masseurs that travel together - but don't work together

[viewing ownly]

More and more often, I'm seeing masseurs who visit cities at the same time, clearly traveling together, but do NOT offer 4-hand massage at all. I've experienced this first back in 2020 with a couple of Texas masseurs who were boyfriends, separate ads, and made it clear they do not work on clients together with me in a private conversation, not in their ad.

I'm seeing this now with a couple of guys who are in Massachusetts at the time. Is the primary reason of this to maximize their income by only working separately, or is it more so that they don't want the potential of getting frisky with one another, leaving you oiled up, horny, and disappointed?

While the feeling of four hands at once seems like a fantasy,  I've only known of one masseur ever who was willing to do 2 30 minute sessions apiece back-to-back for the same hourly rate, two different bodies in one hour, which is the opposite of having 1 4-hand massage, but 4 times less expensive.

[soloyo215]

I don't think that those providers who travel together but don't work together do so for the same reasons. It could be agreements between them, setting boundaries in whatever kind of relationship that they have, or they just travel together for other conveniences and don't really get along. I think about times when I've been sent to conferences with coworkers that I cannot stand, and we are polite and professional throughout the entire time, but there's no way I'm sharing anything social (leave alone sensual or sexual - ILK!!!) with any of them. I imagine that some providers treat each other as coworkers, with some level of detachment, maybe to avoid possible conflicts. I don't think the reasons are the same for all of those who travel with a partner.

4-hand massages don't do it for me, but there are providers who offer them, and some who are willing to partner with others. In a conversation I had with one of my providers, he mentioned that he's willing to work with another provider for a 4-hand massage. I have no interest so I didn't follow up on that conversation.

If the issue is that they like each other too much to the point that they start getting it on and neglect the client, then I think it's on your best interest to not have it (unless you get off by seeing that). Neither scenario is good if it forces the provider to work with a partner that they rather not, or a partner that they can't get enough of.

Just my thoughts.

Edited December 20, 2023 by soloyo215

[dbar123]

They might just have different styles that are hard to synchronize. 
 

 

[+ JEC]

Maybe they are a couple, and prefer to work separately?

 

[Shawn Monroe]

Speaking from experience, doing this by yourself can be lonely and isolating. At the very least, having someone to travel, eat, and share the experience with can make it less so. 
 

even though he’s no longer available, Jeremy Davis (remember him?) and I did a few trips together (LA, DC, Seattle) he worked atlanta and stayed near me, and we would dovetail some cities; one would get in on the day the other was leaving, and we’d share a meal. 

[big-n-tall]

Many people have offered very good possible explanations to your query. I'll offer another.

Maybe they are trying to avoid possible jealousy issues. If they travel together and are a couple, this may be especially the case. I knew a traveling escort boyfriend couple. I saw one of the boyfriends and not the other. At first, they were willing to work together, but (over time) the one I hired told me they had to stop doing that. He said his boyfriend became extremely jealous of this joint encounters. He perceived he was being left out. He felt the client paid more attention to the other. After the sessions it lead to arguments between the boyfriends. So, they stopped working together. I think ultimately it lead to their break up.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

Never work with family or spouse, unless your roles are very independent from each other.  It will stain if not break the relationship.