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[+ nycman]

On 12/19/2021 at 9:39 PM, nycboi said:

I would pick my customers though: "send a selfie. I'll give you a discount".

Yeah, wrong business tiger. You should try getting a regular job instead. 

On 12/19/2021 at 11:15 PM, nycboi said:

If you look descent, hell yeah.

I don’t think you understand how this works…..you’re the being paid to look decent….not me. 

On 12/19/2021 at 11:17 PM, nycboi said:

Do you guys think is acceptable to ask for a selfie?

Acceptable to ask? Yes. Acceptable for me to say no? Also, yes. 

On 12/20/2021 at 12:45 AM, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

This whole thread is already a trainwreck.

On 12/20/2021 at 10:58 AM, Tygerscent said:

Advice: Don’t game people

Ahhh..the voices of reason.
Of course, he will ignore you. 

4 hours ago, nycboi said:

I don't want to do it and then regret it.

I already regret it. 

4 hours ago, nycboi said:

I can be quite narcissist at times.

To the surprise of no one reading this thread.

4 hours ago, nycboi said:

I am seriously thinking about it.

Think harder.

Edited December 26, 2021 by nycman

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

10 hours ago, nycman said:

Yeah, wrong business tiger. You should try getting a regular job instead. 

I don’t think you understand how this works…..you’re the being paid to look decent….not me. 

Acceptable to ask? Yes. Acceptable for me to say no? Also, yes. 

Ahhh..the voices of reason.
Of course, he will ignore you. 

I already regret it. 

To the surprise of no one reading this thread.

Think harder.

REPLY OF THE YEAR. 

I'm also nominating it for the 2022 award too. 

[EastbayMike]

On 12/19/2021 at 8:17 PM, nycboi said:

Pathetic right?

All of this is pathetic. 

[josh282282]

19 hours ago, nycboi said:

I am seriously thinking about it.

THINKING ABOUT IT?!?

Just DO it! 

(In your eyes) you are one hot tamale.  You're so hot you can even filter out good paying customers by asking for a selfie. That's some pretty amazing hotness you say you are. Run with it!

So heck, I'll go one step further cuz  You THE MAN: you gotta, GOTTA, quit your day job RIGHT NOW. Dont think bout it one moment more. Dump that low-paying loser job & run to the very easy, low-risk job of Escorting.  Just ask the other (very wonderful) escorts on this website.  They constantly are saying how EASY & DRAMA-FREE escorting is. Why can't that be you, too?

And escorting will be fun. You will never have ugly clients (cuz they sent you a real & truthful selfie,  right?).  You will never fear for an STI (its amazing how protective selfies are). You will never be stood-up by a client. And your hotness will repel all the Crazies, so it's one win after another for you!!

 

On 12/19/2021 at 8:17 PM, nycboi said:

But I won't kiss nor rim nor do oral

I bet you are thinking 'why didnt you think of this before'? Well, you can make it up by charging yet NOT kissing, rimming, or blowing your clients. But what escort needs to provide those activities.  I mean, clients rarely ask for them anyway, right? Once again, its Smooth Sailing to the Easy Money Ocean for you.  Jump on that ship A.S.A.P. 

 

19 hours ago, nycboi said:

I can be quite narcissist at times.

And it looks like your personality is PERFECT for escorting.  Clients REALLY love a good narcissistic provider. We eat them up! Dont change a thing. You do you!

So STOP, STOP, STOP asking for advice cuz you come up with INCREDIBLY SMART IDEAS ALL THE TIME!

Run, dont walk, to the phone,  QUIT your day job now- NO 30 DAY NOTICES REQUIRED-  and set up your RM ad today!!!

Your BIGGEST fan,

Josh

[BuffaloKyle]

If you advertise on rentmen as long as you list all your do's and don'ts on your ad and that you require a picture from your clients then go for it. Or if you are just looking for a little bit of extra income why not try out camming on chaturbate and also doing an onlyfans page. 

Edited December 26, 2021 by BuffaloKyle

[maninsoma]

1 hour ago, BuffaloKyle said:

If you advertise on rentmen as long as you list all your do's and don'ts on your ad and that you require a picture from your clients then go for it. Or if you are just looking for a little bit of extra income why not try out camming on chaturbate and also doing an onlyfans page. 

