Rate for a 3 day weekend ????????????????

[Sixty]

Flying in a provider from Cali to NYC, Fri to thru Mon, To only see me.

I know the airfare is under $400. Is $5000 fair Including the flight? Obviously I provide all meals and ubers from and to the airport.

[cany10011]

Sounds fair to me, and this is what I usually offer to visiting providers for a long weekend. However, the question is best directed to the escort in question Hope you have a fun time planned!!!

[+ azdr0710]

Make sure he doesn't demand first-class airfare!  Have you met him before?  I presume you've already discussed sleeping habits, alone time, eating preferences......

[MscleLovr]

More than fair IMHO

[HoseMaster]

Seems a little high to me if that’s three nights in a row.  But then again, that’s just my opinion based on my experience doing this over the last 17 years.  I know some on here will be for the escort getting as much money as possible, but I’m also here for us clients not getting ripped off either.  
 

I do a lot of 2-day weekends (40-48 hours) with some great guys and have a great times for the $2,000 to $2,500 range.  Of course I buy their airfare and everything else too.  I paid a couple guys $3,000 for the same period, because I just had to try them, but they were no better than the cheaper hires.  I had one of my old hires who doesn’t advertise anymore for $1,500 for two nights (about 40 hours) last week, and he was better than the both of the $3,000 guys by a long shot.

If you haven’t hired this guy before, that seems like a long time and a lot of money to invest in case you two don’t match.

[+ glutes]

$5400 / 72 hours = $75/hour

Shelling out 75 bones an hour (for 3 days), not including meals/transport/entertainment/sleeptime?

No provider I know, past or present, is worth it.

Edited February 8, 2022 by glutes

[+ nycman]

13 hours ago, Sixty said:

Is $5000 fair….?

The only real answer to the question is…if it’s a price you’re comfortable
with paying and a price he’s comfortable with accepting….then it’s "fair".

Personally, $5,000 for 3 days is way out of my price range. Then again, 
I’m not really into spending 3 days with an escort. So you have to factor
that into the answer/equation/assessment.

In some weird fantasy world, I might pay $1,000 a day, but even that 
seems ridiculous to me. I’m not saying any escort would (or even 
should) accept that rate. That’s up to him.

I could see being an escort, and a client I know and like well, invites
me on a trip, to somewhere I was dying to go….I’d gladly take the $1,000
offer. But I also respect the "work is work and I’m not going anywhere 
for less than $5,000 a day" attitude. 

Offer what you think it’s worth to you, and don’t be offended if he 
declines. And I’d give the exact same advice to an escort. 

[Trick]

$5000 for me is about 16 one-hour appointments at $300 each.  I’d take that over three days with one guy I have to feed and somehow keep happy.  But to each his own.

[jeezifonly]

Jeez, if only that was doable for me…

[+ Pensant]

That would be about half the price of a new carbon road bike I’ve been considering. I’d prefer the bike. One of my regulars is $2400 for the same duration, and I always know exactly what I’m getting.

[Skip]

It's on the high side, but better to pay who you want to see and can afford, than either looking for a cheaper alternative or negotiating to death. If you can addord it withour regret...go for it. It's a lot of time one on one....make sure you're up for that! 

[MscleLovr]

10 hours ago, Trick said:

$5000…is about 16 one-hour appointments at $300…I’d take that over three days with one guy I have to feed and…keep happy.  

Totally agree @Trick I wouldn’t want to spend 3 days with a stranger in case there was no chemistry or his personal habits irritated me (just as mine might irritate him). 

 

11 hours ago, nycman said:

an escort, and a client I know and like well, invites me…somewhere I was dying to go….I’d gladly take the $1,000 offer…I also respect the "work is work and I’m not going anywhere for less than $5,000 a day" attitude. 

That was my experience over the years @nycman I like to date nice guys, first for a session, then an overnight stay, before a weekend or an overseas trip. I was generous and had lots of fun with several hot young men on various trips as I'd first ask if there was some place or activity they’d enjoy (European city, diving in the Caribbean, skiing in the Alps etc).
 

Even so, one muscleboy-bottom became hard to please on our last trip (sulking because on a trip to get Winter sun, it was cloudy at the beach) and said “this is work for me”. I sympathised - saying Yes, it’s why you’re staying at a luxury resort you couldn’t otherwise afford - and paid him the agreed fee, no tip. 

Edited February 8, 2022 by MscleLovr

[Trick]

4 hours ago, Skip said:

It's on the high side, but better to pay who you want to see and can afford, than either looking for a cheaper alternative or negotiating to death. If you can addord it withour regret...go for it. It's a lot of time one on one....make sure you're up for that! 

As they say, the thrill is in the hunt.  For me, there is much excitement between the initial call or text and the actual meeting. The negotiations turn me on. It get’s better when the provider initiates some flirting before the meet.