sky Posted June 26, 2023 Share Posted June 26, 2023 1)When hiring can I request the escort wear certain outfits? 2)I assume most escorts are on PrEP, how do I approach the subject of BB? 3)I'm thinking 3 hour appointment but for most of that time I'd like to be in him while cuddling, maybe some light thrusting but mainly feeling that connection, would a provider allow that? Thanks italianboyph 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaboom35 Posted June 26, 2023 Share Posted June 26, 2023 10 minutes ago, sky said: 1)When hiring can I request the escort wear certain outfits? 2)I assume most escorts are on PrEP, how do I approach the subject of BB? 3)I'm thinking 3 hour appointment but for most of that time I'd like to be in him while cuddling, maybe some light thrusting but mainly feeling that connection, would a provider allow that? Thanks Honestly you are asking questions that you should just discuss with the escort you are interested in hiring. Shawn Monroe, + Axiom2001, Rod Hagen and 4 others 3 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CuriousByNature Posted June 26, 2023 Share Posted June 26, 2023 34 minutes ago, sky said: 2)I assume most escorts are on PrEP, how do I approach the subject of BB? I haven't met with anyone, but I would suggest that making any assumptions related to health is doing so at your own risk - and potentially a very large and life-altering risk. SirBillybob and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JourneysEnd Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 I'd suggest just asking them the questions. With an experienced escort, you're unlikely to ask anything they've not been asked before. As for BB, again just ask but also make sure that you protect yourself (PreP, STI check afterwards etc). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 12 hours ago, sky said: I assume most escorts are on PrEP, how do I approach the subject of BB? You should approach every sexual encounter the same. Which is to protect yourself . People lie all the time about HIV status / STI's and PreP There are multiple cases of escorts infecting their customers with HIV, after telling them they were negative and on PreP ( they weren't ). rvwnsd, CuriousByNature, dbar123 and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
italianboyph Posted July 3, 2023 Share Posted July 3, 2023 A lot of the things you're taking about should always be discussed with the person you're looking to hire. As far as Prep, again that's another thing you should always ask even though a good percentage of gay men are on Prep. Remember to always protect yourself, I'm on Prep and would encourage everyone to look into it. If it's not for you then that's okay as well. SirBillybob and rvwnsd 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rvwnsd Posted July 8, 2023 Share Posted July 8, 2023 On 6/26/2023 at 4:14 PM, sky said: 1)When hiring can I request the escort wear certain outfits? Yes. I do it all the time. However, I also say it isn't a dealbreaker (for me, it isn't) and am understanding when an escort shows up wearing an outfit that is close to but not exactly the same as what I am looking for. On 6/26/2023 at 4:14 PM, sky said: ...2)I assume most escorts are on PrEP, how do I approach the subject of BB?... Assume nothing. I mean NOTHING. It is OK to ask an escort's safe sex practices. If he balks, becomes offended, or refuses to answer you have every right to walk away. That said, only you can protect yourself. If you don't use PrEP and bareback, accept the risk that you could acquire HIV. Also, accept the risk that by barebacking you could acquire a different kind of STI. PrEP won't protect you from other STIs. On 6/26/2023 at 4:14 PM, sky said: ...3)I'm thinking 3 hour appointment but for most of that time I'd like to be in him while cuddling, maybe some light thrusting but mainly feeling that connection, would a provider allow that?... That's a question for the provider. Most men I've hired and who are versatile would be OK with that scenario. + FrankR, SirBillybob and + KensingtonHomo 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted July 8, 2023 Share Posted July 8, 2023 On 6/27/2023 at 12:14 AM, sky said: 2)I assume most escorts are on PrEP, how do I approach the subject of BB? If you want to do BB you should be on PrEP, never mind the escort…that’s his responsibility. I’m on PrEP, almost every sex worker I know is on it too. It’s just sensible to use it if you’re having sex regularly (even ‘safe’ sex). Here in the UK it’s prescribed on the NHS so I get it free, and I get a free check up every 3 months. It’s fantastic. Ask him if he’s ok to do BB, he’ll tell you. Sometimes I think clients are embarrassed or think it’s disrespectful to ask questions like that but it really isn’t. No experienced sex worker will find questions like that a problem. So just ask him outright. I prefer it if clients are clear with me about what they want. thomas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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