Providers what are some essentials you carry for outcalls?

[TorontoTwink]

Hi everyone,

What does one need when going to an outcall?

For me, I'd probably bring wipes, water bottle, cologne, deodorant, towel(s) and a jockstrap.

Does anyone bring sex toys? 

I'd love to hear what everyone brings to outcalls, if applicable that is  

Cheers! 

[+ DynamicUno]

Hmm, not a provider here, but I'd be a bit wierded out if a guy showed up at my door with sex toys unless we'd discussed it previously.  A jockstap or sexy underwear isn't out of line though.  Cologne is something best applied at home before showing up, though if it's an extended date with dinner or other public activities it might be good to cover the smell of sex on you if you can't shower.  A towel isn't usually I'd think would be required, but if you're seeing a guy in a hotel room it might be nice to be prepared since sometimes the places are skimpy on the towels these days.  

I always appreciate it if a guy brings his preferred lube, condoms, and poppers if he uses them.

How do you plan to carry your go-bag?  A backpack usually doesn't stand out when going through a lobby.

[TorontoTwink]

2 hours ago, DynamicUno said:

Hmm, not a provider here, but I'd be a bit wierded out if a guy showed up at my door with sex toys unless we'd discussed it previously.  A jockstap or sexy underwear isn't out of line though.  Cologne is something best applied at home before showing up, though if it's an extended date with dinner or other public activities it might be good to cover the smell of sex on you if you can't shower.  A towel isn't usually I'd think would be required, but if you're seeing a guy in a hotel room it might be nice to be prepared since sometimes the places are skimpy on the towels these days.  

I always appreciate it if a guy brings his preferred lube, condoms, and poppers if he uses them.

How do you plan to carry your go-bag?  A backpack usually doesn't stand out when going through a lobby.

Good question, most likely a backpack; a side bag could also work.

[Keenan]

5 hours ago, DynamicUno said:

Hmm, not a provider here, but I'd be a bit wierded out if a guy showed up at my door with sex toys unless we'd discussed it previously.  A jockstap or sexy underwear isn't out of line though.  Cologne is something best applied at home before showing up, though if it's an extended date with dinner or other public activities it might be good to cover the smell of sex on you if you can't shower.  A towel isn't usually I'd think would be required, but if you're seeing a guy in a hotel room it might be nice to be prepared since sometimes the places are skimpy on the towels these days.  

I always appreciate it if a guy brings his preferred lube, condoms, and poppers if he uses them.

How do you plan to carry your go-bag?  A backpack usually doesn't stand out when going through a lobby.

I always bring lube and condoms.  While they aren't always used it's important to be prepared.  I come dressed in what I'm going to wear for the client and something that I can easily strip out of or the client can easily take off of me.

Keenan

[Guest]

A backpack might make you look like a tourist or just too young, I’d recommend a nice handbag, cold and neutral colors like indigo, oxford blue, classic blue, black, gray, or browns like wood or mocha, leather is always a nice touch and no brand logos or patterns. Now everything in your bag must be travel size so you can take your bag on a flight too. What I always have in my bag is: a charger, lube (put it on a ziploc in case it drips), poppers, mints, a pen, ID and some cash, condoms (regulars and large size), napkins, mouth wash, tooth paste and brush, viagra pills, and maybe coconut or baby oil for massages (on that ziploc too), deodorant and cologne are optional in case you sweat too much so up to you lol sorry if too long just wanted to be descriptive and helpful 

[Alexphilly]

Well I try to carry a positive optimistic friendly cautious attitude when I'm going on outcalls, but mostly I carry condoms,lube,smell goods,phone charger,mints,sometimes massage oils 

Edited June 25, 2021 by Alexphilly

[TorontoTwink]

4 hours ago, Pnklemonade said:

A backpack might make you look like a tourist or just too young, I’d recommend a nice handbag, cold and neutral colors like indigo, oxford blue, classic blue, black, gray, or browns like wood or mocha, leather is always a nice touch and no brand logos or patterns. Now everything in your bag must be travel size so you can take your bag on a flight too. What I always have in my bag is: a charger, lube (put it on a ziploc in case it drips), poppers, mints, a pen, ID and some cash, condoms (regulars and large size), napkins, mouth wash, tooth paste and brush, viagra pills, and maybe coconut or baby oil for massages (on that ziploc too), deodorant and cologne are optional in case you sweat too much so up to you lol sorry if too long just wanted to be descriptive and helpful 

Right, I mean if you're going to someones actual residence I'd still prefer a backpack. Hotels or upscale settings maybe a side bag? Not sure, lol.

