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Ah dang, looks like that profile has been disabled.

Have you ended up visiting Istanbul or trying yourself? I’m planning a visit sometime next year.

A no repeat from me as well. I’ve described my experience with him in the aforementioned past thread.

I can relate to this as an Asian guy. I don’t think I’m bad looking, but I struggle to pull in dates from Grindr and related apps, whereas my friend who’s white has dates lined up literally every day in a single week, sometimes twice in a single day. (He had just undergone a breakup and was diving headfirst into the dating pool.) My partner who’s also white has more frequent chats with people from Grindr than me. I’ve grown to accept this pecking order in American society and be content with the quality few friends I’ve made through the apps, but it doesn’t mean it doesn’t sting when I see non-Asian friends who have significantly more successes meeting on the apps than I do. It’s also why I’m starting to explore hiring tbh.

He doesn’t seem to have any reviews yet. Does anyone have any experience with him?

I just returned from Oman and the UAE with my husband and we had booked rooms with king sized beds in Western hotel chains. We didn’t have any issues there, but obviously, no PDA.

Is installing another WhatsApp an Android thing? Cos it wouldn’t be possible to do that on an iPhone, if I understand you correctly.

Thanks for the recommendations everyone! MikeAustin seems like my type. I’m terrified of his dick though. 😅 Actually, you’re right! In thinking about this, I realized that it’s actually a narrow girth that would’ve mattered. Perhaps I should rephrase my question. Would anyone know of a provider with a thin dick / narrow girth?

I’ve generally been a top but I’m curious about trying bottoming again. The last time I bottomed a while back was with someone with a small tool, and that was an amazing experience. I know I’m probably not like many other clients, but I’d be interested in hiring a provider in NYC who has a small or below average dick. Does such a provider exist, and if so, could you recommend them? I know those with big dicks are usually more in demand but I would not interested in them. Thanks!

Thanks everyone for taking the time to respond! Four hands doesn’t seem as appealing to me, based on your responses, so I’ll stick with two hands for now. And @Jamie21, that 10 hands session sounds like quite a handful (ha)!

I’m a bit of a newbie and have been seeing the term four hands thrown around a lot. I know that four hands means two masseurs, but I’m wondering why that’s more appealing than just one and what typically happens in a session? Thanks a lot!

Thanks! I think the fantasy in my head was hotter than it actually was. He actually somehow managed to make me feel worse than before the session with him (because he made me feel unattractive). But I’m over it now and I’ll hopefully have a better experience with others in the future. This interest is expensive and I probably won’t be doing it beyond once or twice a year. I’m sorry you had the same experience too. I had heard that someone’s experience with him was rushed, but didn’t think that meant that he gave the impression that he wasn’t into it or the person hiring. I actually liked that he’s a little shorter than me. As long as you’re OK that he might try to end the session as soon as you’re done. I had to speak up and asked if it’s ok we just chat also after I was done in 30 minutes. Seeing that it was my first time hiring, there’s no way I was going to pay $350 for 30 minutes, ha. I didn’t share my experience initially cos I usually don’t like bad-mouthing people and the fact that he might be doing this for a living full-time and his income might be affected. But on the flip side, he does need to improve if he wants to continue getting clients.

I pulled the trigger and booked him back in December. He was as hot as he looked in photos, amazing muscles to feel, and have an extraordinarily tight ass. However, my experience was a little negative but that could just be me. He didn’t get hard the entire time, even while I was sucking him off for a bit, which makes me feel unattractive or that he wasn’t into me, which eventually made me lose my own boner. His kisses were just ok and weren’t passionate. When I eventually climaxed, I wanted to cuddle post-orgasm but he had gotten up immediately to wash up. I didn’t specifically mention I wanted a BFE, so maybe that’s my fault. It was also my first time hiring a provider so I didn’t know what to expect or knew what I want. YMMV and you might have a good time. He was an excellent conversationalist in person though and very friendly. I should’ve asked that we chat for a bit early on in the session before we got right down to business, but in a way, that would feel like I’m dictating the entire session blow by blow.

I know this might be a long shot, given that this forum is primarily focused on spas and masseurs based in the US, but has anyone been to Fortune Spa in Abu Dhabi (or other spas in the city)? I’d be curious to hear about your experiences as I happen to be traveling there soon. Thank you!

Ah thanks for the heads-up!

https://rentmen.eu/FrenchBrit Very new profile, but just wondering if anyone has hired him and have any thoughts?

