Length of sessions

[sashek]

Hi guys,

I have a quick question for the escorts here. Do you have a preferred length of time for a session? I realize that this probably depends on a lot of things - for example, if the client is unpleasant or dirty, I'm sure you want the session to be over as soon as possible, while I know that longer sessions are more rewarding financially. But on average, what do you find is the best fit for you, where your energy levels are at their peak, and the clients are the same? One hour? Two hours? An evening? Overnight? Thanks for the input!

Sashek

[AaronScottDC]

>Hi guys,

>I have a quick question for the escorts here. Do you have a

>preferred length of time for a session? I realize that this

>probably depends on a lot of things - for example, if the

>client is unpleasant or dirty, I'm sure you want the session

>to be over as soon as possible, while I know that longer

>sessions are more rewarding financially. But on average, what

>do you find is the best fit for you, where your energy levels

>are at their peak, and the clients are the same? One hour? Two

>hours? An evening? Overnight? Thanks for the input!

>Sashek

 

Of course, as you already pointed out, the answer to this question depends on a lot of variables. Most of the clients that I meet tend to be business travelers to the DC area. Therefore, most of my sessions last from about 1 to 4 hours in length.

 

Guys who are looking for a little fun without too much conversation usually go for an hour appointment. If they want to get to know me a little better or if they want a nice soothing massage, then 2 or 3 hours is better. And, if they want to go out to dinner or drinks, in addition to engaging in some other fun activities, then a session of 4 hours or more is appropriate.

 

I enjoy the length of any one of these sessions, really. Each person is different and the brief time that we are together is always interesting and fascinating. Of course, the longer we are together, the more I get to find out about the other person, and they about me. So, I guess the longer sessions have the potential to be more rewarding (and I don't mean solely financially, either). I have met many extremely intelligent and interesting individuals in this line of work and I enjoy every minute of it! :-)

 

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/AaronScottDC

http://www.male4malescorts.com/reviews/aaronscottdc.html

[Guest jeffOH]

I usually prefer 1 hour sessions, unless there's a meal involved and then 3-4 hours is plenty. I've done maybe a dozen overnights in my 12 years of escorting and 1 weekend. I never suggest overnights, because I don't believe they're my forte'. Being bipolar, I never know what my mood is going to be like, but even at my worst, I can always pull it together for a fantastic hour session.

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Length

 

I like at least 7 inches unless we are talking thick, then it does not matter how long....

[jackhammer91406]

RE: Length

 

Good one Franco.....:7

[+ Lucky]

RE: Length

 

"Good one Franco....."

 

I dunno, jack, I thought he was really stretching there!

 

[VaHawk]

Could you please expand your question a little? Ask the escorts that if they do rush the session to get out as soon as possible due to whatever reason, if they charge the full hourly fee? After all, from all the escort ads I read, it does specify that the rate is for time only? So if the escort leaves after 1/2 hour does he only charge 1/2 his hourly fee? Oh, never mind, as I'm sure all the clients already know the answer to this question. :o

[nate_sf]

In my opinion 1 1/2 hours is ideal for the meet-greet-action type of appointment. 1 hour seems kind of rushed and I find that most of my one-hour appointments end up being 1 1/2 anyways just because the pace would seem to fast otherwise. I've found the two hour + appointments can be too long, and both the client's energy and my energy drop off. If you want to add something social onto the appointment like dinner, another 1 1/2 hours is about right.

 

But of course things vary as you mention, so you have to experiment a bit to figure out what works best for you. Fortunately I've never felt like rushing through an appointment because of hygiene, but there have been times where I've not wanted to schedule a second appointment because the guy was a jerk - but again, fortunately this rarely happens.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

For me, hourlies are few & far between~

 

I prefer meeting with my guys for a minimum of an overnight, as it's easier way to connect, relax and get to know the person you're spending time with. Although in the beginning hourlies were a mainstay of my business, it's now something i'm considering giving up completely simply because i don't find them as enjoyable.

 

I suppose it's just tough for me to get into walking into a hotel room, immediately stripping and putting a timeclock to any sexual practices. I want to be able to take things slowly, sexually and build up some steam before letting things go wild.

 

 

Added, orgasms & cumshots feel better when you tease yourself and partner for longer periods. It'd be strange if i didn't at least try to hit the back of the headboard with a few parting shots.

 

 

 

Warmest Always,

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[ready182]

For me, 3 hours is perfect. Just enough time to lather; rinse; repeat.

