SMALL ISSUES WITH PROVIDERS THAT GIVE A BAD RAP

[+ DrownedBoy]

22 hours ago, Rudynate said:

Once, I had someone do that.  I had laid the cash on a table and he counted it in front of me.  I just thought "wow, how low-rent."

You're right - it shows no class whatsoever, and I'm old-fashioned (and honest) enough to see it as an insult.

I mentioned it many times before. Twice, the escort who visited me took the money, counted it, and pocketed it right after they arrived. And both times, they refused to do what they agreed to, and I kicked them out early. (one of them wasn't the same person in the ad)

[Rudynate]

54 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said:

You're right - it shows no class whatsoever, and I'm old-fashioned (and honest) enough to see it as an insult.

I mentioned it many times before. Twice, the escort who visited me took the money, counted it, and pocketed it right after they arrived. And both times, they refused to do what they agreed to, and I kicked them out early. (one of them wasn't the same person in the ad)

"insulted" is too strong a word.  I just thought he needed to learn something about providing a good experience.  For me, it's part of the experience - that payment is just assumed and not talked about.  It reminds me of sexy movies I have seen involving gigolos. 

[Archangel]

10 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

the escort who visited me took the money, counted it, and pocketed it right after they arrived. And both times, they refused to do what they agreed to

I’ve found that has been always exclusively the case with escorts who start looking for the money up front. I tell the guy I will have the money in an envelope, with his name written on it, clearly visible. I tell him he can count it. It’s been about 80:20 the guys who have counted it immediately and those who didn’t. Those who didn’t ended up becoming regulars…

I understand wanting to make sure you’re not shortchanged, but I’m being pretty open here. You can probably assume that by the point I put out an envelope, with your name written on it, clearly visible, and we’re together, I’m not interested in taking you across. And frankly, if you do count the money and pocket it and the deliver a half-hearted “service” at that point, who shortchanged whom? What’s my recourse at that point? A bad review? A writeup here that’s negative. Ohhhh…detrimental!

 

Edited August 14, 2023 by Archangel

[+ GoingGood]

I have paid up front on two occasions when I was not told ahead of time of their expectation.  I paid anyway and while I can’t say the provider didn’t try but for me it totally killed the mood.  

[+ nycman]

On 8/10/2023 at 11:54 AM, NyGold said:

That’s called the full boyfriend experience lol 

Nah….it’s not the "full boyfriend experience" until he "borrows" your Italian floaters and destroys them in a rainstorm.