Reality of Finding 2 Providers for a Sandwich?

[Your Man in Arlington]

One of the activities on my bucket list is to be the filling of a sandwich in a threesome, and I've been entertaining the idea of finding an appropriate couple of guys to help make that happen.

However, I'm wondering if it's one of those things that looks great in porn and/or is amazing as a fantasy, but is only awkward at best as a reality.

Does anyone have any personal experience with this, and can provide suggestions, tips or words of wisdom?

Thanks in advance for any insight!

[Becket]

Everything looks better in porn. Reality is usually sorta "MEH". Stick with one guy you really like and have him lay on top of you. Same effect. 

[marylander1940]

45 minutes ago, Your Man in Arlington said:

One of the activities on my bucket list is to be the filling of a sandwich in a threesome, and I've been entertaining the idea of finding an appropriate couple of guys to help make that happen.

However, I'm wondering if it's one of those things that looks great in porn and/or is amazing as a fantasy, but is only awkward at best as a reality.

Does anyone have any personal experience with this, and can provide suggestions, tips or words of wisdom?

Thanks in advance for any insight!

Meet them separately, make plans, tell them what you have in mind and have fun! 

Some escorts might even recommend you a friend they trust and with whom they have worked before. 

[Your Man in Arlington]

3 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Meet them separately, make plans, tell them what you have in mind and have fun! 

Some escorts might even recommend you a friend they trust and with whom they have worked before. 

This for sure. My plan would be to meet them separately first, preferably finding the second based on a recommendation from a trusted provider and proceed from there. 🤞

[+ DERRIK]

I arranged it one time

 

I asked a regular I use to provide a third

 

that puts the burden on my regular to some up with a compatible third

 

it worked out well

[marylander1940]

7 minutes ago, DERRIK said:

I arranged it one time

 

I asked a regular I use to provide a third

 

that puts the burden on my regular to some up with a compatible third

 

it worked out well

Exactly, most escorts wouldn't put their name out there to get a 3rd unless they trust the client and they have met him a few times. 

 

Edited November 1, 2023 by marylander1940

[+ keroscenefire]

I've done this before both through hiring and just in my normal sexual life. It's also called a Lucky Pierre.  I find it hot. It does take a little bit of control with you and it helps if you have somewhat larger than average dick (or your dick may pretty easily fall out).

One easy way IMO to do a threesome is to simply hire a couple. Most cities usually have one or two that either advertise together or will say something in their profile like, "Ask me about my friend...."

A lot of them are totally willing to do something like this. And instead of hiring two separate guys, often a couple will do a little group rate like $500 for an hour (where it would be $300X2 for two guys). 

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Your Man in Arlington said:

Does anyone have any personal experience with this, and can provide suggestions, tips or words of wisdom?

Thanks in advance for any insight!

Absolutely I have experience with this ... it does require a bit of good chemistry. He will remain unnamed but me my best good pal from Las Vegas, a retired superstar in the biz, traveled 🧳 together with a certain individual for YEARS every other month for a long weekend in just about every big city in the USA and even internationally a few times. It's fun, a lot of of fun provided there's good chemistry and egos are checked at the door. 

[Your Man in Arlington]

12 minutes ago, keroscenefire said:

It's also called a Lucky Pierre. 

I feel like I should have known this.. Thank you!

[Guest]

1 minute ago, Vin_Marco said:

Absolutely I have experience with this ... it does require a bit of good chemistry. He will remain unnamed but me my best good pal from Las Vegas, a retired superstar in the biz, traveled 🧳 together with a certain individual for YEARS every other month for a long weekend in just about every big city in the USA and even internationally a few times. It's fun, a lot of of fun provided there's good chemistry and egos are checked at the door. 

Sometimes he found a 3rd person to join us 🤪

[Jamie21]

I’ve done this. The client asked me to set it up for him. It was one element of the session rather than being the sole aim of the session. He just wanted to experience a few different scenarios one of which was to be in the middle. 

Once I knew the kind of session he wanted I knew who to ask to join me for it (it was a guy I’ve worked with before who I know has great chemistry etc).

I think you should find a provider you know (maybe hire him on his own first), make sure you’re comfortable with him and then explain what you want and ask him to set it up. He’ll find the right guy for you. Also, it’s best to have a few things that you want to try so that the sandwich isn’t the only objective of the session (it takes the pressure off). Probably also best to find two guys who are both vers, because they can swap roles which makes it more interesting for you. 

 

[56harrisond]

Some threesome threads:

 

[Your Man in Arlington]

3 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Also, it’s best to have a few things that you want to try so that the sandwich isn’t the only objective of the session (it takes the pressure off). Probably also best to find two guys who are both vers, because they can swap roles which makes it more interesting for you.

This is a great suggestion. Thank you!

[viewing ownly]

Look for providers who will see you as a duo WHO ADVERTISE AS A DUO. Do not, do not see solo guys who recommend someone with them. Those always (I got tired of using caps, ha ha) go poorly without exception. The reason they would recommend someone is essentially so they could hook up with that other person on your dime, while you're likely relegated to minimal interaction - the opposite of what you're looking for.

[Your Man in Arlington]

8 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

Look for providers who will see you as a duo WHO ADVERTISE AS A DUO. Do not, do not see solo guys who recommend someone with them. Those always (I got tired of using caps, ha ha) go poorly without exception. The reason they would recommend someone is essentially so they could hook up with that other person on your dime, while you're likely relegated to minimal interaction - the opposite of what you're looking for.

Interesting take. My concern with providers is something like what was raised here, where they will clearly be more into each other rather than you, as mentioned in this comment and the ensuing discussion.

