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Not too long ago a "professional" guy reneged on an appointment without warning. He never gave me an exact address, and later claimed he was napping. (Phones have alarms!) Now I'm sitting in another park waiting for another "professional" (highly rated on RM I should add) to acknowledge my texts and give me an address. He can't use the napping excuse, because RM shows him actively online, "Available now", and receiving messages there, too, though he doesn't open them. (Single check mark.) If he wanted to cancel, why didn't he man up and do so? I travel in from the burbs on bus and train, and these games are monumental wastes of time for me.

 

I'm tempted to call him out by name here and on RM with a bad review, as I did the last ass to pull this stunt, but this one isn't local and will just drift back to NYC where bad behavior is apparently acceptable.

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Not too long ago a "professional" guy reneged on an appointment without warning. He never gave me an exact address, and later claimed he was napping. (Phones have alarms!) Now I'm sitting in another park waiting for another "professional" (highly rated on RM I should add) to acknowledge my texts and give me an address. He can't use the napping excuse, because RM shows him actively online, "Available now", and receiving messages there, too, though he doesn't open them. (Single check mark.) If he wanted to cancel, why didn't he man up and do so? I travel in from the burbs on bus and train, and these games are monumental wastes of time for me.

 

I'm tempted to call him out by name here and on RM with a bad review, as I did the last ass to pull this stunt, but this one isn't local and will just drift back to NYC where bad behavior is apparently acceptable.

 

A review would be helpful to avert others from this guy.

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A review would be helpful to avert others from this guy.

 

 

Rentmen generally will not accept a review unless an actual meeting took place between the provider and the client. There are exceptions to the general rule but they are exceptional.

 

Alternatively, the provider's username and rentmen link can be provided so that others will not make a similar fools errand.

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Not too long ago a "professional" guy reneged on an appointment without warning. He never gave me an exact address, and later claimed he was napping. (Phones have alarms!) Now I'm sitting in another park waiting for another "professional" (highly rated on RM I should add) to acknowledge my texts and give me an address. He can't use the napping excuse, because RM shows him actively online, "Available now", and receiving messages there, too, though he doesn't open them. (Single check mark.) If he wanted to cancel, why didn't he man up and do so? I travel in from the burbs on bus and train, and these games are monumental wastes of time for me.

 

I'm tempted to call him out by name here and on RM with a bad review, as I did the last ass to pull this stunt, but this one isn't local and will just drift back to NYC where bad behavior is apparently acceptable.

 

crazy that in such a competitive market some guys act like that.

Move on!

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I have a reliable blond boy coming to see me tomorrow... Different skill set, and actually I only agreed to a second session this week because he offered and I didn't want to disappoint him (the blond kid).

 

Who's the blond kid, sounds like my type lol

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Getting stood up is a common occurrence, as everyone on here knows. Last year I set up a threesome in Indy and one dude had already shown up. The other dude texted me, 15 minutes before our appointment that he was "one the way." Then 5 minutes before our meeting he texted "turning onto your street." That was the last we heard from him. He contacted me a couple of weeks later wanting another chance. When I asked him what happened last time he came up with some lame excuse or another. He was hot enough to tempt me into another appointment, but nope, it's the principle of the matter.

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I can easily see that the stood you up out of multiple propo$al$ coming his way, from 3 hr sessions to overnights but being in high demand is no excuse to disrespect the client's time. I don't think he'll change behaviour immediately since he should be doing well. Hopefully, this thread works as a warning for prospective clients to have a Plan B (another escort) as back up in case he flakes.

 

I believe you can actually submit a 1-star review telling your story of what happened. Even if RM removes it at his request (because you didn't actually meet), it will be visible for a couple of days, showing prospective clients what his behaviour is. It will also be a warning for him that he should abandon these practices and be more serious once he commits to meeting with a client.

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would normally respect the fact that this sometimes happens and take the posters word for it, and I am not a fan of getting into a back and forth over it. but tbh I don’t want xxx slandered on here, as I know from personal experience how great of a guy he is and this just straight up is not his character.

 

I asked him about this situation and he clearly stated that there was no meeting locked in, he said a general area of where he was (a circle) but no specific address. he was busy at the time of the next message so he didnt respond, and then since there was no locked in meeting ever organized he took on another client. since he is in another city visiting hes making the most of his time and cant be expected to just wait around on potential clients if they don’t confirm, honestly don’t blame him at all after hearing his side.

 

takeaway: i still 100% vouge for xxx hes great and don’t let this negative thread shy you away

 

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If this guy is legit 27, then I must be 23... SMH!

 

You saved yourself some grief I think. Those pics and profile have been around for some time.

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