebook groups, message boards and Reddit subthreads. 

Those are the ones clients don't know about.

And best one of all: my old text messages that I save FOREVER. So when the same client who flaked, appears 2 years later acting like everything is all cool…I can remind him, “back in 2021, you were scheduled at 9 p.m. and didn’t show up. How would you like to pay for that 😂 

[CuriousByNature]

9 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

And best one of all: my old text messages that I save FOREVER. So when the same client who flaked, appears 2 years later acting like everything is all cool…I can remind him, “back in 2021, you were scheduled at 9 p.m. and didn’t show up. How would you like to pay for that 😂 

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[carolus]

Most tend to be for escorts only. they tend to ask for proof of being an escort before they let them in. 

From what escorts say, they don't badmouth the clients there, but they just talk about who is pleasant or dangerous, or a timewaster or not. 

 

 

[+ ThroatCummer]

Clients can easily change numbers and emails and profiles (if they have them).  You're the product/service, they're the purchaser. You don't see Amazon or Wal-Mart reviewing their customers, although they do keep internal databases of blacklisted numbers, names, addresses, etc. A business in general (say a restaurant, toy store, or [insert small business here]) doesn't want to blanket ban the public/new customers based on what another competing business across town says about them. Yes, the playing field isn't equal and there is Mr. Number and other things, but in general, what you're seeking doesn't exist. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

I do know that providers who meet in person discuss their clients or ask questions about them.

But I'm not present when that happens,  nor do I plan to be.

[+ Jamie21]

On 6/5/2024 at 5:44 AM, Jarrod_Uncut said:

And best one of all: my old text messages that I save FOREVER. So when the same client who flaked, appears 2 years later acting like everything is all cool…I can remind him, “back in 2021, you were scheduled at 9 p.m. and didn’t show up. How would you like to pay for that 😂 

I do the same! Very effective. Some guys ask every 12 months or so. Same things happen every time…. He messages: “Hi”…..then nothing for a few hours then “Looking for a massage” (I feel like replying “tell me when you find it”) but I play along. Next he asks “any pics?”. I send my website details. Then he asks “how much?” (It’s on my website but he obviously only looked at the pics), so I send the rates. Next it’s “when are you free?”. By now I’ve given up hope but I reply “10 am to late weekdays, daytime Saturday”. Then nothing for a day or so until he replies “any more pics?”. I reply “you asked the same questions 12m ago, and then 15m before that”. Usually he then goes quiet for a year 😂. There’s a few of these guys…each follows a well established pattern. 

Then there’s the guys who book every 6 months or so but cancel on the day or day before with some excuse like they’re unwell or the dog is having its leg amputated or something. These are the ‘I booked when horny but am now too scared to come’ brigade. 6m later they’re back, with no mention of the previous few cancellations, because they built up their courage again. I have to say to them “you’ve booked then cancelled 3 times now…are you sure you really want to book or can I help you overcome any anxiety?”. That usually results in them going away. 
 

[Simon Suraci]

I have pretty much the same experience as @Jamie21 above. After a few rounds of nonsense, perhaps over months or years, I call them out directly and it makes the problem go away for good.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

The smart guys are the ones who use mail passthroughs that can keep track of IP addresses and an obvious cloak attempt.

Most guys who play games aren't smart enough to remember to keep their IP from popping up. 

Eventually, they all slip-up.  Hubris makes people sloppy.