If you met the love of your life tomorrow...

[+ Bryan Dube]

would you tell them about your hiring history? eventually maybe? if you got married? No secrets in marriage right?

Asking for a friend...:)

[BeamerBikes]

Probably, I developed a stripper habit during the caregiving years.  Too old to hold many secrets that could only hurt my pride. 

[FewBricksShy]

I’ve thought about this. I can’t imagine how it’s terribly different than having had hookups on Grindr. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

When I find the love of my life, he'll know I hire and I'll know he escorts 😉

[Rudynate]

I told him, he wasn't hurt that I had done it, but he was hurt that I hadn't told him at the time.  We have very few secrets from each other.  This made it one less. Now, when I'm thinking about sex outside our relationship, I show him the guy's picture and say, "I like this guy - Im thinking about playing around with him." And if I actually make a date, I tell him.   I also keep these occasions few and far between.

[liubit]

I met the love of my life many years ago -still together and now married-, and we have always been open about our hiring. We have hired in many versions: either separately, or together for threesomes, or even simultaneously (one escort each but in different rooms).

Edited March 17, 2022 by liubit

[+ Tygerscent]

On 3/16/2022 at 9:02 PM, Bryan Dube said:

would you tell them about your hiring history? eventually maybe? if you got married? No secrets in marriage right?

Asking for a friend...:)

I’d be a fool not too… I’m all over the internet~ 😂🤣😂❤️
 If I didn’t tell that person, someone else would~ 
 One of my previous roommates went to a boy spa with a bunch of his friends and they were sitting in the hot tub when one of them pointed to the giant porn screen behind them and said: “isn’t that your room mate?” 
 Despite that… I’d not share names or break confidentiality regarding my encounters~ 
 Honestly… I’ve had relations with both the female and male love of my life… plus 22yrs with the other half of my soul, a grey wolf named Nanook~ I’m not looking any further to fill those spots~ I just want Clients who are like best friends and family to me… albeit family I have hot, dirty man Sex with~ 🤷‍♂️

Edited March 18, 2022 by Tygerscent

[+ Tygerscent]

20 hours ago, Rudynate said:

I told him, he wasn't hurt that I had done it, but he was hurt that I hadn't told him at the time.  We have very few secrets from each other.  This made it one less. Now, when I'm thinking about sex outside our relationship, I show him the guy's picture and say, "I like this guy - Im thinking about playing around with him." And if I actually make a date, I tell him.   I also keep these occasions few and far between.

Nothing wrong with having a trollop to sport about with from time to time~ 

[CuriousByNature]

If I meet the love of my life tomorrow they will probably be either a dentist or dental assistant, because it looks like that's what I'll be doing for most of the day...

[rvwnsd]

On 3/18/2022 at 1:05 PM, CuriousByNature said:

If I meet the love of my life tomorrow they will probably be either a dentist or dental assistant, because it looks like that's what I'll be doing for most of the day...

At least he would know how wide you can open your mouth, not to mention file down those (ouch!) sharp teeth.

Back to the topic at hand, yes I would. There's nothing shameful about hiring sex workers. 

[Bargara Leatherboy]

I have always had the philosophy of what I did and what the love of my life did before we met is irrelevant to our relationship.  

 

Some people are very judgemental about paying for sex,  its wrong in my opinion.

i prefer to hire and get what i want than standing around in a bar, or bathhouse and either settling for whats available or going home alone and horny