Thanks again

[TorontoTwink]

4 hours ago, Alexphilly said:

Well I try to carry a positive optimistic friendly cautious attitude when I'm going on outcalls, but mostly I carry condoms,lube,smell goods,phone charger,mints,sometimes massage oils 

Gotchya!

[marylander1940]

17 hours ago, TorontoTwink said:

Hi everyone,

What does one need when going to an outcall?

For me, I'd probably bring wipes, water bottle, cologne, deodorant, towel(s) and a jockstrap.

Does anyone bring sex toys? 

I'd love to hear what everyone brings to outcalls, if applicable that is  

Cheers! 

Condoms (that now in the era of PrEP are no longer an absolute must have) and lubricant. I don't know how many bottoms walk around with a douche but I'm sure some do. 

poppers... if the client likes them he could have them at home or bring them on a trip himself. 

[TorontoTwink]

2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Condoms (that now in the era of PrEP are no longer an absolute must have) and lubricant. I don't know how many bottoms walk around with a douche but I'm sure some do. 

poppers... if the client likes them he could have them at home or bring them on a trip himself. 

Walking around with a douche! LMAO, that's funny! I'm sure some people do. Thanks

[marylander1940]

8 hours ago, Pnklemonade said:

A backpack might make you look like a tourist or just too young, I’d recommend a nice handbag, cold and neutral colors like indigo, oxford blue, classic blue, black, gray, or browns like wood or mocha, leather is always a nice touch and no brand logos or patterns. Now everything in your bag must be travel size so you can take your bag on a flight too. What I always have in my bag is: a charger, lube (put it on a ziploc in case it drips), poppers, mints, a pen, ID and some cash, condoms (regulars and large size), napkins, mouth wash, tooth paste and brush, viagra pills, and maybe coconut or baby oil for massages (on that ziploc too), deodorant and cologne are optional in case you sweat too much so up to you lol sorry if too long just wanted to be descriptive and helpful 

in a backpack or European shoulder bag (murse) as suggested by @Pnklemonade 

11 minutes ago, TorontoTwink said:

Walking around with a douche! LMAO, that's funny! I'm sure some people do. Thanks

One more thing... the douche must be in a checked bag, unless you want it to be taken out of the carry on bag and inspected to make sure it's empty of liquids.

[Jamie21]

I walk in to high end hotels with my massage table! I have my backpack on my back (containing oils, lube, condoms various sizes, massage tools like feathers etc, a change of underwear, viagra, wipes, mouthwash, toothpaste and toothbrush, nail clippers - an essential for a masseur!). I’ve never been questioned. I always walk in with confidence as if I own the place. 

If it’s a hotel I’ve not visited previously I might have done a reconnaissance visit beforehand if convenient. It’s useful to check out things like locations of lifts, reception, the doorman etc. 

If the client wants a massage on the bed then it’s easier as I don’t have to drag the table around. But a table massage is much better than the bed. Often though they just want a more sensual massage with more focus on sex than massage do the bed is fine for that. 

I always dress smart; trousers, jacket etc. I still take my kit in the backpack though because it’s easier to carry. It’s dark and discreet. 

[Jarrod_Uncut]

8 hours ago, Pnklemonade said:

A backpack might make you look like a tourist or just too young, I’d recommend a nice handbag, cold and neutral colors like indigo, oxford blue, classic blue, black, gray, or browns like wood or mocha, leather is always a nice touch and no brand logos or patterns. Now everything in your bag must be travel size so you can take your bag on a flight too. What I always have in my bag is: a charger, lube (put it on a ziploc in case it drips), poppers, mints, a pen, ID and some cash, condoms (regulars and large size), napkins, mouth wash, tooth paste and brush, viagra pills, and maybe coconut or baby oil for massages (on that ziploc too), deodorant and cologne are optional in case you sweat too much so up to you lol sorry if too long just wanted to be descriptive and helpful 

this is me 100%

I actually carry a designated “client bag”, but have gone thru a few over the years. Recently I decided not to carry a “client bag” when I’m traveling because it just adds to my bags. 
 

In addition to the things you mentioned, I also may have to pack a bottle of wine and change of clothes. It’s been hard to find a sturdy bag that won’t be too heavy or fall apart.

