Anal training

[queensboroboy]

I need some advice. I bought an an anal training kit bc I want to start bottoming. What are the do’s/donts in training. Thanks

[bendable2019]

Isn’t there a manual in that kit?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I'm just imagining Burgess Meredith doing the voice-over work for this kit

[jeezifonly]

Stick with the Barbara Woodhouse method.

“Cock-Eeeees!” ?

[+ FrankR]

I need some advice. I bought an an anal training kit bc I want to start bottoming. What are the do’s/donts in training. Thanks

I assume the “kit” is one of those popular dildo sets that starts with a small dildo and progress to bigger dildos?

 

I recommend silicone (softer and flexible) dildos for training - don’t use the harder plastic ones at first.

 

Always douce with luke warm water before inserting anything - dont use soap or any other chemical.

 

When you insert the dildo, use enough water based lube.

 

Lie down and get used to the sensation - use a towel you will likely make a mess at some point.

 

Dont try to progress too quickly - you need to get uses to it and learn to breath and relax.

 

Move your body into the various fucking positions to feel what is comfortable and what you need to work on. You may be very comfortable with a dildo in you while laying on your side, while on you back with your legs up maybe a little uncomfortable at first.

 

Good luck!

[+ Lucky]

I did anal training, but back then they just called it potty training!

[+ pepa_e_mango]

I did anal training, but back then they just called it potty training!

so true. I remember many years ago an older man I loved very much taught me that taking a dick is like taking a dump, only in reverse; best advice I ever got!

[marylander1940]

I'm just imagining Burgess Meredith doing the voice-over work for this kit

 

you might be too big for a starter like the OP @queensboroboy

[Armann]

I need some advice. I bought an an anal training kit bc I want to start bottoming. What are the do’s/donts in training. Thanks

Whatever you do, before you put a foreing object on your anus start first with your finger, put lots of lubricant or anal cream on your finger and gently start with one, then 2 and eventually 3 fingers, it is a process so take your time with each finger to massage and stretch slowly, once your muscle is relax and flexible then start using toys, small to large, its a process.

[queensboroboy]

Thanks

[orville]

I find this Anal Coaching video to be very educational. Now, just before you start being judgmental watch until the end because that's where the real advice is.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n_bOZXWDXUU:12

[Rudynate]

Oh - come on. It's one of those things you just do. If it hurts too much, you know you went too fast, and back off a little.

[orville]

Oh - come on. It's one of those things you just do. If it hurts too much, you know you went too fast, and back off a little.

True my dear @Rudynate but unless you were blessed with a loose sphincter you better start with 5-6" dildos before trying a 10" one.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

you might be too big for a starter like the OP @queensboroboy

 

Lube and leverage.

 

That's my motto.

[Rudynate]

True my dear @Rudynate but unless you were blessed with a loose sphincter you better start with 5-6" dildos before trying a 10" one.

But if you can't handle the ten incher - that's a very good indication you need a smaller one. It isn't rocket science.

[+ FrankR]

But if you can't handle the ten incher - that's a very good indication you need a smaller one. It isn't rocket science.

Not all of us are willing to jump into the deep end of the pool to figure out if we enjoy swimming! Some of us start in the shallow end wearing floaties!! ?

[Rudynate]

Not all of us are willing to jump into the deep end of the pool to figure out if we enjoy swimming! Some of us start in the shallow end wearing floaties!! ?

 

 

I am often the sort that leaps before he looks.

[Daverwr]

Whatever you do, before you put a foreing object on your anus start first with your finger, put lots of lubricant or anal cream on your finger and gently start with one, then 2 and eventually 3 fingers, it is a process so take your time with each finger to massage and stretch slowly, once your muscle is relax and flexible then start using toys, small to large, its a process.

@queensboroboy , the above is great initial advice. When you start playing with the kits, remember, you don’t/shouldn’t do everything in one night. It’s a process. You are learning to stretch muscles. A muscle builder can’t lift everything in one training session.

[orville]

You are learning to stretch muscles.

Sorry, I couldn't avoid thinking of Kermit

 

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[+ robear]

One thing I'd including in "training" is to engage the services of a carefully selected provider or 2 to help with your explorations. Be completely honest with your guy as to your goals for the session, and let him help you open up, relax and enjoy the sensation, with your toys or otherwise. A real pro, not a fly-by-night tryin' to make rent guy, is likely to have valuable expertise to share in this area.

[desertguy1954]

The best anal training is a patient top.

[rvwnsd]

[Trick]

I wanted to do anal training for DP so I put this in my Amazon cart. Let’s just say I eventually chickened out.

 

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0027CU1FS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_CgizFbFM845MX

[+ pepa_e_mango]

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[+ FrankR]

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And suddenly I feel like an under-achiever!! ??