Gay Escort you used to see all the time but not anymore

[D21howie]

Good morning.  We have talked about escorts we have seen on a regular basis.  Let’s talk about escorts you have seen on a regular basis at one time but don’t anymore due to a falling out or retirement, etc.

[+ keroscenefire]

There's quite a few for me and unfortunately I think another one pretty soon. I live in Denver and its such a transitory city that a lot of guys just seem to only live here for a couple years before they move away. The handsome, chill and fun Wesley Steele is about to move back to Atlanta (where he is from originally) so you GA men, definitely reach out to him as he's a great guy. 

 

But there are many others: SexyMexican, MuscleAlex, GianniLegno (still active but no longer travels down to Denver much) and a few others. 

Edited June 2, 2024 by keroscenefire

[big-n-tall]

Most of the guys I've seen regularly, whom I no longer see, retired or stop escorting for one reason or another. By chance, some I still see sexually and some strictly on a platonic basis.

There was only one guy who still escorts currently and openly, that I don't see anymore. He's an off and on member of the forum. He just stopped responding to me, with no real explanation why. I could probably surmise why, but it was his choice to cut off contact. I bear him no ill will. I'm glad to see he's thriving and is as popular as ever, but I'd never hire him again... even if he explained why. Such is life.

This hobby can very transitory. People come and go. There were guys I was sad to see go like Alec (retired), Andrew Irons (who just stopped escorting without warning), and Johnny Ryder (who also stopped escorting abruptly) to name a few. I can't complain too much because as I mentioned some of the guys who stopped entirely, I still get to see in one way or another. Some becoming really good friends in the process.

 

Edited June 2, 2024 by big-n-tall

[Trick]

AlexFL - lost touch after COVID

Cade Maddox - couldn’t afford him anymore.  My first bookings with him were for 165.  When he got free from Jason Sparks, he raised it to 200.  Now I heard it starts at 1K.

Zac Zaven - don’t know what happened to him.

MarcoJock - he took kissing off.

Edited June 2, 2024 by Trick

[Charles]

 

23 minutes ago, Trick said:

Cade Maddox - couldn’t afford him anymore.  My first booking with him was 165.  When he got free from Jason Sparks, he raised it to 200.  Now I heard it starts at 1K.

He has lost his goddamn mind.... catch him on grindr at any of the gay weekends, agree to film with him and it will be FREE 

[manorbrown]

Woody in Nashville was my absolute favorite...checked all my boxes and I think I low-key fell in love with him 🙂. He retired a while ago and we just connected on IG...happy to report he's in a good place in his life and is doing well.  

[+ JEC]

@VictorPowers, ah that chiseled body, voluptuous ass, and his sweet serving demeanor.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

1 hour ago, Charles said:

He has lost his goddamn mind.... catch him on grindr at any of the gay weekends, agree to film with him and it will be FREE 

You act as if just anyone is camera-ready material for filming. 

He's looking for a TYPE for the freebie.  That type doesn't exist here.

[Passionproject]

5 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

You act as if just anyone is camera-ready material for filming. 

He's looking for a TYPE for the freebie.  That type doesn't exist here.

Ouch Ben! These are just names and handles. Maybe one of us is his type and maybe even yours   The use of RM has many purposes and attracts guys for a host of reasons…I’d like to think I’m easy on the eyes. Agree with you that most ppl aren’t camera ready. I’d imagine it’s not easy performing when there’s a lens there. 

I have no comment on Cade. He is sexy but I’ve never considered his rates or him generally. Some guys are best just left on the screen. 
 

[Passionproject]

4 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

But you did have a comment on Cade.  A rather pointed one. 

You opened with he lost his goddamn mind, so I figured you could handle my little ol' reply.

Perhaps someone here would gain the freebie, but that was beside my point.

Think you’re confusing me for another contributor. I didn’t make any comment regarding Cade. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

1 minute ago, Passionproject said:

Think you’re confusing me for another contributor. I didn’t make any comment regarding Cade. 

