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On 12/6/2024 at 9:04 PM, nycman said:

He’s a cute guy who delivers what he promises.

I’ve met up with Strowkes many times, virtually all of them overnights. One time he reached out so we set up a weekend (3 nights). He then proceeded to avoid sex the entire time, not once. As he was leaving I asked him how he could do this. He waved it off, said he had just done a lot of meets (wrestling) and must have been tired. Again, we booked that weekend because he reached out to me. 

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4 minutes ago, gopochi said:

I’ve met up with Strowkes many times, virtually all of them overnights. One time he reached out so we set up a weekend (3 nights). He then proceeded to avoid sex the entire time, not once. As he was leaving I asked him how he could do this. He waved it off, said he had just done a lot of meets (wrestling) and must have been tired. Again, we booked that weekend because he reached out to me. 

Did you suggest it at any point during the three nights?  I mean seeing as you've met him many times and all. 

Posted
5 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

Did you suggest it at any point during the three nights?  I mean seeing as you've met him many times and all. 

Yes, of course, many times. And in each moment he always had a deflection that I respected. I gave him latitude because we had met up so many times before. He used that respect and latitude to avoid any sex for 3 days.

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24 minutes ago, gopochi said:

Yes, of course, many times. And in each moment he always had a deflection that I respected. I gave him latitude because we had met up so many times before. He used that respect and latitude to avoid any sex for 3 days.

I would have terminated the arrangement in the morning after the first night of no sex. But that’s just me. I always make it clear up front what I am expecting for an overnight or weekend session. Lots of sex!

Posted
8 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

I would have terminated the arrangement in the morning after the first night of no sex. But that’s just me. I always make it clear up front what I am expecting 

At this point I had met up with Strokes many times, over several years, and personally I don’t eject people quickly. YMMV, L2P. It was also very clear we were meeting up for a weekend of sex, so that was also not an issue either. 

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12 minutes ago, gopochi said:

At this point I had met up with Strokes many times, over several years, and personally I don’t eject people quickly. YMMV, L2P. It was also very clear we were meeting up for a weekend of sex, so that was also not an issue either. 

Let me get this straight. He suggested the date. It was a weekend where sex was expected by you. He didn’t deliver. After three nights(and days presumably) he leaves. 

I assume you paid him a rather hefty fee. A three nighter usually would cost me north of 3k. And no sex, you say. 
 

What did you do all this time? Sit around and watch tv? Go out for meals? I just don’t understand how you put up with this for two and a half days. Regardless of all your previous dates with him. 

Posted (edited)

Also where was all this taking place at? Your place, a local hotel, an out of town hotel? Were you just providing him then a place to sleep at night and food? That would seem to be exactly the reason he hit you up then. Just to be a sugar daddy and pay for all that. And since he's provided you sex during many overnights in the past thinking perhaps since you enjoy him so much you'd give him a pass and not get mad.

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Posted
7 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

Let me get this straight. He suggested the date. It was a weekend where sex was expected by you. He didn’t deliver. 

Correct. We went to clubs, ate out, swam, watched movies, other things. Zero sex. Some of those things were also expensive. He extracted all he could. 

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3 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Were you just providing him then a place to sleep at night and food? That would seem to be exactly the reason he hit you up then. Just to be a sugar daddy and pay for all that.

I think this may have been the reason, he wanted a place to stay and money, and so he reached out. Maybe he thought extracting money from me would be ok for him, and not much harm to me, so he asked for a 3-day weekend to obtain as much as possible. But he provided no sex in return, and burned a relationship. 

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10 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Also where was all this taking place at? Your place, a local hotel, an out of town hotel? 

Yes, my home. Where he had been many times. 

Posted
7 minutes ago, gopochi said:

Correct. We went to clubs, ate out, swam, watched movies, other things. Zero sex. Some of those things were also expensive. He extracted all he could. 

Sounds like an enjoyable time then, apart from the lack of action once you got to bed. I might have tolerated it until the second night. Then I would have blown up. 

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Just now, Luv2play said:

Sounds like an enjoyable time then, apart from the lack of action once you got to bed. I might have tolerated it until the second night. Then I would have blown up. 

All of those other things are foreplay. And the play never arrived. 

Posted
1 hour ago, gopochi said:

All of those other things are foreplay. And the play never arrived. 

Easy solution. No put out = No pay out. 

He knows the rules and knows them well. As you said, he used you.

Live and learn. 

Posted

Ugh....even given positive visits in the past, this is pretty outrageous and insensitive/selfish behavior.   I would hope that fourm members take note.  He was once on my list of to-dos, but no longer.  Life is too short to waste time on this crap.

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