Escorting or Hookups? which is better and what's difference?

[AntiGrindr]

Yo, i'm here to writing about options.

I've been to fabguys for finding perfect black/mixed top guys, then i've dm'ed some guys for my hookup request and they literally just denied me for nothing,

after all i've tried to read users profile carefully and dm'ed for my request, seems nothing, this is just disadvantage to me and am decided to moving onto escorting

 

So shall i move onto escorting, meet top guys, even massage for paid or something? but what's the most advantage and disadvantages about escorting and hookups?

 

My advantage of hookup is:

- Easy to read profile carefully

- Safe sessions if my interest are accepted rarely

 

My disadvantage of hookup is:

- 1% accept you, rarely not instant

- Older guys (like over 30-40 what i'm not into with)

- DM without profile picture

- Fakers without being paid

 

 

My advantage of escorting is:

- 99% accept you, easy to meet and priority meeting 

- Safe sessions for massage/fun (not into oral)

- Friendly to use than hookups, consensual (but not into begging sessions such as kinky sessions, which i had bad experience one of workers for begging me £ in cashapp)

- Deposit required to prevent timewasters 

- Cheaper rates, better hours.

- Special request (rarely accepted if i'm requesting for outcall for far distance region e.g. London to Manchester for outcall or travel request e.g. London to Amsterdam)

 

My disadvantage of escorting is:

- too much far from if you're outside guys location (unless you have to make special request)

- too much rate such as £1000 per hour (even if i was outcall, apartments would be over £300 for 3 days unless find somewhere cheaper)

- looking for today, but busy.

 

Which ones better? comment below.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

26 minutes ago, AntiGrindr said:

Yo, i'm here to writing about options.

I've been to fabguys for finding perfect black/mixed top guys, then i've dm'ed some guys for my hookup request and they literally just denied me for nothing,

after all i've tried to read users profile carefully and dm'ed for my request, seems nothing, this is just disadvantage to me and am decided to moving onto escorting

 

So shall i move onto escorting, meet top guys, even massage for paid or something? but what's the most advantage and disadvantages about escorting and hookups?

 

My advantage of hookup is:

- Easy to read profile carefully

- Safe sessions if my interest are accepted rarely

 

My disadvantage of hookup is:

- 1% accept you, rarely not instant

- Older guys (like over 30-40 what i'm not into with)

- DM without profile picture

- Fakers without being paid

 

 

My advantage of escorting is:

- 99% accept you, easy to meet and priority meeting 

- Safe sessions for massage/fun (not into oral)

- Friendly to use than hookups, consensual (but not into begging sessions such as kinky sessions, which i had bad experience one of workers for begging me £ in cashapp)

- Deposit required to prevent timewasters 

- Cheaper rates, better hours.

- Special request (rarely accepted if i'm requesting for outcall for far distance region e.g. London to Manchester for outcall or travel request e.g. London to Amsterdam)

 

My disadvantage of escorting is:

- too much far from if you're outside guys location (unless you have to make special request)

- too much rate such as £1000 per hour (even if i was outcall, apartments would be over £300 for 3 days unless find somewhere cheaper)

- looking for today, but busy.

 

Which ones better? comment below.

You posted in "Ask a Provider".  So expect the Providers to reply with "Hiring a Provider is better".

Edited December 11, 2022 by Vegas_nw1982

[AntiGrindr]

2 minutes ago, Vegas_nw1982 said:

You posted in "Ask a Provider".  So expect the Providers to reply with "Hiring a Provider is better".

you mean the specific escorting website or worker?

[+ nycman]

Hiring escorts….80% fun. 5% astounding. 15% flakes.

Hooking up….10% fun. 1% astounding. 89% flakes. 

If you enjoy chasing guys around a bar all night or 
endless texting that goes nowhere….then hook ups
are for you.

Otherwise, if you can afford it, order in and get what 
you want. 

[Jarrod_Uncut]

For me it depends. I live in an area where I’m not interested in majority of the guys who reach out to me for hookups. So when I’m home I’m usually just escorting. Not trying to hook up with the ever-horny White guys who don’t believe in paying, but just want to trade nudes all day and take forever to actually meet (not to pull the race card but that’s just the truth in certain areas of the Midwest).

I’m not one who hooks up just to get off. I have to feel there’s a purpose or story behind it. Even if it’s spontaneous, there can still be some sort of interesting lead to it. I hooked up with 3 guys at a Nude resort/camp last year, but each one were just funny and cool and they actually had more to say than just, “hung?” and a bunch of ass/dick pics. 
 

Hookups can be more satisfying in the short run but escorting is more fulfilling to me overall. I know our business favors the no strings approach, but in my personal life I look for a little more involved.