Doing Onlyfans makes more sense given what we know.  If nycboi and his partners want to remain discreet, they can simply blur faces or make sure the camera isn't capturing them.  That will surely eliminate some subscribers, but probably fewer than an escort having all of the limitations and requirements expressed in this thread.

[socurious]

3 hours ago, josh282282 said:

THINKING ABOUT IT?!?

Just DO it! 

(In your eyes) you are one hot tamale.  You're so hot you can even filter out good paying customers by asking for a selfie. That's some pretty amazing hotness you say you are. Run with it!

So heck, I'll go one step further cuz  You THE MAN: you gotta, GOTTA, quit your day job RIGHT NOW. Dont think bout it one moment more. Dump that low-paying loser job & run to the very easy, low-risk job of Escorting.  Just ask the other (very wonderful) escorts on this website.  They constantly are saying how EASY & DRAMA-FREE escorting is. Why can't that be you, too?

And escorting will be fun. You will never have ugly clients (cuz they sent you a real & truthful selfie,  right?).  You will never fear for an STI (its amazing how protective selfies are). You will never be stood-up by a client. And your hotness will repel all the Crazies, so it's one win after another for you!!

 

I bet you are thinking 'why didnt you think of this before'? Well, you can make it up by charging yet NOT kissing, rimming, or blowing your clients. But what escort needs to provide those activities.  I mean, clients rarely ask for them anyway, right? Once again, its Smooth Sailing to the Easy Money Ocean for you.  Jump on that ship A.S.A.P. 

 

And it looks like your personality is PERFECT for escorting.  Clients REALLY love a good narcissistic provider. We eat them up! Dont change a thing. You do you!

So STOP, STOP, STOP asking for advice cuz you come up with INCREDIBLY SMART IDEAS ALL THE TIME!

Run, dont walk, to the phone,  QUIT your day job now- NO 30 DAY NOTICES REQUIRED-  and set up your RM ad today!!!

Your BIGGEST fan,

Josh

What a long post.

You're not funny, buddy. 

Edited December 27, 2021 by nycboi

[socurious]

2 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

If you advertise on rentmen as long as you list all your do's and don'ts on your ad and that you require a picture from your clients then go for it. Or if you are just looking for a little bit of extra income why not try out camming on chaturbate and also doing an onlyfans page. 

Is Onlyfans really that profitable? I feel like it's so overcrowded right now.

[socurious]

So much negativity on this thread. I came looking for answers and some are trying to make fun of me. If you don't have something nice to say just keep it to yourself. At least I'm being honest.

[socurious]

19 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

I have never met up with anyone so perhaps my opinion lacks gravitas compared to the opinions of others on the forum, but everything you mention in the above post has been discussed on the board many times: requesting photos from potential clients, discounts in your donation amount for those you find attractive, etc, and in the vast majority of cases the feedback about such providers is quite negative.   I would not refer to you as 'pathetic' as you have put it, but perhaps there are other avenues for earning additional income that you might want to consider - in particular, ones where your apparent need for physical attractiveness is not so central to success.

You aren't necessarily a narcissist.  You may simply be self-centred and egotistical.  And I'm not saying this as a judgement - narcissism is generally accompanied by a lack of empathy and I have no basis to make such a conclusion about you

Thank you so much for your input. You are a good example of the interactions I'm trying to have on this board. 

 About asking for selfies, not doing oral and all that, yes, I already know it's a minus. 

[rvwnsd]

On 12/19/2021 at 9:39 PM, nycboi said:

I would pick my customers though: "send a selfie. I'll give you a discount".

 

On 12/19/2021 at 11:15 PM, nycboi said:

If you look descent, hell yeah. 

 

On 12/19/2021 at 11:17 PM, nycboi said:

Do you guys think is acceptable to ask for a selfie? I mean, I would be open to make a discount if they send me their pictures. I know it sounds pathetic but still. Instead of charging 300 I would charge 250 a hour. But I won't kiss nor rim nor do oral unless there is a chemistry.  Pathetic right? Just thinking about it.

 

21 hours ago, nycboi said:

I don't want to do it and then regret it. I regret random hookups sometimes because I just think they're not at my level in the looks department. I can be quite narcissist at times.

 

21 hours ago, nycboi said:

I am seriously thinking about it.

 

1 hour ago, nycboi said:

So much negativity on this thread. I came looking for answers and some are trying to make fun of me. If you don't have something nice to say just keep it to yourself. At least I'm being honest.

