Escorts hiring Escorts

[Orson Kane]

This probably has been discussed before here, but I am definitely curious about the idea of escorts hiring escorts. More than a couple of guys have told me that they hire other escorts, and I was wondering how common this is. How often do escorts do this and (more interestingly) what do they look for in the escorts that they hire? I would have thought most escorts would be able to find guys on their own without much trouble if they wanted to, so wonder what they find in escorts they don't find in the the rest of the world. One other thing -- When escorts see other escorts, do they tell guys that they are escorts themselves or just go as regular clients?

[SAdler]

>More than a couple of guys have told me that they hire other

>escorts, and I was wondering how common this is. How often do

>escorts do this and (more interestingly) what do they look for

>in the escorts that they hire?

 

I would say personally on the rarity that I actually hire it's an absolute societal and media ideal. Hopefully I can get them on my own which is usually the case. But if I see someone that I WANT and they say they only work, happens often with porn stars, I'll occasionally contemplate hiring them. Granted they're more willing to give me a better rate or stay longer but it's still fun paying for someone's time and "technically" being able to have them do whatever I want. For me, with the couple guys I had hired, it was equal in my mind to walking into Abercrombie and seeing the hottest straight guy in the world and telling him to drop to his knees and blow me in the dressing room. It's a total charge

 

>I would have thought most

>escorts would be able to find guys on their own without much

>trouble if they wanted to, so wonder what they find in escorts

>they don't find in the the rest of the world. One other

>thing -- When escorts see other escorts, do they tell guys

>that they are escorts themselves or just go as regular

>clients?

 

In the occasion with hooking up with other escorts for free, happens all the time. Last night I was on ManCunt....er ManHunt and I saw a guy and he sent me his pix. And I was like, what was your "working" screen name again? He was like, doesn't really matter ... unless you WANT to pay When we go out, anonymity is best but if it comes up in closed company we can all get a laugh out of it. I met some of my best friends in West Hollywood by scrolling through the profiles and sending out random emails to solicit coffee.

[+ Charlie]

Many years ago in New York, after a couple of hours in the sack with a gorgeous young escort, we started chatting about the business, and he told me that he knew many other escorts and frequently fucked with them, sometimes even hiring them. He pulled out the old Advocate pink pages (this was long before the Internet had been invented), and we started going through the ads, comparing experiences with escorts that both of us had slept with, and giving one another info on those that only one of us knew. He said it was comfortable to have sex with someone else in the business who understood exactly where he was coming from (sort of like Andre Agassi marrying Steffi Graf). When I expressed surprise that someone so beautiful would sometimes pay for sex, he said it was for the same reason that any client hires: he wanted something specific that he couldn't be guaranteed getting any other way.

 

I encountered him again many years later, and learned that in the intervening years he had had an affair with another escort I knew, a basically straight sociopath whom he supported financially with his own earnings. Yes, escorts can have the same dysfunctional relationships with escorts that some other clients have.

[Traveller]

Every escort I've hired (which is about 4), has told me that they've hired other escorts.

 

Later

[Guest ript4hire]

Ok - short story ... I try to screen my clients pretty carefully,

usually by talking to them on the phone and getting a sense of what

they are all about. If there are any red flags, I usually don't

meet with them. Not a fool proof system, I know, but really all I

can do.

 

Earlier this year I got a call from a guy who wanted to hire me ...

he was going to book a hotel room for us, and I agreed. However,

after hanging up, I decided that there was something "off" about

him - something in his voice that really felt like he was holding

something huge back. My first thought was "police" or maybe someone

dangerous. So I called him back to regretfully cancel. He told me

that he had already paid for the room, and he sounded really bummed,

so I decided my mind was playing tricks with me and I agreed to meet

him, despite any misgivings.

 

That night when he opened the door, I found out what he had been

holding back ... the fact that he was an escort. A GORGEOUS escort,

as a matter of fact. He just had a thing about getting fucked by a

really big dick ... of course I was happy to oblige ... twice

Fucked him so hard he actually clawed holes in the sheets! :9

 

So yeah, escorts hire. I have never hired, but I am sure I will - I

have wanted to slide inside Josh Weston for a while now Someone

tell him to get his hot muscle butt to NYC!

