Massages that unexpectedly turned into something more

[CatDaddy]

I've been getting massages at Caesars in Vegas for the last 25 years (both at the old spa and at Qua) and have never had any surprises... Damn it! However, about 10 years ago I had one masseur who "brushed over the goods" a few times. He was hot, too! I should have invited him to my room LOL!!!

[thedanNYC]

To those who receive massages at the high-end legit spas and without regard to any fun or extras that might occur, are the massages better than those provided by rent masseurs?

 

ive almost always found that the massages from rent masseurs are sort of just foreplay until you turn over and they manually release you, etc. out of the 50 plus Los Angeles rent masseurs, I’ve only found that two actually give really good massages

 

curious what others think

 

That really depends on the country you're in, the spa you go to, and the type of massage you book. Many spas in the US require therapists to drape you like a mummy and to avoid uncovering more than ~half way up your thighs. Some spas will allow the masseur to massage draped areas over the sheets (such as the butt), but others don't. So you might end up feeling stiffed because the masseur didn't treat a large part of your body at all (or as expected). I've been there.

 

Also, you have to pay close attention to the type of massage you're booking. If the spa offers both a "relaxing" massage and a more expensive "deep tissue" massage, you can bet that the relaxing massage will be nothing more than a gentle rub. That's going to be unsatisfying if you were expecting a lot of pressure.

 

Having said that, I don't look for a HE when I get a massage. So I prefer going to a spa if I'm feeling spendy because then I get a massage and access to R&R facilities (sauna, steam room, maybe a whirlpool) for the same or similar rate that RM guys charge.

 

P.S. - Whenever you want a great massage (and don't care about a HE), I'd suggest hiring a licensed therapist advertising on Yelp or working at a chiropractic practice. Their techniques and pricing is much better than what RM guys offer.

[bigjsd]

Waaaay long ago...first massage I ever got...pretty sure at the Stardust, in Vegas, although it could have been the Frontier.

 

I was super nervous, woman/masseuse was very nice. Found out that I had never had a massage, explained how everything worked...disrobe, put clothes here, lie face down, put sheet over myself. She'd come in and do a full cover etc...

 

Asked me about problem areas and I explained that I work on my feet 12-15 hours a day, 6 days a week (in restaurants at the time) and basically everything from my lower back down all hurt, especially calves and hamstrings. Does X hurt? yes. Does Y hurt? yes. Do your adductors hurt? My what? Explained to me that I just "need to relax" and let her do her job. If anything hurt or was uncomfortable, let her know and she'd modify it.

 

Couple times she'd press on something and I'd just and she'd apologize and adjust. Every once in a while as she was moving muscle groups she'd say "now if this hurts" or "if this is uncomfortable"

 

Gets time for a flip, I don't really want to (because then she's going to see my boner) and I flip and she says nothing about it. Tells me she is going to work on my adductors (my what?) and the boner isn't going anywhere at this point.

 

(sidebar, adductor massages can suck)

 

Tells me again, let me know if anything is uncomfortable and I can modify it and then it happens....she is massaging something we hadn't talked about and 3 to 4.5 seconds later, she is doing a quick cleanup while continuing the massage and letting me know to let her know if anything is uncomfortable.

 

To be honest, ruined the massage and my mood. I was 95% sure I was going to get in trouble with security or the cops or something (I was 22-23), and I was somewhere between embarrassed and confused.

 

Couple days later I had gotten over embarrassed and confused and couldn't wait for my next massage. Never had a legit massage like that again. Chasing the high

[kyleham]

I was on a business trip in Las Vegas many many years ago. I was staying in a very upscale hotel with spa and all. One day I got done really early and made a massage appointment. He was extremely handsome and an even better body. One of the best looking men I have seen in my entire life.

Also, one of the best massages I have received. When I flipped over he had me put a washcloth over my privates. Soon it fell off as I was rock hard. After taking care of me he suggested I shower and go to the jacuzzi, which is what I did. We were the only 2 in the spa as he said it was a slow day.

As I was in a trance in the jacuzzi and I looked up and there he was with a towel on, he pulled it off and joined me. Hotter than hell!

[Penn7]

To those who receive massages at the high-end legit spas and without regard to any fun or extras that might occur, are the massages better than those provided by rent masseurs?

 

ive almost always found that the massages from rent masseurs are sort of just foreplay until you turn over and they manually release you, etc. out of the 50 plus Los Angeles rent masseurs, I’ve only found that two actually give really good massages

 

curious what others think

I try to read the rentmasseur ads carefully and also the reviews. For example, the site lets them choose to say they offer therapeutic, sensual and/or erotic massage. Reviews will usually give some indication on whether it’ll be a real massage or just foreplay.

