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53 minutes ago, mike carey said:

@TygerscentI remember a goodbye kiss from you at a Palm Springs pool party took rather longer than I had expected. And I suppose that 'I remember' are the key words.

“Good bye” is never the way to part ways with those you care for… So, perhaps it was an “until we meet again” kiss~ ☺️

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12 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

Nope.  Just on the cheek from family and friends.  I should specify, face cheek.  LOL

Let your Curious flag fly!

As far as the gay-sex-repertoire goes, deep kissing is what most would call “standard issue” along with giving head… 👄

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17 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

Nope.  Just on the cheek from family and friends.  I should specify, face cheek.  LOL

If you are not impressed by your first kiss, keep on the quest.  After experiencing kissing that is to your liking, you will want more.  🙂

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On 11/16/2021 at 10:17 AM, CuriousByNature said:

I think it may be too late!  

If you have lips, breath and a desire, it is just a matter of getting it done.  Fear is usually the main obstacle to a first kiss with anyone.  Fear of rejection or fear that the kiss will not have the desired effect on each of the partners.  Once that fear is overcome, all that is left it the pucker and letting nature take control.  

While I have shared many kisses with Tyger, I can recall being a bit reticent about the first one that included a third party.  I closed my eyes, turned off the anxiety center in my brain and let the soft moist sensations course from my lips to every other part of my body. I am not sure if it lasted a few seconds or a few lifetimes, but it was memorable and as a result, it goes on forever.  

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On 11/24/2021 at 11:45 PM, purplekow said:

If you have lips, breath and a desire, it is just a matter of getting it done.  Fear is usually the main obstacle to a first kiss with anyone.  Fear of rejection or fear that the kiss will not have the desired effect on each of the partners.  Once that fear is overcome, all that is left it the pucker and letting nature take control.  

While I have shared many kisses with Tyger, I can recall being a bit reticent about the first one that included a third party.  I closed my eyes, turned off the anxiety center in my brain and let the soft moist sensations course from my lips to every other part of my body. I am not sure if it lasted a few seconds or a few lifetimes, but it was memorable and as a result, it goes on forever.  

Soft, Moist sensations… Mmmmmmm~ 

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On 11/16/2021 at 8:17 AM, CuriousByNature said:

I think it may be too late!  

Lest anyone think it’s ever too late for that first kiss, or that fear of rejection should impede it, I’ll share my friend’s story:

My friend had been involved with the boy next door for 10 years—teens to early 20s. They were deeply insecure and in denial about their sexuality (typical for their age and then social norms), and developed tortured rationals for their mutual attraction. As one posted on another thread, “it’s not gay if…” was a common refrain when they dared to speak of it. But in their many encounters nothing was left on the table, except a kiss.

Over time, my friend developed strong feelings for his partner, and deeply yearned for a kiss. His partner was several years older, and the dominant one in their “relationship,” so my friend rarely initiated, least of all anything that would leave him vulnerable. And a kiss was the riskiest (what could be “gayer” than a kiss? he imagined).

One evening they’d had a few beers and my friend was lightly buzzed. In the midst of some passionate play, with inhibitions at bay, he thought the time was right. Indeed, he’d never been more sure of it. After all, they’d been “together” for 10 years, what was there to fear? So, my friend mustered the courage and kissed his partner. My friend would say it was then to now the greatest chance he’d ever taken.

Well, his partner immediately winced, wiped his lips, and turned away in disgust. He was repulsed! And my friend was utterly humiliated. They carried on through conclusion, then his partner left, and my friend never heard from him again. Ever.

Rejected. Brutally crushed. His worst fears realized in an instant. But, you get over these things and move on. Fast forward three decades, and a wonderful and fulfilling life in between, this past spring my friend had his first real kiss with a man. He doesn’t have words to describe how profound it was. But, as relevant to this thread, it was not a moment too late! There is always time for that first kiss….

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