Suit and Tie escorts

[OceanTraveller]

RE: Dressed For Excess

 

Some cruise lines are more formal . I've traveled on Cunard , Holland America and Seabourn and tuxes are the rule . ( I've seen kilts too which are formal ) . Sandals and shorts will get you to the Lido for hamburger helper:+ Think of a nice cruise and a nice seduction with tuxes coming off to reveal sexy underwear and passionate sex and maybe on a balcony

[SAdler]

RE: Dressed For Excess

 

>Think of a nice

>cruise and a nice seduction with tuxes coming off to reveal

>sexy underwear and passionate sex and maybe on a balcony

 

And after I'm done thinking about it?

[OceanTraveller]

RE: Dressed For Excess

 

>

>And after I'm done thinking about it?

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[Epigonos]

I must say I find the current attitude about dressing up interesting. A few years ago I gave myself a birthday party and invited sixty guests to a high rise restaurant in downtown Los Angeles for an evening of dinning and dancing. On the invitation I indicated that I expected my guests to wear dinner jackets or dark suits. Oh my God you would have thought I had asked them to commit murder -- the complaints were long and frequent. All did, however, comply. Now the interesting thing is that to this day many of the guests who complained the most continue to tell me how much they enjoyed themselves and that getting dressed up, for a change, was great. Go figure

[Chuck50]

The real question is "Did they have sex in the suit and Tie" not did they wear one? HUGS I liked my guys in Suit and Tie or Tuxedo but the sex part is "Au Natural" HUGS Chuck50:P :P

[+ deej]

I can just imagine the complaints. If I got an invitation like that, I'd have to go shopping (or decline).

 

That sort of "dress code" would probably fare better in NYC where a larger portion of the population is accustomed to traditional business attire and is more likely to have something suitable hanging in the closet. But in SoCal, business attire means wearing the newer sandals and a polo instead of a t-shirt. :+

[VaHawk]

Sounds hot! Is it extra for you to come dressed in a tuxedo, ala a groom on the wedding cake? That would be hot!

[VaHawk]

I'd "hold" anything you wanted me to hold, you HOT dude!

[Guest ncm2169]

I can appreciate how hott a guy can look dressed up, but frankly, after spending over 20 years, 5 days a week at the office and many weekend nights out wearing a suit and tie, I finally entered the world of 21st Century Casual and I'm not looking back. I donated about 35 suits, God-knows-how-many dress shirts, ties, socks and shoes to the Goodwill a few months ago. I think I saved one summer and one winter outfit in case of a wedding or a funeral. ;-)

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey guys!

 

I have to thank you, Oceantraveller, Scott, Steven and all, because now I don't feel like such a freak. :+

 

After two years of living in gorgeous/casual/fleece-wearing Vancouver, I have begun to think that owning 5 different suits (two for summer, two for winter and a black one) plus a tuxedo was verging in manic and obsolete.

I was raised in a latin culture, where one had to wear a tuxedo everytime when going to the Opera, or some theaters, or special dinners, parties and ceremonies. I grew up with my grandfather insisting that I learned the right way to tie a bow tie, to button two, three or all, to open or close, to sit or stand, to begin or wait... etc.

There were so many rules, and everyone knew them so perfectly that when I was in a formal ocassion it always felt as if there was a well known coreography going on. Not only people looked beautiful, but there was a magic atmosphere of ritual. The ritual or making yourself presentable for others...(And for yourself). The ritual of courtship.

 

I have to confess that I miss that.

 

Sometimes it still happens that in the middle of dinner, when a woman stands up to go to the bathroom I stand with her as a reflex...(Just as as sign of respect), and most of the people on the table (At least the young ones) look at me as if saying: "She is already going, dude.... can't you wait for five minutes to go yourself?" ;( x(

 

Yes, I love special ocassions when people dress up. I love to dress up myself. And yes... (and this is surprising considering that I am a latino, and it is unlikely that people put together latino and suits in the same phrase..) but I do get a suit requests now and then.

 

Don't we all like such special ocassions?

[seattlebottom]

Hello Juan,

Being from South America, I can attest to the importance which is placed on social occasions and the rituals which go along with them. From proper hygeine, to pressed clothing, to coiffed hair, lol. People even dress up to go grocery shopping.

 

Upon moving to the United States, my mother was mortified that people went out unkempt and wearing shorts ("Shorts are for children!"), but most of all she couldn't understand why manners weren't taught in school. She and my father were taught manners in kindergarten and those lessons were often refreshed throughout their school years.

 

I'm not as formal as my parents. To me, those customs seem quaint and out of touch with the egalitarian ideal of the United States. But then again, my mother would always roll her eyes and tell me i was full of shit, lol.

[+ Lucky]

She was a wise woman.

[+ Charlie]

In one of my more perverse moments, I decided that I wanted coat and tie sex, but I would be the one wearing the dark business suit throughout, while I dominated a naked escort. I made the arrangement through Premier in Philadelphia, explaining what I wanted, and they set me up at their place with a very cute young man. Everything went just as I had hoped, but after the appointment was over, I discovered that they had never told the escort what the scene was supposed to be! He admitted that he found it exciting, but he was very nervous because no client had ever done that before, so he was afraid I was a dangerous weirdo--he said that if we hadn't been doing it at Premier's house (with management downstairs), he would probably have tried to escape at the first opportunity.

