411 on Jared_Cross in NYC

[Quartz]

Does anyone have any experience with this provider? https://rent.men/Jared_Cross

I’d be curious to hear more about your experience!

[Chummily]

Slight name change. Was originally Jarhead_Cross. Met him in the past and I can echo the sentiment there that he kinda rushed the session:

[Quartz]

5 hours ago, Chummily said:

Slight name change. Was originally Jarhead_Cross. Met him in the past and I can echo the sentiment there that he kinda rushed the session:

Thank you for sharing! That’s unfortunate that he rushed the session, considering the premium he’s asking for at $350/hour.

Hearing that gives me pause. He’s absolutely my type and now I’m torn whether to engage with him.

[buckguy]

I had a 2 hour with him in DC and it did not seem rushed at all. He was personable and it eas a good experience.

[Quartz]

12 minutes ago, buckguy said:

I had a 2 hour with him in DC and it did not seem rushed at all. He was personable and it eas a good experience.

I’m glad! I wonder whether those who mentioned a rushed experience only had a one-hour session, which I was originally going for. 2 hours would be a little out of my price range.

[MikeThomas]

Any current experiences?  He pushes all the right buttons for me.

 

https://rent.men/Jared_Cross

[DWnyc]

Not unheard of for providers to suddenly express panic / fake disappointment at what might have been etc as the one hour mark approaches while getting ready to rush you out  … with an option to extend at your choosing with a more leisurely and satisfying conclusion 

 

[Quartz]

2 hours ago, MikeThomas said:

Any current experiences?  He pushes all the right buttons for me.

 

https://rent.men/Jared_Cross

I pulled the trigger and booked him back in December. He was as hot as he looked in photos, amazing muscles to feel, and have an extraordinarily tight ass.

However, my experience was a little negative but that could just be me. He didn’t get hard the entire time, even while I was sucking him off for a bit, which makes me feel unattractive or that he wasn’t into me, which eventually made me lose my own boner. His kisses were just ok and weren’t passionate.

When I eventually climaxed, I wanted to cuddle post-orgasm but he had gotten up immediately to wash up.

I didn’t specifically mention I wanted a BFE, so maybe that’s my fault. It was also my first time hiring a provider so I didn’t know what to expect or knew what I want.

YMMV and you might have a good time. He was an excellent conversationalist in person though and very friendly. I should’ve asked that we chat for a bit early on in the session before we got right down to business, but in a way, that would feel like I’m dictating the entire session blow by blow.

[pubic_assistance]

3 hours ago, Quartz said:

It was also my first time hiring a provider so I didn’t know what to expect or knew what I want.

I would imagine that for most everyone the first time isn't going to be on script.
Navigating any human interaction takes experience and there's always unexpected events.

 You either take the session as your provider wishes, or you spell out a "blow by blow".

After a few meets you will find someone who checks all the boxes. This sounds like a good start, even if it wasn't perfection. Better luck next time !

[+ poolboy48220]

12 hours ago, Quartz said:

I pulled the trigger and booked him back in December. He was as hot as he looked in photos, amazing muscles to feel, and have an extraordinarily tight ass.

However, my experience was a little negative but that could just be me. He didn’t get hard the entire time, even while I was sucking him off for a bit, which makes me feel unattractive or that he wasn’t into me, which eventually made me lose my own boner. His kisses were just ok and weren’t passionate.

When I eventually climaxed, I wanted to cuddle post-orgasm but he had gotten up immediately to wash up.

I didn’t specifically mention I wanted a BFE, so maybe that’s my fault. It was also my first time hiring a provider so I didn’t know what to expect or knew what I want.

YMMV and you might have a good time. He was an excellent conversationalist in person though and very friendly. I should’ve asked that we chat for a bit early on in the session before we got right down to business, but in a way, that would feel like I’m dictating the entire session blow by blow.

Sounds very much like my experience back when he lived in Detroit.  Super-hot but somehow didn't give the impression he was that into it. Or into me. 

[BaronArtz]

At 5'6 and 155 lbs he is a bit smaller than I like.  But he could be a hot muscle pup I'd like to fuck.   When he is on all 4s, with his ass in the air, it is ME who controls speed, intensity and duration.

He could be interesting.

