Two for the Price of One

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

2 hours ago, Unicorn said:

And you've been very, very successful for a very, very, very long time! 😅

That was a pretty weak reply, even for you.

[samhexum]

16 hours ago, ICTJOCK said:

Two for the Price of One

 

2 hours ago, Unicorn said:

I feel a song coming on 😄

and once again you felt one coming on that you didn't even know...

spoiler alert:  there's a surprise ending

[Guest]

Well, @samhexum, you sure know a lot of very esoteric songs! You're right--if it wasn't in the Top 40, I probably didn't know it. 

[Guest]

51 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

That was a pretty weak reply, even for you.

Actually, in all seriousness, I truly do admire how long you've been able to keep it up (so to speak). I can't think of any other escort who's been so successful for such a long time. I worked as a physician for 33 years. I bow to you now, and will bow even deeper when you pass my years of service. I honestly don't know if there ever been an escort with such as an illustrious career as you've had. I suspect a lot of escorts look up to you, for good reason. I don't know if you ever watch those RuPaul's Drag Race shows. When there are roasts, other drag queens often poke fun at his age, but RuPaul (and everyone else) knows the joking comes from a place of deep respect. RuPaul's appeal is timeless--and he still his physical appeal at just about 63. I may pull your leg, but, deep down, I do admire what you (and RuPaul) have done.

[+ Jamie21]

This situation would have thrown me. Doing an out call there’s enough unknown variables without adding the prospect of two clients when I’m expecting one. 

I’ve had surprises occasionally (like the client’s wife and kids being upstairs during the session!) but I think I’d draw the line at ‘oh here’s my partner and he’s joining’ regardless of what the partner looked like or whether I had a good prior relationship with the client. In fact if I had the kind of relationship with the client that you describe I’d be disappointed that he had sprung it on me like he did. You seem to have taken it with equanimity! 

 

[nate_sf]

I think the context here is important. This was a known trusted client, and the prospect of introducing the boyfriend into the mix had already been discussed. So it's not the same thing as having it just sprung out of nowhere. But yeah, surprises don't always go over well, so it probably would have been better if the client had said something ahead of time. Personally I would not have been too bent out of shape given the context.

When this has happened to me, usually the client at least mentions first that he wants to mix it up with a third, and asks if I'm ok with it. Once though many years ago I arrived at an appointment and all the client said was "a buddy stopped by, I hope you don't mind." As it turns out, the buddy was a porn star who'd I'd long admired, so I didn't mind! But it did throw me a bit, first with the surprise itself and then with who it was.

[ICTJOCK]

1 hour ago, nate_sf said:

I think the context here is important. This was a known trusted client, and the prospect of introducing the boyfriend into the mix had already been discussed. So it's not the same thing as having it just sprung out of nowhere. But yeah, surprises don't always go over well, so it probably would have been better if the client had said something ahead of time. Personally I would not have been too bent out of shape given the context.

 

Thanks very much,  Nate.   I think your comments are reasonable and make sense to me.   We are in the same place as we always seem to be with our personal messages.    I did mention to the client that Iin the future,  I'd prefer things always to be discussed in advance.   Being a structured person,   I'm that way with most things like this.   He was concerned he had acted out of bounds when we spoke this morning and I told him he did not.  We had talked about it and he did say he'd bring his boyfriend along "sometime".    My point in this thread was that I was pleased that I could experience a little surprise and react confidently about how the booking would flow.   It was fine.    But I would call this a standout  exception to the general rule.