socurious Posted April 10 Share Posted April 10 (edited) Is it okay if the escort asks for a deposit after a client cancels hours in advance? How do feel about it? I'm genuinely curious. Edited April 10 by socurious Medin, MikeBiDude and + Vegas_Millennial 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted April 10 Share Posted April 10 I don't think that's standard, for escorts to ask. However, I personally send them something if I have to cut at the last minute. I recall an escort who went off on me because he couldn't find his way around the city and complained about the cold, and said I should pay him money since he claimed he tried but couldn't visit me. But with that attitude, all he got from me was a block. + Pensant, + Vegas_Millennial and dcguy20 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted April 10 Share Posted April 10 I wouldn't consider it an intuitive business model to try to get a deposit AFTER a missed meeting. It's the reason you ask for the deposit beforehand. It's incentive-based collateral to make someone keep their schedule. If a client flakes, he flakes. If the excuse is an understandable one, you make the call as to giving him another shot. If not, you just move on. I don't tend to dwell on those who have wasted my time. + Vegas_Millennial, + FrankR, Jarrod_Uncut and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acks0104 Posted April 10 Share Posted April 10 No. No services were provided. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
socurious Posted April 10 Author Share Posted April 10 27 minutes ago, acks0104 said: No. No services were provided. 36 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said: I don't think that's standard, for escorts to ask. However, I personally send them something if I have to cut at the last minute. I recall an escort who went off on me because he couldn't find his way around the city and complained about the cold, and said I should pay him money since he claimed he tried but couldn't visit me. But with that attitude, all he got from me was a block. But cancelling twice in a row when you are just visiting? Hmmmm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trick Posted April 11 Share Posted April 11 (edited) It shouldn’t be called a deposit, because a deposit conveys the idea of service or products expected to be received. I would call it a cancellation charge or penalty. In my case, I have delivered escorts’ donations at a later time after I have canceled appointments set it stone. I don’t do it out of guilt but I just don’t want the provider losing income for the time he reserved for me. Edited April 11 by Trick Luv2play and + Pensant 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acks0104 Posted April 11 Share Posted April 11 If an escort offers a "deposit" to clients when cancelling last minute, they're free to do so and then ask that clients do the same in return. I highly doubt any escorts are willing to do that though Thique 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ FrankR Posted April 11 Share Posted April 11 1 hour ago, socurious said: But cancelling twice in a row when you are just visiting? Hmmmm I dont understand. Do you mean he was going to hire you twice and cancelled both times…and now he wants another appointment so you want a deposit for appoinment number 3? Bottom line: you can do what you want as long as the customer agrees to the terms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ JamesB Posted April 11 Share Posted April 11 I've only had to cancel an appointment with very short notice once. I offered to pay the provider whatever cancellation fee he deemed appropriate, but he declined, which I found very gracious of him. When we eventually met a few days later, I made sure to give him a substantial tip. Simon Suraci, + Pensant, peter831 and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jarrod_Uncut Posted April 11 Share Posted April 11 6 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said: I wouldn't consider it an intuitive business model to try to get a deposit AFTER a missed meeting. Yeah that would be called a cancellation fee… Luv2play 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jarrod_Uncut Posted April 11 Share Posted April 11 3 hours ago, JamesB said: I've only had to cancel an appointment with very short notice once. I offered to pay the provider whatever cancellation fee he deemed appropriate, but he declined, which I found very gracious of him. When we eventually met a few days later, I made sure to give him a substantial tip. That is very gracious. However, long as people understand that it shouldn’t be “expected” for all providers to be okay with eating the possibility of a cancelled session. Lot of times, people cancel/flake and offer nothing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted April 11 Share Posted April 11 A few times over the years I’ve sent at least an hour’s cancellation fee to particularly sweet and engaging providers when I’ve had to cancel at the last minute. I felt I owed it to them and they were exceedingly grateful. When we finally met, it was an epic experience! + KensingtonHomo, + JamesB, Luv2play and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted April 11 Share Posted April 11 13 hours ago, socurious said: But cancelling twice in a row when you are just visiting? Hmmmm You didn’t say that at the outset when you posed your question. What else are you holding back? socurious 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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