 

Eric

[SAdler]

>That night when he opened the door, I found out what he had

>been

>holding back ... the fact that he was an escort. A GORGEOUS

>escort,

>as a matter of fact. He just had a thing about getting fucked

>by a

>really big dick ... of course I was happy to oblige ... twice

>

>Fucked him so hard he actually clawed holes in the sheets! :9

 

Remind me to get my nails sharpened next time .... I don't like to be outdone.

 

>So yeah, escorts hire. I have never hired, but I am sure I

>will - I

>have wanted to slide inside Josh Weston for a while now

>Someone

>tell him to get his hot muscle butt to NYC!

 

I'll DEFINITELY chip in on that one Can we bring Brad Patton too? I'm still waiting for a challenge although Chad Hunt DID almost make me gag .... key word "almost"

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Well, I have not hired escorts. But like Dougie, I have hired hustlers, although not, as he does, for sex, but for other things. Like sponge painting my bathroom. Then, they spent the money on drugs and I sponged the bathroom myself, with the help of this person's ex, so yes, as one of the client's above pointed out, escorts (and former escorts as well as their former boyfriends) can have any number of dysfunctional relationships just like a client can.

 

Generally, I would say from what I see happening, what I am told, and what I personally experience, is that most sex workers tend to "hook up" with one another without actual renumeration crossing hands. Certainly escorts have hired and I have interviewed (not a casting couch, mind you) and screened other escorts for threesomes and for other situations for clients of mine, in particular one client who likes either to watch or to be watched or both. In all of these cases, I was not the one paying the fee and, with one exception, I was not the one making the final choice on who to hire.

 

I totally agree with the concept that someone, no matter how young, hot or beautiful, would hire someone else simply to experience something he could not. For example, if Cody Foster had been escorting in his adult movie making prime, it is unlikely I (or most any other man) could have had him for free since he is heterosexual. But if I had the spare money, I can see myself spending the money for an experience I may wish to obtain that I could not ever have managed without that expenditure.

[Guest jeffOH]

I've hired at least a couple dozen escorts over the past 15 years. One escort in particular I hired 200+ times from '97--'03. Since I rarely go out to bars, never been to a bathhouse and gave up on internet hookups after about a dozen or so attempts, it was just easier to hire another escort.

[+ nycman]

>Every escort I've hired (which is about 4).....

 

Ummm....I think you forgot a few zeros....

[+ nycman]

> ...I have hired hustlers...but for other things.

> Like sponge painting my bathroom.....so yes...escorts

> ...can have any number of dysfunctional relationships

> just like a client can.

 

Am I the only one who is more appalled at the concept of sponge painting a bathroom than at dysfunctional relationships with hustlers?

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

High Concept Art

 

>> ...I have hired hustlers...but for other things.

>> Like sponge painting my bathroom.....

 

>

>Am I the only one who is more appalled at the concept of

>sponge painting a bathroom than at dysfunctional relationships

>with hustlers?

>

 

It was the only genuinely cost effective way to get a frieze like image akin to Michelangelo style image of myself and Dougie, fingertips nearly clasping, although I am the one wearing the flowing robe in this image and Dougie is the one who is naked, wearing only his Prince Nez bifocals plus his yellow and purple argyle fake mohair sweater around his neck, all the while clasping onto that Negroni for dear life....

[Juan Vancouver]

This question brought back very sweet memories...

 

Personally I have hired escorts in the past. Mainly I have two reasons for doing so.

 

The first and more obvious one is enjoyment. I believe that the combination of sex, money and power is a fetish in itself, and in some way all of us who either hire or get hired (Or both) find it quite alluring. Add the convenience, the desire to meet someone specifically, and the desire to just rest there and get what you want, and hiring now and then becomes a really enjoyable option.