[Chuck50]

Or the Mirror or the head board in Grandma's HUGS Chuck50:P :P

[Donnie]

>Being bipolar, I never know what my mood is going to be like

 

A good trait to advertise!

[Doug69]

> I prefer meeting with my guys for a minimum of an overnight,

>as it's easier way to connect, relax and get to know the

>person you're spending time with.

 

Don't forget to mention the best thing about overnights: you get paid $1,000 for sleeping.

 

Now, it goes without saying that you would never think about such a crass thing, as such monetary concerns are the lowly domain of - what do you always call escorts you want to demean so you look better? . . . oh yes . . . "hustlers".

 

But I did want to point out this advantage of overnights that you (accidentally) omitted from your list of "Reasons Why Benjamin Tries to Book only Overnights."

[VaHawk]

Oooh, not that you care, but little Miss Manners aka Flower will probably now come out and do his little tired Church Lady act. :o

 

I'll never agree with your politics, but damn it! I truly admire your resiliency and ability to take it as well as you dish it. Keep calling them as you see them.

[Guest jeffOH]

>>Being bipolar, I never know what my mood is going to be

>like

>

>A good trait to advertise!

 

Actually it has been, you'd be surprised at the interesting converstions you can have with brilliant people when you're honest and share something personal about yourself. You'd be surprised at the number of people who're afflicted with mental illness and are reluctant to discuss it because of fears of being avoided. I've met some really great human beings as a result of my openness.

 

Hey, I'm also a recovering alcoholic(15 years since I quit!!). I was originally diagnosed with depression and finally a more accurate diagnosis of manic-depression, now called bipolar. I'm not ashamed of anything I've gone through in my life. It's all a part of who I am. It's also made me much more intuitive, empathetic and subsequently these qualities have benefitted me with my clients, but I've also been blessed with wonderful friends who love me for ALL of me. Not a facade as I used to present, because I didn't think it was good enough to just be ME.

 

Well, now I know who ME is and it's a good thing. Also, according to my many clients and friends, my openness is a quality that they truly love about me.

 

So, in response to your statement, YES, it has been more than a "good trait to advertise.

 

Thank you for giving me the opportunity for a demonstration.

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Money Talks, Bullshit Walks....

 

Hypothetically speaking, you are a clerk for Antonin Scalia, and you are bored and tired. It is the fifth disent in a row where you had to agree with Justice "'Do nothing with us! Your doing with us has already played the mischief with us.  Do nothing with us!'" Thomas and scathingly brilliant no longer rolls off your tongue.

 

You wake up one morning and know you are sleeping walking through your days. Coffee cannot manage to keep you awake through oral arguments. What do you do.

 

(a) you become bitter and unhappy and decide anyone who write opinions for a living that do not agree with you is a traitor to the nation and only "true patriots" such as yourself deserve the overpaid salary and future untold fortunes that come ever to fourth rate hack law clerks to fifth rate hack supreme court justices.

 

(b) you log on line and find a web site and decide to deride and belittle people for stating opinions simply because you either cannot get nor will you work to get what you want. You become bitter and unhappy and overly concerned with spelling errors.

 

© you create fake personas to pretend that a silent majority of people agree with you or your spiral arguments excessively and insignificantly out of control. You become bitter and unhappy but eventually God comes down from the sky with an AK47 and you realize just because a thought pops into your mind is not reason sufficient to give it voice.

 

(d) You become bitter and unhappy.

 

:-)

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Steal This Book

 

This is a classic "it depends" question. Some clients benefit from a one hour session, some benefit from a longer session. I work just as hard in all of them, offer additional benefits beyond "time" (including time asleep or awake) to regular and repeat clients and in every respect my primary concern and the concern of any good escort is the comfort, enjoyment and, ultimately, what contributes to a memorable experience.

 

Like nearly every escort I have ever dealt with or met, we all enjoy what we do, we work hard to treat our clients well, to offer good value for what they spend (and I do not mean merely what the client spends in actual fund but in the client's expectations, desires and needs) and to provide the client with a genuinely memorable and special experience.

 

Why is a hustler different?

 

They want to get you, the client, off so they can get their cash.

 

Whether you enjoy getting off, whether getting off is memorable for you, whether how, where, when, why or in what manner they get you off meets your needs, desires of expectations matters not as long as they get their cash at the end.

 

If you think an escort is a hustler, then regrettably you are hiring the wrong escorts or you are not following the substantial and freely offered advice of a number of your fellow clients and using good and intelligent skills in selecting your escorts.

 

I wish you better luck in the future. No client deserves a bad experience.

