"Large" client shopping providers on basis of abilities

[ICTJOCK]

So I was contacted by a potential client that will be in my city next month about a possible booking.    He's a top,    large cock and stated that he was only

interested in booking me if I could be effective in bottoming for him based on his size.

I've had clients who are larger ask me if I'm OK with that,  but I've never had someone ever say that "booking me was based on my ability to take size".

I asked him if he has had other providers that haven't been able and he said he has and they don't get paid.

It takes me a lot to be speechless,  but I decided this might be one I'd rather pass.    Has this ever happened to other escorts on this site?

[+ DynamicUno]

I'm hoping this is a "text message came across as unintentionally rude" situation.  I am trying to view it from the client's perspective: he's big and wants to engage someone who does not advertise as a full or power bottom, so he wants to be sure the guy is capable.  That would make sense since it would be frustrating to have someone tap out before getting started.

Still, saying guys who can't handle it don't get paid is a red flag, I'd say it's reasonable to pass on him because you don't know if might pull some other excuse to avoid paying in full.

[cany10011]

1 hour ago, ICTJOCK said:

So I was contacted by a potential client that will be in my city next month about a possible booking.    He's a top,    large cock and stated that he was only

interested in booking me if I could be effective in bottoming for him based on his size.

I've had clients who are larger ask me if I'm OK with that,  but I've never had someone ever say that "booking me was based on my ability to take size".

I asked him if he has had other providers that haven't been able and he said he has and they don't get paid.

It takes me a lot to be speechless,  but I decided this might be one I'd rather pass.    Has this ever happened to other escorts on this site?

Client here. I've never dismissed hiring an escort based on his inability to satisfy one of my desires. I get off in a myriad of ways and if the guy is worth contacting based on attractiveness, then I would usually go ahead with the appointment and pay the full rate. For the potential client that says "he doesn't get paid" is just a little too much as he might be hard to handle personality wise. So, i'd probably just pass on this one. 

[soloyo215]

1 hour ago, ICTJOCK said:

So I was contacted by a potential client that will be in my city next month about a possible booking.    He's a top,    large cock and stated that he was only

interested in booking me if I could be effective in bottoming for him based on his size.

I've had clients who are larger ask me if I'm OK with that,  but I've never had someone ever say that "booking me was based on my ability to take size".

I asked him if he has had other providers that haven't been able and he said he has and they don't get paid.

It takes me a lot to be speechless,  but I decided this might be one I'd rather pass.    Has this ever happened to other escorts on this site?

I'm not an escort, but I have to say that I don't like the "you don't get paid" part. Huge red flag, looks like setting things up for a free ride. Something about the tone you describe he's using also seems a little off.

[ICTJOCK]

1 hour ago, soloyo215 said:

I'm not an escort, but I have to say that I don't like the "you don't get paid" part. Huge red flag, looks like setting things up for a free ride. Something about the tone you describe he's using also seems a little off.

He just seemed resentful  that he was told they could handle him and come to find out they could not.    What he wanted from me was some assurances.    Well  I'm very capable,  but how would I know for sure.....LOL

[ICTJOCK]

1 hour ago, cany10011 said:

Client here. I've never dismissed hiring an escort based on his inability to satisfy one of my desires. I get off in a myriad of ways and if the guy is worth contacting based on attractiveness, then I would usually go ahead with the appointment and pay the full rate. For the potential client that says "he doesn't get paid" is just a little too much as he might be hard to handle personality wise. So, i'd probably just pass on this one. 

You sound like a great client!

[+ DynamicUno]

11 minutes ago, ICTJOCK said:

He just seemed resentful  that he was told they could handle him and come to find out they could not.    What he wanted from me was some assurances.    Well  I'm very capable,  but how would I know for sure.....LOL

Did he give you some idea of the dimensions of the problem?  Is he really so big that some good lube and poppers and just a little patience wouldn't ease him in?

To be honest, I've been with some pretty big guys who could somehow make an entry with far less discomfort than more average guys.

[ICTJOCK]

3 minutes ago, DynamicUno said:

Did he give you some idea of the dimensions of the problem?  Is he really so big that some good lube and poppers and just a little patience wouldn't ease him in?

To be honest, I've been with some pretty big guys who could somehow make an entry with far less discomfort than more average guys.

LOL,   he didn't get that detailed.   But he still has my contact info.....

[Jamie21]

Sounds like a red flag to me. Also it’s not necessarily the size of the guy that can be a problem when bottoming, it’s more about his skill as a top. I’ve bottomed for some very big guys and it’s been fine, and some smaller guys (ok average size) and they’ve been difficult to take because of their technique. How one could guarantee to bottom for him is difficult to imagine. I’d decline to accept his booking. 

[Guest]

8 minutes ago, DynamicUno said:

Did he give you some idea of the dimensions of the problem?  Is he really so big that some good lube and poppers and just a little patience wouldn't ease him in?

🙄

[Guest]

2 hours ago, ICTJOCK said:

he said he has and they don't get paid.