 

The second reason for hiring is more of a research thing. When I finally gave into my fantasy of becoming an escort, I decided that I would hire escorts that I admire and I think of as successful. I have learnt a lot about the way they communicate with their clients, the way in which they respond to questions, and more importantly, the way in which they managed the session itself. With some of them I learnt a lot of the things I decided I wanted to do. With some of them I learnt how I should never treat a client, with some of them I just got bored... all of which has being an invaluable information.

 

Normally I do not announce that I am an escort. I prefer to experience their normal way to deal with an everyday client. The only moment in which I would say that I am an escort, is if I am really horny, have no time to go look for fun, and I feel that the escort that I am talking to is not convinced on whether to see me or not... You know, the : "Oh, by the way I forgot to tell you, you can see my pics at rentboy... take a look at them and call me to the number in that site if you are interested". (A little manipulative of me, I know, but I would do anything to get my rocks off) }(

 

Speaking of hiring escorts... I was hoping that some Canadians with good taste would insist that Eric and Kristian came to Vancouver... but not such luck! I will have to wait for the right time and place... (And perhaps I can add Athan and Kevin to the equation, and have a real gargatuan hot flesh extravaganza!) :9

 

Looking forward to that!

[curious2000]

>The first and more obvious one is enjoyment. I believe that

>the combination of sex, money and power is a fetish in itself,

>and in some way all of us who either hire or get hired (Or

>both) find it quite alluring. Add the convenience, the desire

>to meet someone specifically, and the desire to just rest

>there and get what you want, and hiring now and then becomes a

>really enjoyable option.

 

Juan, I know this was a question for escorts, but this precise and honest paragraph perfectly sums up the reason I hire escorts. I am a client that occasionaly hires escorts and this paragraph is right on the money for why I hire. I have enjoyed your posts for a couple of years, but shamfully have never clicked on your link to your pictures until tonight. Wow, you are not only smart and articulate, you are smokin HOT. You are the whole package...brains, sweet personality, great body,big cock,and hot ass,and I am sure wild in bed! I only wish you weren't so far away from me, or I would find out for myself and hire you

:9

[Rick Munroe]

I've never hired and I don't know if I ever will. I don't look for recreational sex; when there is no client, Derek is more than enough to satisfy me. We have, however, been hired by escorts in the past (twice here, once in LA) and it was loads of fun. }(

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey stud!

Thank you very much for such kind words! It is great to wake up to read that!

Can I quote you in my ads? :+

I hope that soon I will be able to visit your town, and that I will be able to have a chance to meet you.

Receive a tight hug, and a long, slow sluuuuurp!

[Donnie]

>I believe that

>the combination of sex, money and power is a fetish in itself,

>and in some way all of us who either hire or get hired (Or

>both) find it quite alluring.

 

But Juan doesn't the allure of money and power make you a hustler? And to think I believed you when you said you escorted for the joy of connecting with another human being. ;(

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Donnie!

 

It is funny that you ask it this way, because when I began escorting, speaking english, which is my second language, I began referring to myself as a Hustler. Somehow I LOVE strong words. Like "sodomy", "cocksucker", "who....", and of course "hustler". After one month of using that noun, a kind gentleman afectionately told me:

"Juan, you are not a hustler... You are an escort. And hustler has a very criminal and dishonest connotation."

 

Since then I changed my self description, but I have to confess that I get a hard on when someone calls me a hustler. I don't know why, but I love it.

 

Now, going back to your question... Yes, and yes.

 

I do love to make new deep intense intimate (if possible) connections with people. I love to meet new people and try to learn as much as I can about them; I am terribly curious and love to dig in... Yes.

 

And yes. As I said in my post, I find it intensely alluring when money, power, sex and honest fantasy sharing happen to be present in the same situation. That's why instead of being a social worker or a shrink (Which would fulfill my enjoyment of making deep connections.) I chose to be an escort. Because of course, I find it amazingly arousing to find out about what turns them on, what is it that they are longing for and have not allowed themselves to experience yet... I find it a great gift to be able to hold someone who needs it... or to pound his ass until he cries if that is what he needs...