[LOLO]

There was a similar thread to this one before: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/mutual.148468/

 

My contribution to that thread was the following unexpected massage experience:

 

"This once happened to me too, and it was pretty surprising and serendipitous and hot.

 

A couple years ago, I was in Maui for work. I had an afternoon off one day, and thought I'd get a massage because I was super sore from work and travel and stress and all that. My hotel had a spa/massage service, so I booked a massage for my room, with the sole goal of relaxing. I didn't even specify if I wanted a male or female therapist -- just had them send over whoever was available on short notice.

 

I hear a knock, and open the door, and there's this attractive blond guy wearing a blue polo and white shorts -- probably 6'1, wiry like a bicyclist, mid to late 30s. I idly thought "he's kinda hot," but was distracted by how sore I was, so nothing more. He set up his table, I got undressed, lay down on my front, and he put a blanket over me and started massaging.

 

It's a really good and deep massage, especially on my neck and shoulders, and I start to relax. To stretch me out, he keeps having me rest my hands on his outer thigh while pushing on my shoulder, but this doesn't strike me as unusual, especially since I'm still covered in a blanket. And then, one time he switches my hand position from his outer thigh to his inner thigh, and I notice he actually has placed my hand on his bare skin, just underneath his shorts. I kinda start to wonder if there's something going on, but it's still tough to be sure. He then goes back to massaging my neck and shoulders, and then goes to my other side. This time, when he stretches out my arm, he places it pretty high in between his two (muscular) thighs, and squeezes them together, making sure my forearm rubs against his crotch. I involuntarily moan a little, and then he lets go, and this time, as he goes around the table near my legs, I hear the unmistakable noise of his clothes hitting the floor, and the rest is pretty much history.

 

The hottest part of it was how completely unexpected it was."

[orville]

On a cruise ship once I was getting a massage from a male in the spa. I really didn’t expect anything, but had my hands at the very edge of the massage table, palms up. As the massage progressed and his body was in the area of my hands, he leaned into my hand. I pushed back just a touch, suddenly he was hard. He continued the massage, neither of us said a word. Any mild pressure I made was returned with him leaning in with his erection. As he moved on down my body for the massage I figured was just a fluke and lucky moment. But, when he arrived on my other side his crotch and erection went immediately to my hand. I was pretty actively holding, playing with, stroking his cock through his pants. He was gently moaning, still massaging me. I think he ended up cumming based on his sighs and return to normal massage.

That was it...no HE or release for me but it was unexpected and fun.

You should think of writing for Penthouse.

[tallclaude]

The unexpectedness is the hottest part. I am sure that I have passed up opportunities to play because I need to have their intent telegraphed. Repeatedly... and generally with a cock flopped in my hand.

 

I had one masseur in London - 6'4", highly skilled and fit - who asked if he could add a body to body element to the massage. I think he was going through a dating dry patch and luckily I had contacted him on his rent.men number and not rentmasseur.com... Who was I to say no? Having 230 lbs of muscle and a gorgeous uncut cock pressed against me is still memorable and I came heavily.

[+ JEC]

Well, not a massage, but..............I spent several hours at the spa at Bellagio in Las Vegas. After having a massage, I went to the "wet" area of the spa. I noticed a hot younger (30ish) guy who was also going in & out of the steam room and whirlpools. We ended up in the steam room at the same time and while distanced - we were both rubbing our respective cocks. He left and went to the showers, and I followed him and went into the stall opposite his. He opened his shower curtain and motioned me to come into his shower stall with him, which I did - and fucked him in the shower. Soooooooo hot. ???

[thedanNYC]

Well, not a massage, but..............I spent several hours at the spa bathhouse at Bellagio any hotel in Las Vegas.

 

Fixed this for you.

[+ JEC]

Fixed this for you.

Effin' love this ????????

[n2guysnatl]

You betcha! This thread reminds me of a paint job that went off the rails pretty quickly.

 

Guy showed up to paint a few rooms. He noticed the massage table and asked in an adorably shy way if I am a therapist. No sir - but I have skills! ?

I agreed to give him a rub if he showered first - I know, i am a dirty old man! ?

 

Massage went as expected until he turned over onto his back. I was hard. He was harder! One thing led to another.

 

From what I recall he stopped by at least 3 times after that to “touch up” the paint job! ??

Did he paint your face?

[takkt1]

Fixed this for you.

Ha! Had no idea those places are so cruisey. Maybe they deserve a thread to themselves.

[NikoLeto]

To those who receive massages at the high-end legit spas and without regard to any fun or extras that might occur, are the massages better than those provided by rent masseurs?

