When your favorite/go-to-guy retires...

[rojjodc]

Several of my favs retired around the first covid and I am not really seeing providers that I am interested in.  For those that no longer get services from their favs due to retirement, how have you fund a new fav?  By scouring through the site, trying out many new ones, or traveling to a city where one of your fav still in business lives?

[dbar123]

It’s fun to occasionally road test new people 

[amused1]

Ask your current go to guys for recommendations. Another option is to book a 3some with your go to and someone new. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

One retires and you find a replacement.

If no replacement exists, you either deal with it or try other avenues (dating/hookup apps, etc).

[BonVivant]

On 3/11/2024 at 3:24 PM, rojjodc said:

By scouring through the site, trying out many new ones

Yes and yes. How else do you find a replacement?

[BaronArtz]

Several of my favs retired but continue to see me.  Except one, who married and now has 2 kids.  It is always good to have several favs, not just one.  

But yes, I understand that it can be annoying if several retire at the same time.

[+ DrownedBoy]

The biggest problem I have is finding providers who I'd want as a new regular. 

 

Younger escorts don't seem to realize how valuable regulars are, and I've had potential regulars blow me off, even after several meetings. Idiots.

[DWnyc]

Ive noticed the same thing re younger providers less interested in regulars. Seems like hookup culture where part of the excitement seems to demand someone new.  A lot of Penny wise pound foolish behavior as well.

[rojjodc]

I admit my preferences in looks remained the same but male etiquette has shifted to what I consider excessive tattoos and excessive hair everywhere.  Although one of my favs had both, it seems that just about every guy wants to tattoo themselves in multiple parts of their body, sometimes even their face.  There's this one nicely built dancer at Johnsons Wilton Manors but he has tattoos all over including his face.  I happened to watch a Terry Photo 1988 bodybuilding video (on Youtube and I'm surprised it hasn't been removed) and it was a bit jarring in a good way to me how few of the bodybuilders had tattoos in those days compared with today's scene.