How realistic is it to have my request fulfilled

[acaressandakiss]

So I’m planning a trip in the future and I am looking to hire a provider for a very specific scenario. I have always wanted to watch a man and woman have vanilla sex live in front of me. I was wondering how realistic it was for a provider in RM to fulfill this request? I know a lot of guys list themselves as bi-sexual but not sure if there are other issues I am not considering.

[Jamie21]

That’s a very straight forward request to ask. I’ve been asked for similar things in the past and fulfilled them for a client.

More commonly it’s for a guy to watch me have sex with his wife or partner, but I’ve also done it for single guys to watch me with another provider (both male and female) who I arrange. The client just gives me his requirements and I set it all up. I’d say the best location is a hotel which I also arrange in some instances (I know the best hotels to use). 

Usually the person watching is just a voyeur and won’t want to participate at any point, but not always. You’ll need to make it clear to the provider whether you want any part in the scene. Also instructions on whether the couple are to acknowledge your presence, follow your instructions or include any specific positions etc. 

I’m sure you’ll find a provider who knows female providers who will work with him so just find a guy you like and ask him the question. Be prepared to pay a large deposit. Something like this takes a bit of coordination (2 providers diaries to align) and financial commitment to set up and there are too many guys who simply have the fantasy but who get cold feet once the time comes (especially the “it’s a surprise for my wife” crowd 🙄). So no provider will take your request seriously until you pay at least half the cost up front.

I certainly don’t entertain “wife surprise fantasists” not in the least because I’m not going to be part of any surprise for her. You’ll need therefore to demonstrate that you’re serious about it and not someone who gets off on the thought without any intention of seeing it through. 

Good luck with it! Interested to hear how it goes. 

[acaressandakiss]

6 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

That’s a very straight forward request to ask. I’ve been asked for similar things in the past and fulfilled them for a client.

More commonly it’s for a guy to watch me have sex with his wife or partner, but I’ve also done it for single guys to watch me with another provider (both male and female) who I arrange. The client just gives me his requirements and I set it all up. I’d say the best location is a hotel which I also arrange in some instances (I know the best hotels to use). 

Usually the person watching is just a voyeur and won’t want to participate at any point, but not always. You’ll need to make it clear to the provider whether you want any part in the scene. Also instructions on whether the couple are to acknowledge your presence, follow your instructions or include any specific positions etc. 

I’m sure you’ll find a provider who knows female providers who will work with him so just find a guy you like and ask him the question. Be prepared to pay a large deposit. Something like this takes a bit of coordination (2 providers diaries to align) and financial commitment to set up and there are too many guys who simply have the fantasy but who get cold feet once the time comes (especially the “it’s a surprise for my wife” crowd 🙄). So no provider will take your request seriously until you pay at least half the cost up front.

I certainly don’t entertain “wife surprise fantasists” not in the least because I’m not going to be part of any surprise for her. You’ll need therefore to demonstrate that you’re serious about it and not someone who gets off on the thought without any intention of seeing it through. 

Good luck with it! Interested to hear how it goes. 

Thanks for the response. Glad to hear that my scene is not so uncommon. 

[jeezifonly]

The hard part, I imagine, is if you want them to look like a particular pair of lovers as part of your fantasy. Pam&Tommy might be easier than, say, Harold& Maude, or Rob&Laura Petrie. 

[acaressandakiss]

50 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

The hard part, I imagine, is if you want them to look like a particular pair of lovers as part of your fantasy. Pam&Tommy might be easier than, say, Harold& Maude, or Rob&Laura Petrie. 

LOL! Well they don't have to be supermodels, but definitely has to be above Harold & Maude. 

[+ IronMaus]

In my experience with this, the client has a woman they want to watch me fuck, or the cis-female escort has a man for us to fuck in front of. Unfortunately my female colleagues have rates that most clients who prefer men are willing to pay.

 

[italianboyph]

On 3/27/2022 at 8:40 PM, acaressandakiss said:

So I’m planning a trip in the future and I am looking to hire a provider for a very specific scenario. I have always wanted to watch a man and woman have vanilla sex live in front of me. I was wondering how realistic it was for a provider in RM to fulfill this request? I know a lot of guys list themselves as bi-sexual but not sure if there are other issues I am not considering.

I think you'd have to figure out how you'd get the chick to be involved. 

[acaressandakiss]

10 minutes ago, italianboyph said:

I think you'd have to figure out how you'd get the chick to be involved. 

Well ideally the provider would know someone willing to help fulfill my request. .

[italianboyph]

Just now, acaressandakiss said:

Well ideally the provider would know someone willing to help fulfill my request. .

That's what I'm saying, the provider would need to know a girl. 

[Jamie21]

12 hours ago, italianboyph said:

That's what I'm saying, the provider would need to know a girl. 

I work with females who would do this. However usually when clients ask me to set it up they’re surprised by the rate (for both of us) and that often deters them from proceeding. Guys who usually hire guys aren’t used to paying the higher rates that females generally charge.

In sex work it is one of the few areas where the gender pay differential works the other way around!! 
 

[Luv2play]

On 3/29/2022 at 12:11 PM, IronMaus said:

In my experience with this, the client has a woman they want to watch me fuck, or the cis-female escort has a man for us to fuck in front of. Unfortunately my female colleagues have rates that most clients who prefer men are willing to pay.

 

That last sentence doesn't make sense to me. Isn't it the usual case that female escoets charge more?

[Jamie21]

Yes females charge more. 

[+ IronMaus]

On 4/3/2022 at 10:26 AM, Luv2play said:

That last sentence doesn't make sense to me. Isn't it the usual case that female escoets charge more?

Sorry that was a typo. Yes they charge more - up to 3X more

[Jamie21]

7 hours ago, IronMaus said:

Sorry that was a typo. Yes they charge more - up to 3X more

In these days where one can self identify as female I might start to do that, and put up my rates 🙂. I’ll ask clients to pretend my 8 inch cock isn’t there. Preferred pronouns: Her, she. 

[Guest]

19 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

In these days where one can self identify as female I might start to do that, and put up my rates 🙂. I’ll ask clients to pretend my 8 inch cock isn’t there. Preferred pronouns: Her, she. 

I know you're  joking, but for those who are curious, trans womens' rates are usually more like men's rates than women's. 

[Jamie21]

4 hours ago, DanteV said:

I know you're  joking, but for those who are curious, trans womens' rates are usually more like men's rates than women's. 

Interesting! I’ve a friend who works as both, sometimes he escorts as a gay Twink, sometimes as a transexual. I’ve done duo’s with him (in his gay Twink persona) but I’ve not worked with her. 

She charges more than he does. There’s more demand in London for her than there is for him. She tells me she can attract a different quality of client. I understand though that the rates she can charge are still lower than a non trans female could demand.