 

ive almost always found that the massages from rent masseurs are sort of just foreplay until you turn over and they manually release you, etc. out of the 50 plus Los Angeles rent masseurs, I’ve only found that two actually give really good massages

 

curious what others think

 

As a provider, this is something that is soooo frustrating I wish I could get interested parties to explain in detail what they wanted from an erotic massage. Are they looking for a legit massage with a HE? Are they just looking to get off? Are the sensual elements and the 'tease'/build-up the most important parts? Do they have a legitimate physiological problem that they want me to try and work on? Clients are all over the map on this one. I have one regular that essentially wants a rub-down on his backside, flip and then be done with the experience. Just last night, I had a new client I was happy to oblige - the massage had run ~45 minutes and come to its natural conclusion, but I hadn't worked over his quads, so I get back to it.

 

I think it's a lot about communicating. "Massage" is a pretty nebulous term with a ton of different approaches. Even erotic massages where technique takes a back-seat, still, there's so many ways to navigate the experience. You just have to develop your own style, hope that it pleases the majority, and invite conversation on what the client wants from the experience.

 

Also, you have to pay close attention to the type of massage you're booking. If the spa offers both a "relaxing" massage and a more expensive "deep tissue" massage, you can bet that the relaxing massage will be nothing more than a gentle rub. That's going to be unsatisfying if you were expecting a lot of pressure.

 

As a guy who only gets vanilla massages from time to time, this advice is pure gold.

[Penn7]

As a provider, this is something that is soooo frustrating I wish I could get interested parties to explain in detail what they wanted from an erotic massage. Are they looking for a legit massage with a HE? Are they just looking to get off? Are the sensual elements and the 'tease'/build-up the most important parts? Do they have a legitimate physiological problem that they want me to try and work on? Clients are all over the map on this one. I have one regular that essentially wants a rub-down on his backside, flip and then be done with the experience. Just last night, I had a new client I was happy to oblige - the massage had run ~45 minutes and come to its natural conclusion, but I hadn't worked over his quads, so I get back to it.

 

I think it's a lot about communicating. "Massage" is a pretty nebulous term with a ton of different approaches. Even erotic massages where technique takes a back-seat, still, there's so many ways to navigate the experience. You just have to develop your own style, hope that it pleases the majority, and invite conversation on what the client wants from the experience.

 

 

 

As a guy who only gets vanilla massages from time to time, this advice is pure gold.

Communicating is important. Personally I like a bit of teasing touch mixed in with a legit massage and then a HE. But I usually have some sore muscles that need actual tending to. Finding someone who can & will do both is a joy.

[Terpmaniac]

"We both left happy, then he told me he'd never done this before in the 5 years working there."

 

You do know that that was a lie? My god how many times have heard that one over theyears! I never say anything. I'm like OK, if that makes you feel better. Terp

[wbtravis]

I had a massage in a spa at a “gay destination” spot. They had a sign on the front desk that said something along the lines of “this is legitimate establishment and we take the well-being of our staff very seriously. No lewd behavior will be tolerated”. Which I was totally fine with. I wasn’t looking for anything more than something therapeutic anyway.

 

I go into the room and it’s the usual spa set up. The masseur comes in - this cute ginger gay guy - asks me to undress, get under the sheet and he’ll be back.

 

Throughout the course of the massage I kept thinking I was getting signals - grazing my balls/taint with a finger, adjusting the sheet so my crack was exposed, placing the palm of my hand on his chest when massaging my arm, massaging down into my pubic area, his bulge on my shoulder etc.

 

But because of that sign I’m caught between thinking I’m misreading the signals and terrified to make a move and be embarrassed at best or at worst arrested. So I did nothing and he did nothing more.

 

I’m still not completely sure what happened. I do know I would have signalled back if it hadn’t been for the fucking sign.

 

That’s the closest I ever got to action at a legit spa.

Fuck. I am so jerking to this image.?

[Imathrill]

Why do most guys on here give little to no details on the “good parts” or cut the story off when it’s about to get good with some cheesy line. It’s infuriating! I just read through this long ass post just so that I can use my imagination?! Why even bother posting?!

[Redwine56]

Why do most guys on here give little to no details on the “good parts” or cut the story off when it’s about to get good with some cheesy line. It’s infuriating! I just read through this long ass post just so that I can use my imagination?! Why even bother posting?!

It's because we have to use discretion so we don't cross the line as to what can be comfortably posted here for all to see. If you are really interested in the detais, you can privately message ('pm') the poster for him to communicate with you privately. Some of us may be reluctant to share the intimate details with someone new to the Forum. We don't know if someone may be on this site trolling for information to use against us. There are the FOSTA laws and we have to consider the great guys who host this site for us by not getting them into trouble.