 

That way I get double the fun! :9

 

So, depair not, my dear Donnie. Either for a deep intense connection and intimate communication... or for showering my naked feverish body with 50 bucks bills while you call me a rentboy, I will be more than happy to stay in this business for a while, trying to fulfill others... and in the way, fulfilling my own, deep -not so secret now- fantasies.

 

Keep the fun coming!

[JT Brooklyn]

Juan! Hustler-Hustler-Hustler...Is it growing? As "Big" as I remember it! LOL :+

[Juan Vancouver]

You evil man!

 

My grandma used to say "never start a job that you wont bring to completion."

 

(I guess she never heard about tag team fucking... (Sweet pious lady!)

[curious2000]

You are welcome sexy guy! I don't know why an escort can't enjoy the best of worlds in finding a connection and the sexual enjoyment he gets ( and gives) out of sharing his hot body and time and energy ,as well as the money that comes from a job well done. Equally, as a client , I don't mind paying money if in return I get a fulfilling connection and a hot sexual experience, even if it's only an illusion for an hour or two.The best escorts leave you feeling like you have had an amazing sexual high and you leave floating on a cloud from all those endorphines released from an explosive orgasm. I have had less enjoyable experiences for free from random online hookups. And sometimes the best sexual experiences that I had were with an escort ,but felt it was worth paying for.

 

Juan, you sound like a "sexual artist" and there in nothing wrong in my eyes with paying for good "art" <wink>

 

maybe our paths will cross sometime and we can meet if were are in the same city at the same time :9

[+ Oliver]

Hustler! Hustler! Hustler!

 

I will shortly be testing this theory! }( I may publish my findings! Any ideas where I should do that?

 

(Enroute from Seattle to Vancouver )

[Vincent_Michael]

Escorts Hiring Escorts is not normal in my opinion, and I think it really deals with the fact that the escort that is doing the hiring is honestly trying to place himself in some sort of social dominance since he has to be the social passive one while being hired. Also let me ask what good reason is there for an escort to hire?

 

I used to think I would hire and thought it would be a good idea to do so but looking back at the idea of hiring another escort seems kind of odd and pointless and every reason I used to have now seems to have been just a justification for wanting to hire in the first place so I wouldn’t be judged.

[+ Tom Isern]

Okay, Eric's response was HOT and Juan's was smart. I've hired, been hired, hired for 3-ways with clients, and hooked up with lots of escorts. (My favorite was Marcus Iron in San Francisco--that was a "hook up" in case anyone is wondering. Abs-so-fucking-unbelievable bottom that one is! :-) And the most beautiful eyes in the universe!)

 

One of the first questions I get when asked about my work is: "What kind of clients do you get?" Most people seem to think that only guys who can't get sex any other way hire. I always reply that most of my clients are professionals who have disposable incomes and work hard; they are stressed and have limited time for sex--meaning they hire to avoid the "work" of searching for it.

 

When I've hired it's been to "research," like Juan, but also to treat myself--get what I want, when I want it, without having to look for it too much.

 

This is my first post...a little nervous here. Hope I've done everything right...this site is a bit difficult to manage.

 

Tom Isern

[+ Lucky]

Welcome to the message center. Your post is just fine!

[Bilbo]

Tom, while I agree with Lucky that there was nothing wrong with your post, there was one thing lacking which might be nice to add in the future. I think that you will find that a nice, personable escort like yourself is going to be attracting people who might want to meet you. I appreciate that this is not the main reason you are posting, but it would still be nice if you were to include either A. the fact that you are reviewed here and what city to find you under or B. a link to your web site address if you have one. The easiest way to make sure that his gets on all of your postings would be to edit your Profile, in it you'll find a blank for Signature, and whatever you put in there will automatically appear at the bottom of all of your notes. And there is a check mark which you can uncheck at the bottom of the note form if you think that that info is not fitting to the note, like you're giving condolonces or something. Of course, if you would rather maintain your annonimity, that is a good thing, too, in its way.