Shit.  You're absolutely right.  My apologies.

Have you done anything wrong lately in your personal life I can harp on instead?

[Passionproject]

18 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Shit.  You're absolutely right.  My apologies.

Have you done anything wrong lately in your personal life I can harp on instead?

Yes…missed you by a day in an overlapping city. Please reprimand me. 

[Charles]

1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

You act as if just anyone is camera-ready material for filming. 

He's looking for a TYPE for the freebie.  That type doesn't exist here.

He's tried 3x with me... so apparently I exist on here...

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

3 minutes ago, Charles said:

He's tried 3x with me... so apparently I exist on here...

[lanyc]

Welp. Another possibly interesting thread gone awry. 

Sigh.

[viewing ownly]

9 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

You act as if just anyone is camera-ready material for filming. 

He's looking for a TYPE for the freebie.  That type doesn't exist here.

NOT TRUE. Isn't there.....you?

[+ FrankR]

16 hours ago, big-n-tall said:

Most of the guys I've seen regularly, whom I no longer see, retired or stop escorting for one reason or another. By chance, some I still see sexually and some strictly on a platonic basis.

There was only one guy who still escorts currently and openly, that I don't see anymore. He's an off and on member of the forum. He just stopped responding to me, with no real explanation why. I could probably surmise why, but it was his choice to cut off contact. I bear him no ill will. I'm glad to see he's thriving and is as popular as ever, but I'd never hire him again... even if he explained why. Such is life.

This hobby can very transitory. People come and go. There were guys I was sad to see go like Alec (retired), Andrew Irons (who just stopped escorting without warning), and Johnny Ryder (who also stopped escorting abruptly) to name a few. I can't complain too much because as I mentioned some of the guys who stopped entirely, I still get to see in one way or another. Some becoming really good friends in the process.

 

Not going to name any names, but much like you there are a number of men I had spent time with over the years who retired or relocated or got married. Most I still keep in touch with and they know my door is open to them.  

[Becket]

I miss Tristian Waters out of Orlando. He was a wonderful escort.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

13 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

NOT TRUE. Isn't there.....you?

This was the self-deprecating moment I've been waiting for

[+ azdr0710]

nitpicking bastard that I am, I'm wondering if the word "gay" is even necessary in the subject title.......many providers don't identify that way and I think the gist of the thread was to simply discuss any provider we used to see ("gay" or not so much).....carry on!

by the way, Ricky Decker........last met with him just a few days before he realized he needed to definitely move on........really fun and easy to hang out with him.....he's still local and working hard in a 9-5 job

Edited June 4, 2024 by azdr0710

[Decatur Guy]

I like having a small circle of regulars (3 to 4), and I rarely have regulars that I actively drop. Various reasons why it ends:

1.  Provider quits the business altogether.

2. Provider moves to another city.

3. Sadly, death one time.

4. Providers changes the parameters of meeting. (For instance, one guy I like a lot wants a week's notice. I'm just not in a position to offer that. Another's price doubled. I just couldn't afford that steep an increase). 

5. Sometimes there's just a drifting away with no real reason.

Now I have deliberately quit reaching out to a few who radically changed what's on offer or stood me up several times in a row or got mad because I met with other providers. But usually if I'm a regular with someone and then I'm not, it's usually a change on the provider's end, not mine.

Edited June 3, 2024 by Decatur Guy

[robberbaron4u]

1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

This was the self-deprecating moment I've been waiting for

Cade Dade is the proverbial "dog" in comparison with BenjaminNicholas. 

[Whatsupandstuff]

DR MIKE

VALENTINO

TJ

 

[lanyc]

We're back! Nice job, gentlemen!

[+ ProGay]

On 6/2/2024 at 5:02 PM, BenjaminNicholas said:

Shit.  You're absolutely right.  My apologies.

Have you done anything wrong lately in your personal life I can harp on instead?

The biggest laugh of my day - many thanks, young man!