Jose_ok NYC

[+ WestGuy]

1 hour ago, Cliff said:

Hey Wanderoz! Do you mean he asked you for a deposit to book the appt? 

I am curious about that too because in my experience he has never asked for any money up front. 

[Wanderoz]

He wants to travel.

[KarmaisReal]

12 hours ago, Wanderoz said:

Very much not himself. Asked me for money. 

Who was asking you for money ?

[Cooper]

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[Guest]

On 1/4/2023 at 5:13 PM, Harryinny said:

Jose had been out of circulation for about three months  because of a broken finger.  He is working again and I just had another great session with him.  He is quite sad though because of the death of his BF. He is such a nice guy, I encourage you to book him, it will do him a lot of good to get busy again and it will do a lot of good to you all as well since he is a great masseur.

I booked him and confirmed the day before. Went to his place. No answer. No replies to my text after he blew me off. This is a first for me! 🤦 

[JUWS]

1 hour ago, GlamNYC said:

I booked him and confirmed the day before. Went to his place. No answer. No replies to my text after he blew me off. This is a first for me! 🤦 

Very unusual for him, not to be there nor answer…something’s up 🤔

[rxjoe]

8 hours ago, GlamNYC said:

I booked him and confirmed the day before. Went to his place. No answer. No replies to my text after he blew me off. This is a first for me! 🤦 

Similar for me a few months ago, arranged for a massage and on the day of could not get in touch with him...

[PileDriver]

have no idea what is going on with jose. have played with him. upstanding young guy. haven't seen him in sometime, i just hope he is well. nice guy. period.

[Harryinny]

I contacted him twice recently, responded shortly thereafter but could not connect as he was quite booked!

[PileDriver]

glad to hear he is booked. once again. really great guy.

[pubic_assistance]

On 12/21/2023 at 10:46 AM, PileDriver said:

have no idea what is going on with jose.

Boyfriend died not too long ago. ( suicide I am told) Gonna take a while to heal that wound.

[SouthOfTheBorder]

26 minutes ago, GlamNYC said:

you wouldn’t think that based on his one-word text replies. 

this is the thing w texting - we read into it based on how we feel & what we expect.  

if he’s a younger person & working provider, then inundated with friends, family & inquiring clients texts.  the one word reply is an acknowledgment & answer to the question asked.  the chatty conversation is for when he’s being paid. 

[Lohengrin1979]

On 12/23/2023 at 7:26 AM, SouthOfTheBorder said:

this is the thing w texting - we read into it based on how we feel & what we expect.  

if he’s a younger person & working provider, then inundated with friends, family & inquiring clients texts.  the one word reply is an acknowledgment & answer to the question asked.  the chatty conversation is for when he’s being paid. 

In my experience, terse, one word replies translate into an equal lack of personality during the appointment. This is a customer service industry. If you can’t be arsed, as a provider, to be personable with prospective clients, go be an accountant.

Edited February 20, 2024 by Lohengrin1979

[Guest]

12 minutes ago, Lohengrin1979 said:

In my experience, terse, one word replies translate into an equal lack of personality during the appointment. This is a customer service industry. If you can’t be arsed, as a provider, to be personable with prospective clients, go be an accountant.

100% true in this provider’s case.  

[Redwine56]

15 minutes ago, GlamNYC said:

100% true in this provider’s case.  

I just have to come out and say this in Jose's defense.  I've only had one session with Jose pre-COVID and he was not like this at all.  A friendly, bubbly, handsome guy who aimed to please.  I want to express my sympathy for him since it seems he hasn't been the same since the loss of his boyfriend.  I feel that he hasn't been able to fully deal with it and that's the root of his issues.  You guys are completely correct in what you say and I would feel the same way.   We want a good experience when we schedule a massage and don't need the extra drama.  This continuing situation will and obviously is affecting Jose's massage business which is his livelihood.  I hope he will seek out much needed help.  