[Rick Munroe]

I've never understood suits. I mean, I understand the fetish of being attracted to businessmen (I share that fetish) but I still think suits are outdated and unfair. Why is it formal and proper for a man to be covered in so much fabric, but it's equally acceptable and expected for a woman to have bare shoulders, bare back, bare arms? How come woman can be comfortable (suits can get hot, temperature-wise) and show off their bodies, but men have to follow suit and choke themselves with a tie and conceal their natural shape? Society has come so far in granting equality to the sexes but we still have a long way to go. If women can wear slinky body-revealing clothes to a formal gathering or dinner or work, men should be able to, too.

[Rick Munroe]

>Sometimes it still happens that in the middle of dinner, when

>a woman stands up to go to the bathroom I stand with her as a

>reflex...(Just as as sign of respect),

 

But Juan, why don't you also stand up for a man when he goes off to piss? Don't you respect men, too? Seriously, I think the whole "ladies first," holding doors open, standing up stuff is silly. I think of the sexes as equal and I treat all people the same, regardless of gender (actually, that's not true because I would never go down on a woman...blech).

[Rick Munroe]

>In one of my more perverse moments, I decided that I wanted

>coat and tie sex, but I would be the one wearing the dark

>business suit throughout, while I dominated a naked escort.

 

That is fucking hot, Charlie. I love to either be the naked one or the dressed one...I just love the whole imbalance/humiliation aspect and it's fun from either side.

 

I once had a suited daddy put me over his knee and spank me a little before I blew him...all while I was totally naked. I was so turned on, I thought my head would explode. There are times when Derek and I work over a bottom together and we stay dressed but make him strip down...equally as hot for me.

[+ ArVaGuy]

Hey Rick,

 

Here’s a link with more than you would ever want to know about the evolution of the business suit. I have pasted the most informative parts here.

 

“Evolution. Through a process of consumer product selection, business suits today resemble power uniforms. As a fashion statement, the broadside display may first have appeared in animal-hide clothing of the Neanderthals 200,000 years ago. The first solid evidence for the display, however, appears in the Roman toga. As early as 200 B.C., men in tunics draped wool or linen toga-cloths over their left shoulders, to make the upper body look "thicker" and more formidable than when dressed in a tunic alone (Rowland-Warne 1992).

 

Recent history. From togas to doublets (1300s), to shortcoats (1600s), court coats (1700s), and sport coats (1990s), clothing enabled men to seem "bigger" and present "larger" versions of themselves in public. Today, the conservative design of the business suit allows men and women to display a more powerful, influential silhouette in business and public affairs.”

 

http://members.aol.com/nonverbal2/busisuit.htm

 

So I guess the answer to your question is that the classic men’s suit has a whole lot more to do with sex and power than practicality. Like we did not know that already. :9

 

ArlingtonVaGuy

[Rick Munroe]

Fuck, all that time I've spent working hard at the gym and all I had to do was get some Krystle Carrington shoulder pads? Boy do I feel foolish now.

 

http://www.scorpiofiles.com/dynasty/misc/pattern1.jpg

 

Thanks for the info...that was actually pretty interesting.

[augustman]

First not only did I also grow up in era of suit and tie, but white shirt and tie. I am not a Wall Street executive but work in a mfg environment. Although the company has gone completely casual, I am the lone hold out, I feel naked not wearing a dress shirt and tie. I, like Juan, always wear suits when going to special occassions. I think it shows respect and a little extra care for the people whose home you are visiting or the people you are with.

 

As to wasting time at the gym when wearing a suit. You must be kidding. A properly fitted shirt and tailored suit make a stud look even more inviting to me. Why do clients enjoy the unvailing of studs when they show up. I do like all the color match ups that go on today rather than always the white shirt. There are some great fabrics out there for men's shirts to make them feel wonderful on the skin. Even nicer than a well worn t-shirt. I like both a hot guy in a suit or jeans. Anice tailored pair of pants can really make a guy with a nice ass show it off properly. Juan I can imagine what your ass would look like in a pair suit pants, just take them off before sitting on my face.

 

I love the look on Adam #3 in New York on his webpage showing his large endownment through the suit. Very hot!!

 

So Juan when you and Kevin open the door for my arrival in a couple of weeks I will be coming from work and wearing my sport coat, dress shirt and tie. I will let you guys do the peeling.

[Juan Vancouver]

YUM! :9 :9 :9

[Yeswell]

I agree with Rick. Well, not about the going down on women part, because that can be fun too. I think standing up for women or holding the door for them is sexist rather than polite. I also agree with Rick's other post. Men's clothing options are ridiculously limited. I believe in getting dressed up and showing respect but I do so without ever wearing a suit and tie. If you want to wear them, fine, but suits and ties should no longer be considered the only formal wear for men.

[Rick Munroe]

>I agree with Rick. Well, not about the going down on women

>part, because that can be fun too.

 

Remind me never to kiss you hello.

[Yeswell]

Don't worry, it's been quite a while. And I promise to floss.

[Rick Munroe]

>Don't worry, it's been quite a while. And I promise to

>floss.

 

Then let's lock tongues, baby! :9

[Guest zipperzone]

>I agree with Rick. Well, not about the going down on women

>part, because that can be fun too. I think standing up for

>women or holding the door for them is sexist rather than

>polite.

 

I do not think it is sexist. It show respect for the other person and I often hold a door open for both women and men, especially if you are in a position of being the host. This is especially important in a business situation as well as a social one.

 

To me it is just common courtesy to allow the other person (regardless of their gender) to enter a room first, or to walk through a door first.

 

And if I am the driver, I usually open the passenger door for people - unless they are a buddy and would think I had flipped!

 

It all goes back to what is good manners - a trait that is quickly disapearing in our society today.