[Harryinny]

This happened to me twice with different masseurs. The first one, I call him Zan, I saw in the steam of a NY gym. My height, body of a gymnast, big arms, smooth skin and an impressive thick 8 incher and low hangers. He was being sucked by another guy, I stand by him and work on his nips and melon hard glutes. When one of my fingers approached his button hole he wriggled appreciatively. Soon thereafter there was an intense three way climax, with Zan depositing a big load on the other guy's mouth and I on Zan's glutes. I followed Zan when he left the gym, said hi and told him that I would like to see him again, he gave me his card and he turned out to be a masseur. I will call you I said.

The other advertised at the time as masseur. I'll call him Atlas. Impressive rock solid body, big muscles all over, amazing ass, good cock and big balls which I got to see when during the first massage he agreed to continue nude.

When I had my first massage with Zan and my second with Atlas, both new that I was hot for them. Yet, I had no expectations beyond a HE. Well, as the massages progressed, as my ass was rimmed when facing down, and my cock sucked when I turned around, I was babbling excitement. Both guys towards the end of the sessions kneeled between my legs to work on my chest, abs and below; expertly each one grabbed my then hard cock and sat on it letting a well pre lubricated hole take me in in one try. That was a first and totally unexpected. I felt like a horse being ridden and in both cases I exploded like a horse inside their fabulous asses. I gave very good tips of course and had several repeats thereafter. Zan does not publish and Atlas is no longer around.

Edited November 26, 2020 by Harryinny

[+ MysticMenace]

You betcha! This thread reminds me of a paint job that went off the rails pretty quickly.

 

Guy showed up to paint a few rooms. He noticed the massage table and asked in an adorably shy way if I am a therapist. No sir - but I have skills! ?

I agreed to give him a rub if he showered first - I know, i am a dirty old man! ?

 

Massage went as expected until he turned over onto his back. I was hard. He was harder! One thing led to another.

 

From what I recall he stopped by at least 3 times after that to “touch up” the paint job! ??

 

I bet he touched up more than just the paint job...or other "jobs."

[+ MysticMenace]

On a cruise ship once I was getting a massage from a male in the spa. I really didn’t expect anything, but had my hands at the very edge of the massage table, palms up. As the massage progressed and his body was in the area of my hands, he leaned into my hand. I pushed back just a touch, suddenly he was hard. He continued the massage, neither of us said a word. Any mild pressure I made was returned with him leaning in with his erection. As he moved on down my body for the massage I figured was just a fluke and lucky moment. But, when he arrived on my other side his crotch and erection went immediately to my hand. I was pretty actively holding, playing with, stroking his cock through his pants. He was gently moaning, still massaging me. I think he ended up cumming based on his sighs and return to normal massage.

That was it...no HE or release for me but it was unexpected and fun.

 

Well at least somebody got HE between the two of you. LOL.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On a cruise ship once I was getting a massage from a male in the spa. I really didn’t expect anything, but had my hands at the very edge of the massage table, palms up. As the massage progressed and his body was in the area of my hands, he leaned into my hand. I pushed back just a touch, suddenly he was hard. He continued the massage, neither of us said a word. Any mild pressure I made was returned with him leaning in with his erection. As he moved on down my body for the massage I figured was just a fluke and lucky moment. But, when he arrived on my other side his crotch and erection went immediately to my hand. I was pretty actively holding, playing with, stroking his cock through his pants. He was gently moaning, still massaging me. I think he ended up cumming based on his sighs and return to normal massage.

That was it...no HE or release for me but it was unexpected and fun.

I had almost the same experience on a cruise ship. Only the massuer eventually took his dick out of his pants and let me rub it briefly before he came in my hand. I booked an appointment for the next day, but made sure he came in my mouth that time

[justanotherguy]

I had something like this happen at a legit spa. The masseur was a pretty good looking guy probably in his 50s, muscular in a lean/toned kind of way. The massage was technically very good, so it didn't even occur to me that he would have anything else in mind. As he's massaging my forearms, I noticed that he brushed my hand against his semi-hard cock. Again, I was in a legit spa, so I just thought it was an accident, but then it happened again when he massaged my other side. I start wondering if he'd done it on purpose, and I start to get hard. I turn over, and I'm still draped, but I notice that the draping is getting more and more haphazard. He starts working on my quads and groin, and my boner pops out completely. He starts rubbing my cock, and I start feeling him up. Immediately he locks the door and tells me not to moan too loudly because the spa's walls are kind of thin. He begs to fuck my ass, but I didn't want to take it raw, so instead he blows me to within an inch of my life. It was so hard to keep quiet! And it was such a good blow job too! He swallows every drop, and that's that. And yes, he said that he normally doesn't do this.

[imma]

He begs to fuck my ass, but I didn't want to take it raw

 

Why didn't you do it with rubber?