Him: they don't get paid

me: 🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗's

 

I'm not a bottom but if I were and he told me that, I might be inclined to tell him my fee has just doubled after it worked successfully Mr. Big Stuff lol 😂 ( I'm joking but anyone that would say such a thing would cause any further communication to go into the kibosh; the end,  never no more 😉 ) 

 

 

[soloyo215]

47 minutes ago, ICTJOCK said:

He just seemed resentful  that he was told they could handle him and come to find out they could not.    What he wanted from me was some assurances.    Well  I'm very capable,  but how would I know for sure.....LOL

Would you ask for a picture? Maybe you'll get an idea of what or how much he's talking about.

[ICTJOCK]

21 minutes ago, soloyo215 said:

Would you ask for a picture? Maybe you'll get an idea of what or how much he's talking about.

I'll ask for sure

[ICTJOCK]

36 minutes ago, Vin_Marco said:

Him: they don't get paid

me: 🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗's

 

I'm not a bottom but if I were and he told me that, I might be inclined to tell him my fee has just doubled after it worked successfully Mr. Big Stuff lol 😂 ( I'm joking but anyone that would say such a thing would cause any further communication to go into the kibosh; the end,  never no more 😉 ) 

 

 

Well Danny,  I didn't take it as criticism.    I think he maybe just didn't think about how he was coming across with his request.

[ICTJOCK]

48 minutes ago, Vin_Marco said:

🙄

LOL    

[Simon Suraci]

I see no reason the client shouldn't ask this, especially if he knows you don't advertise specifically as a bottom, power bottom, or prefer that role. However, he's contacting you anyway which means he passed over a LOT of bottom bunk providers that he probably should be reaching out to instead. Especially in light of his particular issue. It means this guy has very specific tastes for your look/personality, or he gets off on topping men who normally don't or at least less frequently. Perhaps he even wants to test your pain limits. Not someone I want to deal with, personally.

I had this happen recently. The client keeps contacting me asking for the same reassurances over and over. He had the same request and same concerns. He also kept asking me repeatedly if he could do whatever he wanted to me. I repeatedly respond with something along the lines of "yes, as long as we discuss and agree on what you want beforehand". All red flags. This guy respects no boundaries, intends to hurt me, or at least blindside me with god knows what kind of actions or behavior during the session. Not to mention I am a naturally a stronger top than I am a bottom and need plenty of time to slowly and gently warm up in order to proceed. If he doesn't respect those boundaries, he could really hurt me.

No thanks, hard pass. Plenty of respectful average, small, above average, and large dicks out there looking for attention that I am happy to service. I don't need a giant figurative (and literal) dick to wreck me, figuratively (and literally) for the same fee as any of the others. Not to mention he is quick to say he won't pay for something. Red flag. Move on.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

4 hours ago, ICTJOCK said:

So I was contacted by a potential client that will be in my city next month about a possible booking.    He's a top,    large cock and stated that he was only

interested in booking me if I could be effective in bottoming for him based on his size.

I've had clients who are larger ask me if I'm OK with that,  but I've never had someone ever say that "booking me was based on my ability to take size".

I asked him if he has had other providers that haven't been able and he said he has and they don't get paid.

It takes me a lot to be speechless,  but I decided this might be one I'd rather pass.    Has this ever happened to other escorts on this site?

Pass. 

Save yourself the stress. 

He's not worth it. 

[cany10011]

2 hours ago, ICTJOCK said:

You sound like a great client!

I don't know how some escorts do it... so kudos to you!

[cany10011]

1 hour ago, Vin_Marco said:

🙄

My friends tell me it's a curse actually.... I wouldn't know...lol. 

[ICTJOCK]

1 hour ago, Simon Suraci said:

I see no reason the client shouldn't ask this, especially if he knows you don't advertise specifically as a bottom, power bottom, or prefer that role. However, he's contacting you anyway which means he passed over a LOT of bottom bunk providers that he probably should be reaching out 

I’m actually Vers-bottom and have always indicated that on my RM ad.  

[Simon Suraci]

Just now, ICTJOCK said:

I’m actually Vers-bottom and have always indicated that on my RM ad.  

Gotcha, thank you. Would you like to link your RM profile in your signature? It makes it easy for members to view your details and learn more.

[Guest]

49 minutes ago, cany10011 said:

My friends tell me it's a curse actually.... I wouldn't know...lol. 

Some of you here that were active on MSS ( muscle service station  ) may remember "Turgidtoro" from Weho, well he gave me this book 📕 years ago. It's been in my good fortune to still be seeing him regularly after all these years. 🙏🏽

[Guest]

I'd be worried this client might have a sadistic streak, and might not respect your limits. 

 

[dbar123]

You dodged a huge bullet. How will you feel if he doesn’t stay hard, blames it on you and refuses to pay….

[Guest]

23 minutes ago, dbar123 said:

You dodged a huge bullet. How will you feel if he doesn’t stay hard, blames it on you and refuses to pay….

What he said ☝️100%