Length of sessions

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Now THAT was a good reply~

 

Well-written, intelligent and not biting in any regard. A definate disagree, but well-put and concise. I agree that cutting off my hourly service may affect my total revenue & escort well-being, but it's something i haven't made a decision on yet.

 

In the meantime, i am still taking hourly appointments, but not on the scale that i used to when beginning in this industry. Your thoughts on spending an initial hour to mesh with someone are good and agreed with. A massive outlay of cash to a total stranger can be somewhat strange and a risk many would not (or should not) take.

 

Better to be safe than sorry, eh?

 

 

 

Warmest Always,

 

 

 

Benjamin Nicholas

[Chuck50]

Thats why I always do my homework and I also value the opinions and reviews of those I know and trust on here. As I said once before I always look at the description and age of the reviewer it gives me a good idea of the standards that person has. And how that person who is my age or body size peer sees the escort. The bottom line I try to get agood mental picture of the person through emails and phone calls and reputation. GOOD GUYS are consistent. Any BN I have found is one of the best. As a client I don't like short ones either most of mine have been overnights, trips or a few days. HUGS Keep up the good work guys. HUGS Chuck

[Chuck50]

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[LovesYng]

>Thats why I always do my homework and I also value the

>opinions and reviews of those I know and trust on here. As I

>said once before I always look at the description and age of

>the reviewer it gives me a good idea of the standards that

>person has. And how that person who is my age or body size

>peer sees the escort. The bottom line I try to get agood

>mental picture of the person through emails and phone calls

>and reputation. GOOD GUYS are consistent. An BN I have found

>is one of the best. As a client I don't like short ones either

>most of mine have been overnights, trips or a few days. HUGS

>Keep up the good work guys. HUGS Chuck

 

Your losing it my friend Chuck, you posted this twice}( Your only allowed one post per topic and this was your third:o You must be bored in TX;) But I still love you anyway:P

 

When in doubt I whip it out:+

[Guest jeffOH]

>Well said Jeff. In fact, it couldn't have been said better.

>So refreshing. Thank YOU for seizing the opportunity to state

>what is so obvious, yet often difficult to describe.

 

Thanks Chris, I truly appreciate it.

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[Will]

And I can state from repeated first-hand experience that Jeff is EXACTLY as he portrays himself. I've never met an escort who was as frank about himself. Hell, I've rarely met anybody who was as frank as Jeff is. Even so, there's nothing gushing or in-your-face about Jeff; he's quiet, self-assured, and obviously has enough self-regard not to seek the transient approval of others that so-called "openness" often brings. He's absolutely genuine.

[Guest jeffOH]

>He's absolutely genuine.

 

 

:) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

 

Thanks Will! You're definitely "good people"!

 

I suppose that since I'm in the midst of a full-blown "episode" and off all meds, this is a subject that is really on my mind. I've tried just about every med out there for the manic-depression, but as I've grown to accept it as a part of who I am, it's gotten easier with which to deal. Zyprexa was the last one I was on, but the most common side-effect was weight gain. Gain I did, 15 pounds in 3 months this past winter! Originaly delevoped a few years ago to treat schizophrenia, it was found to be effective in smaller dosages in treating bipolar conditions. Other than the weight gain and an often zombie-like state most of the day, it was the single most effective drug for me. It really kept the frequent ups and downs I usually experienced much less disruptive to my daily routine.

 

As with many bipolar people, we don't feel like "ourselves" on the medications. There's an off-the-scale sort of energy I feel in a manic state. For me, it can often be an agitated and irritable state, but also can be a feeling of "hyper-feeling", all emotions can be magnified. It's the depressed states that really drain me, especially if they last more than a few days. Pot can be beneficial in moderation to take off the edge, but even that seems to eventually lose its effectiveness.

 

Franco's in town and I believe he's had an effect upon me. I usually try make my posts short and sweet. But as windy as Franco is on here, the more so in person. He'll go off on tangent after tangent. Forget staying on topic. Stream-of-conciousness conversation is something I really enjoy, you never know where the conversation going to go. Sure keeps things interesting.;-)

 

Perhaps this has been helpful for someone who may wonder if they're bipolar or perhaps I've enlightened someone. Whatever the case, if anyone would like to continue a conversation on this topic, please feel free to e-mail me.

 

There's a quote by Phil Graham (The Washington Post)that brought me to tears when I first read it in a Vanity Fair article, because it so accurately described, almost poetically, what manic-depression can be like.

 

"Yesterday I was saturated with gloom and had been for some days and could see nothing bright at all, presently, or for some time to come....

Today for no reason I feel quite jubilant! Life seems better and easier and all in all, I felt it is my oyster".

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[btmstudnyc]

simple multiplication

 

Add cock length of all parties concerned multiply by ten and divide by two....that's how long a session should be.

 

so for example....(8+7)(10)/2=75 minute session is perfect for these 2 guys.

 

 

Otherwise...shoe size of client and escort times 10 divided by 3.

 

JIM

[Guest cavalier]

Doug, my participation in our hobby was limited to regular overnights from 1997-2000 and has been restricted to regular weekends from 2001 to the present. I am a veteran of the economics of longer-term meetings. You are 100 percent correct about Benji getting most of the $1,000 fee for an overnight session (or is it $2,500? - see Benji's Review #15) for sleeping.

 

My 4-year overnight escort (let's call him Tim) was pretty straightforward about the economics of an overnight. Tim reasoned that an overnight essentially was no more and no less than two single sessions, and that he had to sleep somewhere in between the two sessions. Since few escorts book morning sessions, the morning activity was really a throw-in - income that seldom would occur outside the context of an overnight. In addition, he didn't have to travel to and from two separate locations - another financial plus. Tim and I enjoyed each other's company outside of the bedroom, so I usually treated him to a hearty plate of migas at my local Tex-Mex establishment before sending him on his way the next morning - an added overnight perk.

 

Applied to Benji's most recent hourly rate, $200 (see Review #11), the two sessions (night and morning) would be worth about $400. I'm assuming $200 a session because Benji "is not a clock watcher" (see Review #3). So, assuming that the client lets him sleep, which I assume most clients do, Benji gets at least $600 for sleeping during a $1,000 overnight (and an almost unbelievable $2,100 for a $2,500 overnight). Not a bad deal, particularly when you assume the $200 morning session is a throw-in. If Benji's able to wheedle a meal or two out of the client, the value of the overnight encounter increases even further.

 

I'm not criticizing Benji for charging what the market will bear, but rather emphasizing that this self-styled "great service provider" shouldn't get so bent out of shape over your thoughtful analysis of the value of the sleep component of an overnight encounter.

 

;-)