Edited February 16, 2023 by BaronArtz

[Medin]

22 hours ago, Quartz said:

I pulled the trigger and booked him back in December. He was as hot as he looked in photos, amazing muscles to feel, and have an extraordinarily tight ass.

However, my experience was a little negative but that could just be me. He didn’t get hard the entire time, even while I was sucking him off for a bit, which makes me feel unattractive or that he wasn’t into me, which eventually made me lose my own boner. His kisses were just ok and weren’t passionate.

When I eventually climaxed, I wanted to cuddle post-orgasm but he had gotten up immediately to wash up.

I didn’t specifically mention I wanted a BFE, so maybe that’s my fault. It was also my first time hiring a provider so I didn’t know what to expect or knew what I want.

YMMV and you might have a good time. He was an excellent conversationalist in person though and very friendly. I should’ve asked that we chat for a bit early on in the session before we got right down to business, but in a way, that would feel like I’m dictating the entire session blow by blow.

Same experience as mine.   He is from Detroit but moves back/forth to NYC.   Nice enough guy but my experience was extremely rushed.  I think I was in/out of his apartment in about 30 minutes max and he was practically pushing me out the door as I was getting dressed.   

[JUWS]

57 minutes ago, Medin said:

Same experience as mine.   He is from Detroit but moves back/forth to NYC.   Nice enough guy but my experience was extremely rushed.  I think I was in/out of his apartment in about 30 minutes max and he was practically pushing me out the door as I was getting dressed.   

I'm surprised that masseurs and escorts etc behave like this when there is a site like this one where they will be discussed and talked about. I'm sure they must know about it. Certainly doesn't seem like a smart move to me if you want to build and a maintain clientele 🤷‍♂️

Edited February 17, 2023 by JUWS

[Quartz]

21 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I would imagine that for most everyone the first time isn't going to be on script.
Navigating any human interaction takes experience and there's always unexpected events.

 You either take the session as your provider wishes, or you spell out a "blow by blow".

After a few meets you will find someone who checks all the boxes. This sounds like a good start, even if it wasn't perfection. Better luck next time !

Thanks! I think the fantasy in my head was hotter than it actually was.

He actually somehow managed to make me feel worse than before the session with him (because he made me feel unattractive). But I’m over it now and I’ll hopefully have a better experience with others in the future. This interest is expensive and I probably won’t be doing it beyond once or twice a year.

12 hours ago, poolboy48220 said:

Sounds very much like my experience back when he lived in Detroit.  Super-hot but somehow didn't give the impression he was that into it. Or into me. 

I’m sorry you had the same experience too. I had heard that someone’s experience with him was rushed, but didn’t think that meant that he gave the impression that he wasn’t into it or the person hiring.

10 hours ago, BaronArtz said:

At 5'6 and 155 lbs he is a bit smaller than I like.  But he could be a hot muscle pup I'd like to fuck.   When he is on all 4s, with his ass in the air, it is ME who controls speed, intensity and duration.

He could be interesting.

I actually liked that he’s a little shorter than me. As long as you’re OK that he might try to end the session as soon as you’re done.

2 hours ago, Medin said:

Same experience as mine.   He is from Detroit but moves back/forth to NYC.   Nice enough guy but my experience was extremely rushed.  I think I was in/out of his apartment in about 30 minutes max and he was practically pushing me out the door as I was getting dressed.   

I had to speak up and asked if it’s ok we just chat also after I was done in 30 minutes. Seeing that it was my first time hiring, there’s no way I was going to pay $350 for 30 minutes, ha.

1 hour ago, JUWS said:

I'm surprised that masseurs and escorts etc behave like this when there is a site like this one where they will be discussed and talked about. I'm sure they must know about it. Certainly doesn't seem like a smart move to me if you want to build and a maintain clientele 🤷‍♂️

I didn’t share my experience initially cos I usually don’t like bad-mouthing people and the fact that he might be doing this for a living full-time and his income might be affected. But on the flip side, he does need to improve if he wants to continue getting clients.

[+ ThroatCummer]

On 2/16/2023 at 8:46 PM, Quartz said:

I didn’t share my experience initially cos I usually don’t like bad-mouthing people and the fact that he might be doing this for a living full-time and his income might be affected. But on the flip side, he does need to improve if he wants to continue getting clients.

Private, constructive, authentic feedback is the best. It really helps 10x more than a review in which the reviewer is writing to the public and not the escort themselves. 

