Straight gay scorts

[+ José Soplanucas]

On 5/30/2021 at 1:25 AM, Jeffster said:

The self-loathing is obvious when you have a poster saying things along the lines of “all gay men are less masculine than straight or bisexual men.”

 

1 hour ago, EZEtoGRU said:

I don't think anyone said what you quoted so the legitimacy of your whole thought process falls apart. 

 

On 5/11/2021 at 3:44 PM, studchaser said:

You and I may be exceptions but for me nothing will ever meet the bar of straight men. NOTHING!!!!!!!!

 

[guy7777]

I hired a very masculine 23 year old guy a few times. I figured out pretty quickly that was was most likely straight or at least lacked experience with m4m sex. For me personally, he really turned me on! At first I hired for my foot fetish. I found him so hot & he was open to receiving head, but he wouldn't kiss or give head. He also had the most beautiful butthole, but he wouldn't let me touch or lick it.😫

I did teach him how to give a foot job & he was surprisingly really good once he got the hang of it. 

Unfortunately, I lost his contact once I lost my phone without backup. I wish I could find him again. I remember it was on some site that no longer exists. He told me was escorting only temporarily due to financial issues

Life sometimes sucks...

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Comments on this very long thread

I am sure we have all heard the "if all gay men were purple " analogy. There are some obviously effeminate gay guys that were for years the stereotype for all gay men. These days not so much. There are also some very effeminate straight guys. In retrospect, the effeminate guys were pretty brave. Like the term pansy....anyone that knows plants know that pansies are tough little M%^&F*&^%s blooming all winter long in the coldest of weather. Those effeminate guys from yesteryear were loud and proud before it was cool. Now men who identify as gay come in all varieties. Watch ABC and tell me who is more masculine Geo Benitez or Whitt Johnson. Pretty much interchangable. Progress !

Our tastes evolve over the years? Not for me, I was a sucker for muscleboy tops 28-32,  30 years ago and I am today. And porn stars always turn my head. I once spent a great weekend with the infamous Joe Cade in 1989. It's just more expensive now, but you don't have to stay up as late until the bars get busy! Thank you for the internet! 

Not sure Gay4Pay really exists.... I think "not willing to admit so I say straight" is more like it. Bisexual is probably the truth. Or maybe just being so sexual that it doesn't matter who the partner might be. 

There are all sorts of issues that all of us face, gay or straight, tall or short, black or white. Who can tell what causes us to turn out the way we are. There are legions of shrinks trying to figure out the human brain, gay or straight. Not sure they will ever figure it out. There are self loathers everywhere.  Sorry for that. Never knock yourself someone will always do it for you. But it's not limited to the gay community.

Not sure where I got off on all of this so early on Sunday morning, but thanks if you plowed through it. Sometimes I wish I had been one of those brave pansies that gave gay men the stereotype instead of the semicloseted finance guy that I am. 

 

 

 

[BonVivant]

Hmmm. I was initially hesitant to say anything but some of the hottest and best experiences have been with straight/bi-scorts. One was a stripper that I hooked up with; I fondled his wedding ring as I topped him. Hot. Never will forget that moment. Another was married and had kids. Met multiple times. Smoking hot and among the best sex ever. 
 

“Life is like a box of chocolates; Ya never know what you’re gonna get.”  So bite and enjoy the flavors. 

[Kevin Slater]

25 minutes ago, BonVivant said:

One was a stripper that I hooked up with; I fondled his wedding ring as I topped him. Hot. Never will forget that moment.

Oh!  Is that the second ring they're always talking about?

Kevin Slater

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1 hour ago, BonVivant said:

Hmmm. I was initially hesitant to say anything but some of the hottest and best experiences have been with straight/bi-scorts. One was a stripper that I hooked up with; I fondled his wedding ring as I topped him. Hot. Never will forget that moment. Another was married and had kids. Met multiple times. Smoking hot and among the best sex ever. 
 

“Life is like a box of chocolates; Ya never know what you’re gonna get.”  So bite and enjoy the flavors. 

I have had experiences like that. Time passes and you winder what happened to those marriages....

[BtmBearDad]

In general, I take everything I read on a providers page with a grain of salt. I completely understand there is marketing going on so a “straight” provider may very well get more interest than a gay provider. Whether that’s because a hobbyist believes no gay man can be as masculine as a straight man, or maybe it’s the chance to live out the fantasy of being with the jock you lusted after in HS, college, the gym. Who knows? Different strokes for different folks and all that. 
 

For me, I usually stick with providers who list themselves as gay or when in private conversations with hobbyists here or IRL I find out a provider is in fact gay despite what they’ve written on their page. I look at it as a version of “shop local” - I go to the local mom and pop butcher vs the big stores to give my support; same thing going to the gay escorts. Having said that, I have been with some who do identify as bi, and even one or two straight ones back when I started this hobby. Some encounters have been great, some have been duds, just like with gay escorts. I think there’s so many factors in play that determine a successful encounter that being straight, bi, gay can’t guarantee success on their own. 
 

I will add that what irks me is the whole “ask me” answer. I know - “just ask, what’s the big deal?” I suppose I just get the feeling some providers use that answer not because they’re necessarily shy, but to figure out the answer the hobbyist wants to hear. Again, whatever works, works. I’d just prefer a straight answer, that the provider be themselves (or as much as they can be, are willing to be) in their answers, and we can just take it from there. 
 

BBD

[Gymowner]

 I can only reason it's one or two issues. One is the escort is trying to say in a round about way "it's none of your business" or two.... a way to try to get interest so a conversation can start with the escorts "persuasive" skills to seal the deal on an appointment.

[Westsideguy]

Still some of my favorites experiences have been with a married straight guy.  He has two kids.  Still married.  Haven’t seen him in probably ten years. Still email sporadically and follow his life on social media.  He shocked me when we first met by how passionate he was. He said the next time we met he would bottom.  And he did every time after that.   He was a chef and opening a restaurant, and always needed money for equipment.  But, he certainly seemed to enjoy it.  He never advertised.  He always initiated the meetings after the first one.  He did some nude solo videos, but never porn.  So glad I can still see him as I remember him.   

[TruHart1]

I personally know one escort who identifies as straight, though he changed his orientation in his ad to bi- after originally listing his orientation as straight on his RentMen ad, deciding to do so mainly because he wanted to appeal to a wider range of clientele! His gay-4-pay background includes a porn career as mainly a bottom, though his OnlyFans site has him both bottoming and topping guys.

He says he does not usually like to escort women because he only wants to have sex with females he’s personally attracted to IRL. He claims that since he’s not sexually/emotionally attracted to men, he can function with a very wide range of guys more easily.

Another escort I hire regularly seems to actually be a true bi-sexual, who admits that he’s always been attracted sexually to both men AND women, though he only felt free to date men after his high school years. He dated women exclusively in high school, though he tells me he’s always felt attracted by both sexes his entire adult life!

Yet another of my regular escorts advertises as bi-sexual but has told me in confidence that though he’s dated women in the past, he definitely feels more gay/attracted to men now than when he was younger. BTW, all three of these escorts have numerous  excellent reviews!

TruHart1 😎