Thank you for the detailed tips! I like your suggestions, and I'll keep that in mind for my next session. I hadn't even think of looking at the usernames, much less messaging clients themselves. I didn't realize I could do that, so thank you!

He actually had 20+ positive reviews on RM (I used a VPN so I saw some of the positive comments alongside the ratings), though I did read some mixed reviews on here. It might have been an error in judgment on my part to proceed, but I thought that it's impossible for anyone to have 100% perfect reviews, so the occasional mixed review, balanced with the 20+ positive ones on RM, makes sense. But perhaps the RM reviews could be fake? And thank you! Now that I had my first experience hiring a provider, I do know now what I want or find enjoyment out of and not just the actual sex, even though that's fun too. I'm wondering how I could screen for guys who enjoy giving pleasure and being with a variety of men. Are there certain keywords that providers would use on their profile, or something I could ask? Thank you so much for sharing your perspective! I'd have liked to be made to feel special haha. But you're right, an hour is probably not enough, though I couldn't afford more than that at the moment. Interestingly, I've heard that the fantasy leading up to the actual event is often hotter than the deed, but I guess it's often luck of the draw on the actual experience we'd get. And thanks for the kind words. I'm actually in NYC as well. I guess I can't force chemistry, but thanks for the tip about slowing things down for a few minutes to get to know each other a little. I'll keep that in mind. Thank you for the kind sentiments! I wasn't planning on hiring frequently, maybe just once or twice a year, so I guess I was expecting too much as a newbie. This is a learning experience nonetheless! The provider was in his late 20s, but I'll see if I can find someone else a little older in the future who would be more experienced. I actually did ask him before meeting up if he would be into getting facefucked, and he said yes. But perhaps that had set the tone of having the entire session as sex-focused and nothing else. Now that I know what I'm looking for, or what I think would be an enjoyable experience for me, I'll make it clearer in the future.

I recently hired someone for the first time, and I left feeling a little disappointed. I had mentioned to him via chat that I wanted to explore face fucking him, and topping him after. In retrospect, I guess I didn’t know what I want and wanted more of the boyfriend experience that eventually leads to sex. We started off the session almost immediately with sex. What ended up happening was him simply lying in bed while I did the majority of the work. I kissed him, but his kisses were not passionate. I sucked him off, but he was soft the entire time. Eventually I lost my hard-on when I realized (at least in my view at the time) that he probably wasn’t attracted to me, based on how foreplay went, but the least he could do was pretend to be interested. The sex ended in 30 minutes after I came, and he then immediately got up to use the bathroom and wear his underwear. I would’ve liked to stay in the bedroom and do some post-coital chats and cuddles, but instead, we ended up in his living room not cuddling, and sat side by side talking. He had made indirect hints as if the session was over, but I told him I’d like to chat since there was still 30 minutes left. That chat was nice! I felt like I enjoyed the chat more as it was more intimate than the sex. And I guess what I desired was also intimacy. I just needed to get this off my chest. I know he can’t read my mind, but I wish that he could’ve guessed or even asked what I like. Should I have planned out the whole hour in a detailed fashion? I had wanted it to be a little more organic. That feeling or perception from me that he didn’t find me attractive didn’t make me feel very good, judging by how soft he was during the entire half an hour of sex. Is that normal for a provider that bottoms? I’d have liked him to cum. I’m just wondering how I could ensure I’ll have a better experience next time if I were to hire someone again. Would you have any tips for me? If it matters at all, I’m Asian. I’ve read studies and heard that Asian men aren’t typically desired in Western countries, and that probably contributes to the occasional hit in self-esteem.

I was in Mexico a few months ago and had reached out to a provider who was there from TX. He shared his rate to me, but a minute later said that he thought I was in the US (my profile had indicated I live there, which is true), and that he charge more to Americans. Of course, he’s welcome to charge anything that he wants. But I’m just wondering whether this is the norm. I’m very new to the industry.

Ah that’s great to hear! That’s a great idea, to mention that you’d be happy to answer any questions. They’d want to feel safe too.

I’ve sent messages to providers on RM using my profile. Would I not need a profile in order to send them a message?

That makes sense! I did realize that it’s possible to see other client profiles, which would probably limit me from uploading my photos. Getting straight to the point makes sense. That’s true! I’ll fill out my profile page then. Thank you!

I’m glad! I wonder whether those who mentioned a rushed experience only had a one-hour session, which I was originally going for. 2 hours would be a little out of my price range.

Did you go with him? Curious if anyone has experience with him.