I see a lot of bags at the discount stores that look great, but they just fall flat because some are packed with tissues. 

 

[TorontoTwink]

5 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

I walk in to high end hotels with my massage table! I have my backpack on my back (containing oils, lube, condoms various sizes, massage tools like feathers etc, a change of underwear, viagra, wipes, mouthwash, toothpaste and toothbrush, nail clippers - an essential for a masseur!). I’ve never been questioned. I always walk in with confidence as if I own the place. 

If it’s a hotel I’ve not visited previously I might have done a reconnaissance visit beforehand if convenient. It’s useful to check out things like locations of lifts, reception, the doorman etc. 

If the client wants a massage on the bed then it’s easier as I don’t have to drag the table around. But a table massage is much better than the bed. Often though they just want a more sensual massage with more focus on sex than massage do the bed is fine for that. 

I always dress smart; trousers, jacket etc. I still take my kit in the backpack though because it’s easier to carry. It’s dark and discreet. 

Wow! Totally understandable though, some people get treatments done in their room such as hair and makeup. I supposed that hotel employees just ignore. That being said, I feel like male providers can get away with it; more than female providers.

[TorontoTwink]

1 minute ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

this is me 100%

I actually carry a designated “client bag”, but have gone thru a few over the years. Recently I decided not to carry a “client bag” when I’m traveling because it just adds to my bags. 
 

In addition to the things you mentioned, I also may have to pack a bottle of wine and change of clothes. It’s been hard to find a sturdy bag that won’t be too heavy or fall apart.

I see a lot of bags at the discount stores that look great, but they just fall flat because some are packed with tissues. 

 

You said WINE?! COUNT ME IN!

[+ DynamicUno]

45 minutes ago, TorontoTwink said:

Wow! Totally understandable though, some people get treatments done in their room such as hair and makeup. I supposed that hotel employees just ignore. That being said, I feel like male providers can get away with it; more than female providers.

Hotel employees are observant, but they've pretty much seen it all. They're mostly concerned with people that are possible safety or security problems, not providers coming to see a guest.  The big inconvenience is if a hotel requires a card to use the elevators, which requires your guy meeting you in the lobby to take you up.  A friend of mine worked a higher end hotel in Atlanta and he pretty much knew most of the Atlanta guys on sight because he'd see them coming in repeatedly over time.  They were only concerned when security or police had to be involved.  Go in quietly and directly, and they'll usually pay you no mind.

Female providers could get away with hanging out in the bar area of convention/resort hotels picking up guests in the past, which would be harder for a male provider to do back then.  I think that's less common now in the internet age.  

 

[Guest]

3 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

this is me 100%

I actually carry a designated “client bag”, but have gone thru a few over the years. Recently I decided not to carry a “client bag” when I’m traveling because it just adds to my bags. 
 

In addition to the things you mentioned, I also may have to pack a bottle of wine and change of clothes. It’s been hard to find a sturdy bag that won’t be too heavy or fall apart.

I see a lot of bags at the discount stores that look great, but they just fall flat because some are packed with tissues. 

 

You’re so brave, thank you for sharing your story.

[cany10011]

 

Most of the guys I see don't carry anything with them. 

As a client, I usually host at home or in a hotel (when traveling). I usually have all the requisite supplies: condoms, lube, and jockstrap. If in a hotel, they can use the lotion for a massage or at home, i have my favorite lavender massage lotion. So, the escort just needs to show up. 

 

Edited June 26, 2021 by cany10011

[Jamie21]

I get a few clients who prefer to provide their own massage oil. That’s fine, I’ll use any reasonable massage oil except baby oil. They also prefer to use their own condoms (if I’m bottom) which is fine but I bring my own for me to use (if we’re doing safe) because I like the right size. 
Even if my client says he will provide everything I still take my own stuff because I’ve had in the past clients who use bad lube or have only one condom or just baby oil. I guess I just like to have no surprises and I prefer to be in control. 

[HoleTrainer]

I recently got a nice leather duffel bag to start carrying for Outcalls.  I’m typically in sportswear or leather depending on the level of discretion needed, so this is the perfect intersection for me and I find it makes me look as tho I may simply be arriving back from the gym.  Mine is covered in FF logos which is maybe not so discreet, but I simply couldn’t resist! 🥰 I doubt the average vanilla will have any idea which “FF” the bag is alluding to tho.