[Guest]

13 minutes ago, Redwine56 said:

I just have to come out and say this in Jose's defense.  I've only had one session with Jose pre-COVID and he was not like this at all.  A friendly, bubbly, handsome guy who aimed to please.  I want to express my sympathy for him since it seems he hasn't been the same since the loss of his boyfriend.  I feel that he hasn't been able to fully deal with it and that's the root of his issues.  You guys are completely correct in what you say and I would feel the same way.   We want a good experience when we schedule a massage and don't need the extra drama.  This continuing situation will and obviously is affecting Jose's massage business which is his livelihood.  I hope he will seek out much needed help.  

My thoughts exactly. That’s why I expressed so much empathy through my interactions with him. We met in December, when we just talked (no massage or anything else) for 2 hours about his grieving — and compensated him for 2 hours with a tip and all. (Yes, call me a fool for doing that, but I had just lost my mom a couple of years ago and could relate to him.) Then what followed were two cancellations and “too busy” or “it’s not a good day” curt replies. Maybe a lot of people think he’s nice. I was nice to him, but he wasn’t nice to me. I just decided I was done and wished that his healing continue. 

[LookingAround]

I had a session with him a couple of weeks ago. Yes terse one word replies. But he showed up as he said he would right on time. He did great. Wonderful massage and great energy. It was a terrific experience for me as a client. 

[Redwine56]

43 minutes ago, GlamNYC said:

My thoughts exactly. That’s why I expressed so much empathy through my interactions with him. We met in December, when we just talked (no massage or anything else) for 2 hours about his grieving — and compensated him for 2 hours with a tip and all. (Yes, call me a fool for doing that, but I had just lost my mom a couple of years ago and could relate to him.) Then what followed were two cancellations and “too busy” or “it’s not a good day” curt replies. Maybe a lot of people think he’s nice. I was nice to him, but he wasn’t nice to me. I just decided I was done and wished that his healing continue. 

I applaud you for doing what you did.  If that was Jose's reaction to you soon afterwards, it confirms to me how deeply troubled he is.  I lost my Mom during the height of COVID,  forbidden to visit her as she lay dying in a rehab unable to eat by herself.  I have to live with that after taking such good care of her at home until she fell.  I can truly relate to how you feel.  We have to recognize the issue and seek help if we can't deal with it on our own.

[JayinHKNYC]

On 9/14/2023 at 12:37 PM, Cooper said:

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[CuriousByNature]

On 2/19/2024 at 6:09 PM, Lohengrin1979 said:

If you can’t be arsed, as a provider

Not all providers want to be arsed!

[Jasonmathison]

Has anyone seen Jose for a combo of sugaring and sensual massage?  I wonder if he’d be open to sugaring in the nude.    I guess I should just ask him.  

[LookingAround]

On 2/26/2024 at 10:57 AM, Jasonmathison said:

Has anyone seen Jose for a combo of sugaring and sensual massage?  I wonder if he’d be open to sugaring in the nude.    I guess I should just ask him.  

I’ve seen him for shaving and massage. He was nude for the massage and in shorts and a tank top for the shaving. I’m certain he would be nude if you asked him. 

[+ WestGuy]

On 2/26/2024 at 10:57 AM, Jasonmathison said:

Has anyone seen Jose for a combo of sugaring and sensual massage?  I wonder if he’d be open to sugaring in the nude.    I guess I should just ask him.  

I have seen him for this combo. For sugaring he always wears clothes, usually shorts and a tee or a tank. For the massage all the clothes come off. 

Edited February 28, 2024 by WestGuy

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

I hired Jose_Ok for a 90 minute combination massage and escort session.  Both parts were amazing.  Since this is the massage forum, I will definitely recommend him for a massage.

[Rand]

I must add to the praise here. Although, he can be a bit difficult to schedule with, he’s indeed VERY skilled masseur. I loved every minute of it. He’s my new favorite regular.