Jamie21 Posted January 20, 2023 Share Posted January 20, 2023 1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said: I do admire the ability of escorts to get it up with old fat men, that they don't even find attractive. Sexual attraction is only superficially physical. Of course everyone has a physical type that they find attractive and many people don’t explore beyond that, so they don’t discover that in reality sexual attraction is a mental thing. Those who do sex work and are able to do sexual activity with anyone realise that it’s a state of mind. They can get into that state of mind for their partner. thomas, musclestuduws, + robear and 3 others 1 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 20, 2023 Share Posted January 20, 2023 Hi, I'm Andrew, I'm new here and on RM San Francisco. As a provider, I second what @Jamie21 has said and prefer direct communication. Also, I recently had a client give a quick introduction and get rate information on RM messenger and later switched to my cell to get into specifics about the date. I can't speak to the legality of the method but it may be a way to distance your sexual capability from the payment transaction. Happy Friday! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted January 20, 2023 Share Posted January 20, 2023 1 hour ago, heydavida said: Hi, I'm Andrew, I'm new here and on RM San Francisco. As a provider, I second what @Jamie21 has said and prefer direct communication. Also, I recently had a client give a quick introduction and get rate information on RM messenger and later switched to my cell to get into specifics about the date. I can't speak to the legality of the method but it may be a way to distance your sexual capability from the payment transaction. Happy Friday! Welcome to the forum. CastaDiva, + Charlie and + robear 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 20 hours ago, heydavida said: I recently had a client give a quick introduction and get rate information on RM messenger and later switched to my cell to get into specifics about the date. I can't speak to the legality of the method but it may be a way to distance your sexual capability from the payment transaction. Welcome to the forum. Yes. With increasing scrutiny toward "sex trafficking" it becomes increasingly risky for sex workers to get caught up in the same net. Any documented conversation (text or recorded phone communication) should always separate your fee for your time and sexual interests discussed separately. This may confuse gentlemen who like to get to the point but that's their problem not yours. Keep it clean until nobody's listening in. TruthBTold 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: Keep it clean until nobody's listening in. Unless of course you’re in an enlightened country. + glennnnn 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 25 minutes ago, Jamie21 said: Unless of course you’re in an enlightened country. Yes. Of course. I was speaking as if we are discussing hiring in the US. Globally there are places where you need to be even more careful or you don't need to worry at all. In the US ther is a growing threat and you need to be more careful than you used to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AroiDee Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 5 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: In the US ther is a growing threat and you need to be more careful than you used to be. why? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 22, 2023 Share Posted January 22, 2023 19 minutes ago, AroiDee said: why? Sex Trafficking is a hot topic that is being actively investigated. Unfortunately, they are making little to no discernment between voluntary prostitution and "sex slaves" in various districts. Obvious this depends on how conservative the environment is in the district. NYC for example has "decriminalized" sex work, but that doesn't prevent someone still getting tangled up in a Federal sex trafficking case. + Charlie 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AroiDee Posted January 22, 2023 Share Posted January 22, 2023 in my thailand, prostitution is illegal. but it is politely ignored. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 22, 2023 Share Posted January 22, 2023 3 hours ago, AroiDee said: in my thailand, prostitution is illegal. but it is politely ignored. I would like to be among the first to welcome your Royal Highness to this forum. It is a great honor that you could join us! 😄 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Charlie Posted January 22, 2023 Share Posted January 22, 2023 (edited) Especially when you are meeting with an escort for the first time, asking something as direct as "Will you cum in my mouth?" is demanding something too specific. You don't know whether he will be able to or want to do that, and perhaps neither does he. It is probably more productive to simply say, "I like it when a dominant guy cums in my mouth," and try to gauge his reaction. You can also ask, "What kinds of things do you like to do with someone?" and see whether it sounds like you are compatible. Hiring an escort is not the same as executing the clauses in a legal contract. It is reasonable to agree in advance on broad roles (e.g., top or bottom), and you should indicate what you definitely do not want, but you will probably enjoy the experience more if you haven't already decided that you both have a specific script to follow to the letter, and are open to go with the flow. Edited January 22, 2023 by Charlie + WilliamM, + glennnnn and pubic_assistance 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WilliamM Posted January 23, 2023 Share Posted January 23, 2023 Golly, I assumed hiring was fun/enjoyable like it is in Sydney. I was stationed in Vietnam in the Army Perhaps I should hire a lawyer Jamie21 and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted January 23, 2023 Share Posted January 23, 2023 1 hour ago, Charlie said: Especially when you are meeting with an escort for the first time, asking something as direct as "Will you cum in my mouth?" is demanding something too specific. You don't know whether he will be able to or want to do that, and perhaps neither does he. I disagree with that. If you want it you should ask it. Of course you don’t know whether he will be able to or wants to …that’s why you ask! If he can’t or won’t then he’ll say so. If you really want that then it’s fine to ask him. I like my clients to ask if it’s something they really want. If I’m doubtful about whether I can do it then I’ll just say ‘let’s see’, but I’d rather know he wants it. 1 hour ago, Charlie said: but you will probably enjoy the experience more if you haven't already decided that you both have a specific script to follow to the letter, and are open to go with the flow. This part I agree with. Don’t choreograph the session too much. I like to read where it’s going and I think I can tell what my clients like now by just watching how they react to certain things. I think you need to know where it definitely won’t go if you have red lines but outside of that part of the fun is the exploration into the unknown. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 23, 2023 Share Posted January 23, 2023 I think everyone would do better with an escort if they would lower their expectations and go with the flow. If you enjoyed the overall experience and the company of your provider, you can write your ideal script on a second meet. + Charlie, thomas, 56harrisond and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sniper Posted January 23, 2023 Share Posted January 23, 2023 On 1/20/2023 at 10:51 AM, pubic_assistance said: Hardly how that works. I was referring to a hyper-sexualized environment, where anyone would be excited, when I made it to seven ejaculations. I am simply saying that people shouldn't assume just because they can't go for more than one round, that everyone is wired the same way. I do admire the ability of escorts to get it up with old fat men, that they don't even find attractive. That's a unique skill. One ounce of fat on my choice of sexual partner, and I am limp-dicking it, and will make an excuse to leave. Eh, you have a no-fat fetish, some providers have a fat fetish. I've been fat and I've been fit, and at both shapes there were a variety of people of all types either very interested or very not interested in me. It's the in-between phase that seems to be a sexual no-man's land...only women go for dadbods... pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WilliamM Posted January 23, 2023 Share Posted January 23, 2023 (edited) 50 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: I think everyone would do better with an escort if they would lower their expectations and go with the flow. If you enjoyed the overall experience and the company of your provider, you can write your ideal script on a second meet. Agree completely. @Charlie wrote a fairly long paragraph, which sseems exhausting for the provider. The points for the provider: when do I take my clothes off and when do I get paid Edited January 23, 2023 by WilliamM pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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