 

I'm being completely honest. Every condition you have listed is among the list of things clients complain about when hiring escorts. If that's how you want to operate your business, then I do not think you will be successful and you should think about a different way to make extra money.

[Guest]

3 hours ago, maninsoma said:

Doing Onlyfans makes more sense given what we know.  If nycboi and his partners want to remain discreet, they can simply blur faces or make sure the camera isn't capturing them.  That will surely eliminate some subscribers, but probably fewer than an escort having all of the limitations and requirements expressed in this thread.

Let's get serious again. No one is going to pay for an OnlyFans subscription for someone who blurs his face. Hopefully the OP has gotten the message by now that his plan is unlikely to be successful. We can stop roasting him now... 🙄

[BSR]

22 minutes ago, Unicorn said:

Let's get serious again. No one is going to pay for an OnlyFans subscription for someone who blurs his face. Hopefully the OP has gotten the message by now that his plan is unlikely to be successful. We can stop roasting him now... 🙄

True, with so much competition, building up a successful OnlyFans is hard for any newcomer.  A face-less newbie doesn't have a snowball's chance in H-E-double hockey sticks.

Has @nycboi considered go-go dancing?  Plenty of go-go gigs in NYC for a guy with the right look.  Some dancers make a decent amount just in tips.  Others make even more working "off the premises."  He could be selective about clients without offending anyone.  His list of restrictions will annoy most rent.men browsers, but bar clientele looking to hookup with a dancer will be more accepting (just my opinion).

[socurious]

5 minutes ago, BSR said:

True, with so much competition, building up a successful OnlyFans is hard for any newcomer.  A face-less newbie doesn't have a snowball's chance in H-E-double hockey sticks.

Has @nycboi considered go-go dancing?  Plenty of go-go gigs in NYC for a guy with the right look.  Some dancers make a decent amount just in tips.  Others make even more working "off the premises."  He could be selective about clients without offending anyone.  His list of restrictions will annoy most rent.men browsers, but bar clientele looking to hookup with a dancer will be more accepting (just my opinion).

I am socially awkward. I don't think I can handle the night club environment around so many people. I am also not that young (late 30s).

Edited December 27, 2021 by nycboi

[+ nycman]

3 hours ago, nycboi said:

I am also not that young (late 30s).

Oh dear lord, I was being nice because I thought you were a 20 year old child!

You’re a full grown adult male? And you’re this naive about the business aspects of escorting?

I’m sorry, but I still refuse to believe you’re allowed to ride the NYC subway all by yourself. 

[caramelsub]

3 hours ago, nycman said:

Oh dear lord, I was being nice because I thought you were a 20 year old child!

You’re a full grown adult male? And you’re this naive about the business aspects of escorting?

I’m sorry, but I still refuse to believe you’re allowed to ride the NYC subway all by yourself. 

To @nycboi ‘s defense I believe English  is not his first language and he is from another country. 

[Guest]

14 hours ago, nycboi said:

I am socially awkward. I don't think I can handle the night club environment around so many people. I am also not that young (late 30s).

Yikes. You're almost middle-aged as well, AND you're socially awkward? This just keeps getting better. There's a very limited market for middle-aged escorts. Yes, there are some successful ones, like @Benjamin_Nicholas, who's well into his 40s, but they've been around for ages and don't have hang-ups. You'd have to be exceptional in looks at your age. Most clients are looking for men in their 20s and early 30s. 

I admire certain professions like drag queens, dancers, and so on, because they're way opposite of my talents, and I can only fantasize about being able to do what they do. You've got to find what your strengths are and work in that area. No shame in not being able to be a successful escort. Everyone has some talent in certain areas. Thank goodness everyone is different, so we can all move on as a society, with each member working to his talents. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

2 hours ago, Unicorn said:

There's a very limited market for middle-aged escorts. Yes, there are some successful ones, like @Benjamin_Nicholas, who's well into his 40s.

Limited market? Not quite. There are many of us who do very well because we have honed our craft and have the right circle of clientele. 

As for my age, have you seen my passport and can confirm when I was born?  I'm sure there's an 80 year old portrait of me in an attic somewhere, collecting dust. 

I'm always curious about those make statements of an escort's age without actually having met them. 

 

Edited December 27, 2021 by Benjamin_Nicholas

[socurious]

15 hours ago, nycman said:

Oh dear lord, I was being nice because I thought you were a 20 year old child!