My typical outcall kit:

polymer lube like j or k lube, pre-mixed in a sports bottle, sealed in a ziplock bag

creamy lube like elbow grease, often in 4-6oz containers for single use

small silicone lube for conditioning and slipping into latex gloves

2-3 lengths of latex gloves, usually wrist and elbow length, sometimes bicep length if extreme depth is specified in inquiry

(just added!) latex socks 😉

disposable black nitrile gloves - 5 per baggie

stainless steel prostate wand

at least one small dildo (smaller than the circumference of my hand)

silicone pig hole(s) in sizes ranging from smaller than my hand to larger than both my hands

electrical box, electrical pads, electric butt plug

poppers

vaporizers with a few different cartridge options

travel size mouthwash

emory board

bluetooth speaker

(just added!) phone chargers for both iPhone and common android phones

(if hotel) travel size blue dawn dish soap

(just added) puppy pads

(if hotel) Clorox wipes for easy cleanup and disinfection

(if hotel) Perrier or Pellegrino to offer client

(if multiple outcalls) rubbing alcohol spray to sanitize toys after washing, otherwise I do this step at home

(sometimes) leather gear to change into on arrival

(sometimes) wedge pillow to create lift under the hips when no sling is available

empty plastic shopping bags for neat re-storage of used toys that still need to be washed/sanitized at home

 

I’m always expanding my kit and looking for more things to add.  I’ve added a bunch of new things in the last few weeks so this was a fun thread for me to have an excuse to write out a whole list. 🥰

[CuriousByNature]

1 hour ago, HoleTrainer said:

I recently got a nice leather duffel bag to start carrying for Outcalls.  I’m typically in sportswear or leather depending on the level of discretion needed, so this is the perfect intersection for me and I find it makes me look as tho I may simply be arriving back from the gym.  Mine is covered in FF logos which is maybe not so discreet, but I simply couldn’t resist! 🥰 I doubt the average vanilla will have any idea which “FF” the bag is alluding to tho.

My typical outcall kit:

polymer lube like j or k lube, pre-mixed in a sports bottle, sealed in a ziplock bag

creamy lube like elbow grease, often in 4-6oz containers for single use

small silicone lube for conditioning and slipping into latex gloves

2-3 lengths of latex gloves, usually wrist and elbow length, sometimes bicep length if extreme depth is specified in inquiry

(just added!) latex socks 😉

disposable black nitrile gloves - 5 per baggie

stainless steel prostate wand

at least one small dildo (smaller than the circumference of my hand)

silicone pig hole(s) in sizes ranging from smaller than my hand to larger than both my hands

electrical box, electrical pads, electric butt plug

poppers

vaporizers with a few different cartridge options

travel size mouthwash

emory board

bluetooth speaker

(just added!) phone chargers for both iPhone and common android phones

(if hotel) travel size blue dawn dish soap

(just added) puppy pads

(if hotel) Clorox wipes for easy cleanup and disinfection

(if hotel) Perrier or Pellegrino to offer client

(if multiple outcalls) rubbing alcohol spray to sanitize toys after washing, otherwise I do this step at home

(sometimes) leather gear to change into on arrival

(sometimes) wedge pillow to create lift under the hips when no sling is available

empty plastic shopping bags for neat re-storage of used toys that still need to be washed/sanitized at home

 

I’m always expanding my kit and looking for more things to add.  I’ve added a bunch of new things in the last few weeks so this was a fun thread for me to have an excuse to write out a whole list. 🥰

That's a heck of a lot to fit in one bag.  Sounds like my mom's purse, well, absent all the sex-related stuf.  It's great you're so well organized!

Edited June 28, 2021 by CuriousByNature

[HoleTrainer]

1 hour ago, CuriousByNature said:

That's a heck of a lot to fit in one bag.  Sounds like my mom's purse, well, absent all the sex-related stuf.  It's great you're so well organized!

Maybe your mom was secretly a professional fisting top as well? 😜

Edited June 28, 2021 by HoleTrainer

[CuriousByNature]

10 hours ago, HoleTrainer said:

Maybe your mom was secretly a professional fisting top as well? 😜

Sometimes my father walked a bit funny... I was always under the assumption it was arthritis in his hip, but maybe....?  LOL!

[WolfCompanion]

I always bring an extra pair of clothes ,extra underwear, a towel, toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, cologne, condoms, and lube. 

[Mrbeefymuscles]

My essentials include lube, condoms, and baby oil (for those muscle worship lovers. 😉). Keep it pretty simple here.