[Doug69]

>Oooh, not that you care, but little Miss Manners aka Flower

>will probably now come out and do his little tired Church Lady

>act. :o

 

The most disgusting thing about Flower's comments here (and that is saying ALOT) is not just that he spews trite, effete, girlish, MissManners sermons all the time (although, granted, he does so that relentlessly and it is indescribably vile). Rather, the most disgusting thing about it is how one-sided he is.

 

Flower's most self-righteous lectures are almost always issued in defense of some "escort" whose Victorian sensibilities have been offended by a poster here who is not sufficiently appreciative of the fact that Flower's most cherished escorts walk on water. I believe that in his postings here, Flower is acting out his deeply entrenched desire to be a Mother Superior - he sees himself as the old Mother Hen of all these "young gentlemen" who are making their way in the world and who need his motherly, breast-milk-giving, delicate nourishment and protection.

 

In that STJ thread, for instance, Flower has spent lots of time chiding those who objected to STJ's labelling of the participants here as insane, bitter, unmedicated garbage with no life, while defending the propriety of STJ. In Flower's world, STJ is his little boy - an "escort" who can do no wrong. Anyone who would dare to suggest that something STJ did was improper is, by definition, a bad, mean person who needs a good talking-to by the Queen of Moral Terpitutde, the Lovely Little Bitch Known as Flower.

 

His name here (and his little green font) were not chosen accidentally. He identifies with everything fragile, girlish, and pretty (like a 12-year-old girl) - or, more accurately, like a pathologically uptight grandmother dressed in lace during the Victorian era running around holding out her delicate index finger and scolding everyone for impolite transgressions against her favorite young men.

 

Do you think that Flower's lipstick is also green?

[LovesYng]

As a client who sees escorts on a regular basis I like to spend at least 3 hours with the guy. I like to get to know him a little and not just hop in bed as soon as he walks in. As for overnights I love them but only with escorts I have been with in the past, it's not sex all night. I still need my sleep and I'm sure the escort does also.

 

When in doubt I whip it out:+

[BuckyXTC]

90 minutes is my favorite length of session for a first time meeting. If the chemistry is right, I go for longer sessions in future meetings.

[VaHawk]

LMAO!!!! What a pure pleasure it was to get home after an 11 hour day at work, and to see and read this post.

 

>Do you think that Flower's lipstick is also green?>

 

Nah, as much as those lips like to lecture others and to kiss butt they have to be bruised by now, so my guess would be some kind of combination of black and blue.

[chrismac]

Well said Jeff. In fact, it couldn't have been said better.

 

Bravo to you. Honesty and empathy are even more valuable in a human being than looks alone, and so many gay men have faced, if not mental illness, then certainly bouts of insecurity and depression in their lives. Being with an escort who doesn't come across as a perfect specimen of god-like qualities only enhances, not detracts from the experience.

 

So refreshing. Thank YOU for seizing the opportunity to state what is so obvious, yet often difficult to describe.

[MscleLovr]

Threesome?

 

And how much time if the session is with 2 escorts, a new escort and a favourite guy?

 

Would you get started with the favourite guy first, and invite the new escort to join the two of you say 30 minutes later?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Methinks this is yet another regular poster renamed with the magic of another MC handle~

 

No worries Luckily, through great reviews & just being myself, i don't have to worry about getting the kind of business i really want. I refuse to stoop to your level of bitter and play the mud-slinging game... I don't really have the time.

 

What i will say is this: Everyone finds their niche in this industry. Some take complete advantage of others, while some find solace in being truly great service providers. While i may criticize 'hustlers,' don't ever assume anything else about me until we've met. Those who have met with me know i'm the real deal.

 

 

 

Warmest Always,

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[axebahia]

>For me, hourlies are few & far between~

>

> I prefer meeting with my guys for a minimum of an overnight,

>as it's easier way to connect, relax and get to know the

>person you're spending time with. Although in the beginning

>hourlies were a mainstay of my business, it's now something

>i'm considering giving up completely simply because i don't

>find them as enjoyable.

 

I admit to being a charter member of the BJ fan club, but I must disagree here. I have had overnights and weekends with and without at least one prior hourly appointment. Considering extra travel costs and personality issues over an extended time, my preference runs to having one hourly before an overnight or weekend appointment. I can't help but think that this policy can only have the effect of limiting the growth of your client base, though if you are as good as you look or sound, perhaps it won't decrease your net revenues, at least not in theshort run. Nonetheless, as I reflect on the "product/service life cycle" of most escorts I have met, I rather suspect that you will be back to hourly appointments before you hang up your jock strap.