Rate swap

[TyrEngineer]

Has anyone seen a provider a few times and they changed their rate without  telling you. This provider has a variable rate depending on the activities and they refuse to discuss things up front, with me always paying at the end (which I have never liked and mentioned this to them multiple times). So right after our fun I find out about the rate change which destroyed the mood in the most extreme way but I payed with no fuss. The complete communication break down with such an important aspect of the exchange made for a very awkward situation and I’m rethinking seeing them again.

[MscleLovr]

53 minutes ago, TyrEngineer said:

I’m rethinking seeing them again

From what you’ve written @TyrEngineer I don’t understand why you hesitate to move on. Unless you live in an area where there are few available men, there’s no reason to accept being badly treated.

I’ve never eaten in a restaurant where the maitre d’ said ‘We have no prices on the menu as we tell you the price of the meal when you’ve finished’. Similarly, when I talk to a guy to establish that we are compatible, I learn about his pricing - activities matter to me, money matters to him - and I only agree to ‘a la carte’ pricing in restaurants. 

[+ nycman]

You’re getting scammed.

Move on.

[+ Jamie21]

He’s playing you. That’s totally unacceptable. The menu pricing that is hidden must make the whole experience anxiety inducing. I think you’re right to not see him again, he doesn’t sound like someone who is very professional. 

[+ azdr0710]

Welcome to the forum

[Jim_n_NYC]

I only take the amount of cash (and my metro card + $5 backup) with me that I need to see the provider.  So, I need to know the fee before I even leave home.

After the first time with this guy, I'd have been done.  Also, I think a warning to others in the massage section would be appropriate.

[TyrEngineer]

Thank you for the quick responses, I think it’s pretty clear what the general opinion is. You are only hearing my side of the story I suppose but I have spent more time thinking about this situation then it deserves. I am glad this space is here for us to share ideas.

[misterhumphries]

3 hours ago, TyrEngineer said:

Thank you for the quick responses, I think it’s pretty clear what the general opinion is. You are only hearing my side of the story I suppose but I have spent more time thinking about this situation then it deserves. I am glad this space is here for us to share ideas.

The opinions on your situation are unanimous: YOU ARE BEING PLAYED. But this shady escort could only get away with it with your help. What's this "you are only hearing my side of the story..."? He's a cheat; no misinterpreting that.