Still possibly worth pursuing if I find the right duo. 🤔

 

[+ DrownedBoy]

21 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

 Do not, do not see solo guys who recommend someone with them. Those always (I got tired of using caps, ha ha) go poorly without exception. The reason they would recommend someone is essentially so they could hook up with that other person on your dime, while you're likely relegated to minimal interaction - the opposite of what you're looking for.

That's why "amateurs" should bring in a discount.

I have a regular who brings a second boy if I ask. He's not as good as a professional, but I don't pay him as much as a professional. He's just a student who needs extra money sometimes, and I believe young men should get a good education. Both my regular and the kid realize and accept this, as do I, since I know the boy won't be as good as the regular.

[+ Coolwave35]

1 hour ago, DrownedBoy said:

I believe young men should get a good education.

God I laughed so hard at this. It woke my house boy lol 

[Simon Suraci]

On 11/1/2023 at 7:08 PM, viewing ownly said:

Look for providers who will see you as a duo WHO ADVERTISE AS A DUO. Do not, do not see solo guys who recommend someone with them. Those always (I got tired of using caps, ha ha) go poorly without exception. The reason they would recommend someone is essentially so they could hook up with that other person on your dime, while you're likely relegated to minimal interaction - the opposite of what you're looking for.

This is not my experience at all. With the right providers, you get them focused on the client and fulfilling his needs the whole time. Providers can hook up on their own time for free if they want. Good providers make client satisfaction the focus of their sessions.

You will find more input in other discussions on the topic. Thanks @56harrisond for posting those. 

[+ Coolwave35]

I once hired 5 guys for a fantasy. Two paired off and kinda left the bed we were playing in. My main regular said “hey fellas, don’t forget why you’re here unless you’re donating your time.”  It went a long way in refocusing the group lol 

[Jamie21]

6 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

This is not my experience at all. With the right providers, you get them focused on the client and fulfilling his needs the whole time. Providers can hook up on their own time for free if they want.

I agree. It’s not my experience either. The guys I work with all keep their focus on the client. Of course I’m into the guy in working with, and he’s into me (I wouldn’t recommend him otherwise) but we make sure we’re doing what the client wants. 

I was doing a 4 hands with another masseur I work with regularly recently and we were about halfway through the routine. Client was laying on his front. I was stood at the side massaging the client’s back and the other masseur was doing same other side. He then came round to my side and stood behind me. I bent over the table to suck the clients fingers (I know the client likes that) and as I did my partner took the opportunity to rim me. After about a minute of this I noticed the client lift his head quickly to see what was happening so I signalled to my partner to get back to the client.

Of course some clients like to watch us but unless they’ve specifically requested a show then I think it’s important that all interactions between me and the other guy are inclusive with the client. I did make the mistake one time of neglecting the client which I felt bad about (client was fine about it) but it was unprofessional I think. 


 

[ICTJOCK]

I've done it once and it was a great experience.   One of the participants is a current client and the other is a provider I had not met previously.    The client (who initiated the idea)  talked to us individually and I actually met the other provider in advance.   I knew of the client's interest.    I would say good communication and chemistry really added to the experience.   I still see and talk to the other provider and anticipate some mutual work again.

[Guest]

If you look 👀 closely you'll see a man sandwiched in between me and my best good mate in the world  🌎 We were extremely fortunate to have gone to Las Ventanas 3 different times for a week each time. I guess you can say that "tortas" were made as well 😜  Cheers to muscle sandwiches 🥪 friendships and respect   🇲🇽 💪🏽🥪🥂

Edited November 4, 2023 by Vin_Marco

[blck37]

15 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I once hired 5 guys for a fantasy. Two paired off and kinda left the bed we were playing in. My main regular said “hey fellas, don’t forget why you’re here unless you’re donating your time.”  It went a long way in refocusing the group lol 

This is one of my 'fears' for a group setting. I think having a main regular who can kinda assist client in managing the rest of providers is important. I always have 1 for all of my 3somes. Find it very useful to manage unwanted situation eg kicking the other provider off the session or 'teaching' the other guy on how to do certain acts or to pay more attention to client.

[Guest]

Once upon a time in Hollywood ( actually in Palm Springs ) I attended a weekend where a guy hired FIFTEEN of us for a weekend. He pulled it off BEAUTIFULLY. Everyone got  along wonderfully, zero egos, just untethered fun. ... I know I say I'll never do it but I have enough material for one hell of a read ( or heavenly ) 😇😈

Edited November 5, 2023 by Vin_Marco

[blck37]

10 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I was doing a 4 hands with another masseur I work with regularly recently and we were about halfway through the routine. Client was laying on his front. I was stood at the side massaging the client’s back and the other masseur was doing same other side. He then came round to my side and stood behind me. I bent over the table to suck the clients fingers (I know the client likes that) and as I did my partner took the opportunity to rim me. After about a minute of this I noticed the client lift his head quickly to see what was happening so I signalled to my partner to get back to the client.

Of course some clients like to watch us but unless they’ve specifically requested a show then I think it’s important that all interactions between me and the other guy are inclusive with the client. I did make the mistake one time of neglecting the client which I felt bad about (client was fine about it) but it was unprofessional I think. 


 

In a 3some setting, as a client i would feel left out if the provider first move is to rim the other provider, whilst all i got is a finger suck LOL. I think provider playing with each other is alright but only after they play with me. Each 'first' should be initiated with the client - unless the client say otherwise. 

I might just stop the session if the provider were to first fuck or rim or kiss or suck or cum in the other provider, and all I got is some stroke.