You’re a full grown adult male? And you’re this naive about the business aspects of escorting?

I’m sorry, but I still refuse to believe you’re allowed to ride the NYC subway all by yourself. 

Don't worry about about me and mind your own business. No one is obligating you to read my posts. Why are they even affecting you? 

Being nice how? You already attacked me on another thread out of no where and the moderator had to remove your post and all when I wasn't even talking to you. 

You and those cheering you are clearly butthurt for something I said to the point of wanting to start a confrontation with your passive-aggresive ways. Not my fault that you take stuff out of context. Maybe you are the one that needs to grow up.

 

Edited December 27, 2021 by nycboi

[Epigonos]

Isn't it about time to put this tread to bed.  It appears to me that everything than can be said about this topic has been said over and over and over again.  Hopefully, by now NYCboi know exactly what all poster think about his idea.

[socurious]

3 hours ago, Unicorn said:

Yikes. You're almost middle-aged as well, AND you're socially awkward? This just keeps getting better. There's a very limited market for middle-aged escorts. Yes, there are some successful ones, like @Benjamin_Nicholas, who's well into his 40s, but they've been around for ages and don't have hang-ups. You'd have to be exceptional in looks at your age. Most clients are looking for men in their 20s and early 30s. 

I admire certain professions like drag queens, dancers, and so on, because they're way opposite of my talents, and I can only fantasize about being able to do what they do. You've got to find what your strengths are and work in that area. No shame in not being able to be a successful escort. Everyone has some talent in certain areas. Thank goodness everyone is different, so we can all move on as a society, with each member working to his talents. 

Well I am in my late 30s but don't really look it (or so most people say). I often get late 20s to early 30s. 

Not really socially awkard (bad word choice perhaps) but on the introvert side. It's situational though and depends on a lot of things. I am not usually shy when hooking up with somebody for example. I just don't like going to clubs and bars where you have to socialize a lot. At times I can get nervious. It's hilarious because most people can't tell unless they start knowing me for long. 

Edited December 27, 2021 by nycboi

[socurious]

21 minutes ago, Epigonos said:

Isn't it about time to put this tread to bed.  It appears to me that everything than can be said about this topic has been said over and over and over again.  Hopefully, by now NYCboi know exactly what all poster think about his idea.

I feel like you should have said that a while ago when people started bullying me. But okay, I don't think you have bad intentions. 

11 hours ago, caramelsub said:

To @nycboi ‘s defense I believe English  is not his first language and he is from another country. 

Thank you so much.

Yes, I wasn't raised in America. I came here in my mid 20s without speaking a word of English. I was able to go to college but still never lost the strong accent. Today I still have it and it shows in my grammar I guess. It will make sense that I won't elaborate the same way people born or/and raised in an English-speaking country does. 

Edited December 27, 2021 by nycboi

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

Limited market? Not quite. There are many of us who do very well because we have honed our craft and have the right circle of clientele. 

As for my age, have you seen my passport and can confirm when I was born?  I'm sure there's an 80 year old portrait of me in an attic somewhere, collecting dust. 

I'm always curious about those make statements of an escort's age without actually having met them. 

 

You have admitted being in your 40s in prior strings. This fact could also be deduced from your prior age claims in ads and reviews which have gone back some 20 years. So you lie about your age. Own it. Be proud that you're doing so well in your 40s, and especially that I complimented you on being a shining example of an escort who's successful in middle age. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

6 minutes ago, Unicorn said:

You have admitted being in your 40s in prior strings. This fact could also be deduced from your prior age claims in ads and reviews which have gone back some 20 years. So you lie about your age. Own it. Be proud that you're doing so well in your 40s, and especially that I complimented you on being a shining example of an escort who's successful in middle age. 

My concern was that you said well-into an age that you had no actual knowledge of. 

And I'll gladly wait for you to produce the said threads wherein I disclose my age. It's never happened. 

I appreciate the overall sentiment. I honesty do. 

I simply take issue with the delivery.  I've never enjoyed strangers acting overly familiar with me when we've never actually met. 

Edited December 27, 2021 by Benjamin_Nicholas

[Guest]

3 minutes ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

...And I'll gladly wait for you to produce the said threads to where I disclose my age. It's never happened. ,,,

Don't wait too long, or you'll be in an entirely different age group... 😉