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9 hours ago, guru68 said:

"Unavailable

Not taking any farther requests"

 

I guess he either got a job or found Mr. Sweet. I'm going to assume that he misspelled 'further' rather than 'father'.

Farther and further are both legitimate words. Further is used for both literal and figurative distance (or in this case to mean additional) whereas farther is only used to mean a literal distance (Sydney is farther from Honolulu than New York is). So, long story short, he didn't make a spelling mistake, he used the wrong word.

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2 hours ago, mike carey said:

Farther and further are both legitimate words. Further is used for both literal and figurative distance (or in this case to mean additional) whereas farther is only used to mean a literal distance (Sydney is farther from Honolulu than New York is). So, long story short, he didn't make a spelling mistake, he used the wrong word.

Or perhaps he's just tired of all that time sitting in first class.

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On 5/3/2024 at 6:07 AM, Coolwave35 said:

I don’t think that this statement can be true. In my personal experience, (not escorting) when a client starts with how much will it be, it’s because they have a problem affording it, OR they still use money as a resource things should be measured by.  When you get to a place where financial freedom allows time to become the resource by which to measure everything, you stop asking “how much” in my experience.  There are escorts that only want to target those people.  I think that may be what he’s doing, and God bless him, that’s the level of service he offers so more power to him. Only one provider I’ve come across in 20 years has been better. 

Every time I’ve been at Walmart or Target and the person in front of me asks the cashier to scan something for a price, 80% of the time they don’t buy it.  I’ve been around lots of folks with money and lots of folks without. No rich person has ever asked the waitress how much the dinner special was simply because they wanted to know. 

When I’m hiring, my last sentence after agreeing to terms is always “Thanks for making that so easy! I want to be prepared for our meeting, how much cash should I have with me?”  And then they tell me. 

When I was spending time with this provider, we’d go shopping to Best Buy. He didn’t ask me for a budget, he just picked what he wanted. When we went shopping in Paris, we went into the designer stores and picked what he looked good in. The only thing he wanted that I didn’t say yes to was a gold Louis Vuitton bangle bracelet and it wasn’t the price that had me say no.

When we picked out the French provider to join us one evening, we didn’t sort by lowest priced. We picked the guy we were both into and got him there quickly. 

This isn’t a dig at anyone for being price conscious. I certainly was until I wasn’t. It’s merely an observation of what I see in my experience of a minority of clients and how they shop. 

There was an influencer I was REALLY into visually. I liked his content. I wanted to meet him. I DM’d him and said I want to meet you this weekend and I’ll Venmo a $3k deposit. He said “what if I don’t show”. I said then you’ll lose a follower.  That’s your risk. But if you do show, you’ll gain much more than that. He showed. 

These guys know how to get what they’re looking for, and they follow their intuition. I’ve gotten 2 PMs already from people that went for the $1k and weren’t disappointed. They also got more than an hour. 
 

“does anyone actually like Anderson Cooper?” 

I want to hear more about this provider and the trip to Paris. I find that topic interesting. Also, I'm watching his RM and if he becomes available will contact him about meeting in NYC. Now about the other :). I'm not taking him to Paris but can pay what he requests and would be up to repeat sessions until of course he finds a lucrative job at which point I know I'll never hear from him again. I know that is how it (usually) ends up.

Real wealth to me includes a calmness of knowing that current and future bills/wants/desires are covered. I can sense that. I'm NOT saying I'm sensing real wealth or not about any member of this site. Just sharing something I've thought about as I've become more philosophical about being calm, generational wealth and how to better treat/interact/evaluate people. 

Ok, can I please have more information about the Paris trip and/or the provider? Lastly, did I read right that you have left this gentleman in your will or another member said that. Darn nice to do that, does the provider know?

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38 minutes ago, guru68 said:

Or perhaps he's just tired of all that time sitting in first class.

I want foreign based airlines to be able to fly between U.S. cities so we can experience real First class domestically. Too often I think "this isn't really First class, it is just better than the ecomony seats behind me".

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You can see on his IG that he's seasoned in the East Coast "network" of IG boys for discreet hire and notable, busy, gentlemen who connoisseur them. That's why he was expecting/asking $1k+... for anyone familiar that grade/class/style/type of guy seeks most of his work through social media DM, probably started their career being brought in by friends as "party favors"  with "VIP" gentlemen either at private parties or the obvious circuit parties run by "promoters," where the standard is the boys leave with envelopes or Venmos of a few grand and connections with new hot guys to hookup with, earn with, and the daddies and gents who scheduled dates, followed on social media, etc.

This is where things can get touchy.. the guys who are DL bi, "gay for pay", ambiguous, etc. often can continue to command multigrand prices if they are good at the game. The gay ones, being naturally more fluid and comfortable with the environment to party and play (and not infrequently, maybe, addendum erotic interest in cleancut successful gentlemen in a range of age and range of nerdiness to glamorousness), often end up maneuvering a range from multi hundreds ($500+, enough to be ~above~ an average escort via RM or porn, but selectively as coveted) to a few thousand when and where they can maintain the interest. Things like follower count/popularity/known exclusivity/ who you've shot with or modeled for/ if you're actually signed with an agency/ and where you're based etc. are all factors in effect for what you may negotiate or pay with these kinds of guys. This provider is Ivy educated it seems? Absolutely contributes to his expectations. There are very discreet "agents" or networkers who seek this out as well to groom the type of guy for professional or exclusive dates with all manner of successful and discreet guy some of whom may be on this forum but I deduce most are not. 

Like someone mentioned, they met this provider for less than $1000, didn't surprise me, but I'd bet it wasn't the $300 escort "standard". Similarly know a kept boy of a certain gay Hollywood bigshot still meeting interested parties for $500 dates despite presenting as the $1k+ type standard. The Brazilian babe surcharge NY-FL mentioned here on other threads is often because of this too. They're balancing interest via social media and, discreet or not, ads on RM.

This provider didn't get on RM delusionally expecting $1k, he was already groomed that way. I'm guessing the recent change in profile is because he's tired of the seedier enquiries via RM from guys maxing out at $400. Likely, one could reach him via IG DM for business but expect that $1k price tag in place or at least his starting point. It's not arrogance per se, mind you -it becomes something of a competition and discreet status game to be commanding the highest and most exotic offers, to be sought after for these parties... and subseqently presenting the most fabulous life online. None wants to be the one caught lowering their business to "whore" levels, and that often becomes an inside joke only for and among themselves.

Major extra caveat here is how this all works out when factoring international marketplace prices etc. but that's for a different tangent. 

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I once saw a beautiful italian muscle gogo boy stripper who also played on the side and he told me he gets invited to execs homes in northern NJ or Long Island where there are a bunch of other hot muscle boys available for fun. His rate to me at the time was $500 but I suspect he would be earning at least 1K per short session these days. 

PS: I saw him recently and he really ruined himself with steroids. I couldn't recognize his face.

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2 hours ago, cany10011 said:

I once saw a beautiful italian muscle gogo boy stripper who also played on the side and he told me he gets invited to execs homes in northern NJ or Long Island where there are a bunch of other hot muscle boys available for fun. His rate to me at the time was $500 but I suspect he would be earning at least 1K per short session these days. 

PS: I saw him recently and he really ruined himself with steroids. I couldn't recognize his face.

So many of them just don't know when to stop.

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1 hour ago, BonVivant said:

That was fast. I think a $ugdaddy took him. Prolly from this site?

Rent due on the 1st of the month with a very small "window" grace period before the landlord comes knocking at the door wanting his money. Think substantial markdown on rack rate hopeful of a taker or, perhaps, residency on the curb.

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