Take some time to think about your expectations for the sessions. Think about where it fell down and you were left feeling less than 100% satisfied. Consider your own mindset going into the session. Read it over and maybe re-write some of it once or twice before sending it directly to him in a private message. Sprinkle in some words about you maybe not being 100% upfront and forward with what you wanted, that this was your first time hiring (even if he knows, mention it twice more), and give him a solid three tips to improve his future escorting from your perspective of your time with him. Most importantly, come from a place where you want to develop him into the best escort he could be. 

If he's truly into this business for the right reasons and loves what he does, he will also love your feedback. He may not reply at all and that is okay. He may also reply and be a total dick. If that is the case, you have your answer about the session and that may actually warrant a negative review.

BUT. If he values your feedback and genuinely wants to improve, there's a chance you get a free or severely discounted repeat session out of it. In fact, I would argue a repeat session with him would also be so much better than you would be expecting. He would be offering that in order to improve his skills as an escort. That means he is, or will eventually be, an amazing escort.

People in general value good feedback and genuine concern for their development, no matter the industry. It's how you make actual connections in life. Authenticity, when delivered this way, isn't just a catchword people throw around these days. It's life-altering. 

Just my constructive feedback to you.

Edited April 15, 2023 by ThroatCummer

[Medin]

5 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

Private, constructive, authentic feedback is the best. It really helps 10x more than a review in which the reviewer is writing to the public and not the escort themselves. 

Take some time to think about your expectations for the sessions. Think about where it fell down and you were left feeling less than 100% satisfied. Consider your own mindset going into the session. Read it over and maybe re-write some of it once or twice before sending it directly to him in a private message. Sprinkle in some words about you maybe not being 100% upfront and forward with what you wanted, that this was your first time hiring (even if he knows, mention it twice more), and give him a solid three tips to improve his future escorting from your perspective of your time with him. Most importantly, come from a place where you want to develop him into the best escort he could be. 

If he's truly into this business for the right reasons and loves what he does, he will also love your feedback. He may not reply at all and that is okay. He may also reply and be a total dick. If that is the case, you have your answer about the session and that may actually warrant a negative review.

BUT. If he values your feedback and genuinely wants to improve, there's a chance you get a free or severely discounted repeat session out of it. In fact, I would argue a repeat session with him would also be so much better than you would be expecting. He would be offering that in order to improve his skills as an escort. That means he is, or will eventually be, an amazing escort.

People in general value good feedback and genuine concern for their development, no matter the industry. It's how you make actual connections in life. Authenticity, when delivered this way, isn't just a catchword people throw around these days. It's life-altering. 

Just my constructive feedback to you.

This may all sound good on paper but in reality (especially with this provider), I'm not sure my role as a client is to develop an escort's business model.  This is a luxury service industry.  At $300+ per hour, I expect some of the basics such as being able to communicate, perform, being polite, punctual, hygienic, etc.   The list goes on.  If he hasn't yet "developed" his skill set, he should be charging a lot less than $350/hour until he gets there.  I don't go to a restaurant, drop $350 on a terrible meal and then tell management I can't wait to come back to give them a second chance and teach them how to properly cook A5 wagyu. That is their job.  If I'm paying for 60 minutes I expect the session to last close to 60 minutes.   I have met this particular provider and had the same experience as several others in this thread. It was one of my worst experiences and I've had plenty.  

[+ ThroatCummer]

I hear what you just wrote and there isn’t a single planet in the universe where we would not agree on the math, and I buy you a beer or you buy me a beer, and we laugh about this —- now you suddenly have this energy about you that I find attractive and it makes me hard and wants to get off somehow with you and share that experience.
 

And I don’t even know you or a single thing about what you look like. But I do know right now, in this moment, I want it just as much as the money.  
 

I hope Jarrod reads this and knows who it is that made this post and the one above. IT’S WHO I AM. Put your energy into the things you want to change in the world. Form meaningful connections. Leave a legacy. 

50x 5* reviews don’t lie. They’re all genuine and authentic and that is the true currency in this world.
 

EDIT: I hired him earlier this evening long before I made that feedback post. My attraction to the thread was the in my research doing background checks and personal vetting process led me to this thread. stand by every word posted above. Authenticity. You generate it he learns from it and move on or don’t. It’s your legacy. 

Edited April 16, 2023 by ThroatCummer