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Its been eight months since I’ve had some companionship here in the PNW. Its not just the virus that has triggered this absence of acquired love, but major personal life changes too, like losing a job; starting a new one and making it my priority; fall out with previous room mate; moving into a shared house with little to no privacy and then there is the pandemic. I tried going back on the apps especially the web based one called Sniffies, it has the prickle nature of hookups, everyone is just beating around the bush and flashing their pricks and holes. Even before the virus struck, hookup apps kind of became a dead end for me in finding easy partners. In some ways, I committed to myself to every now and then, find a partner on RM to scratch that itch. I wasn’t expecting to do this as a regular thing like I did in the past; and porn would make up for some of it.

 

But I have to say, after 8 months, even RM has not really lived up to expectation. Yes, there are guys on RM in Seattle; some of them suspect, since their profiles appear to be in multiple locatiions at the same time. Its that I can’t make desireable connection with the guys I’m seeing. At the end of the day, this boils down to lust. In truth, there is no lust for any of the guys advertising here in Seattle.

 

When I take a look at other areas such as NY, SF, LA, FL, Chicago, or outside the US, (really some great ones in Toronto and Montreal) there is such an abundance of the guys I lust for. Which makes me wonder, some of these states and cities have a high infection rate, yet the guys seem to stay put and keep advertising. So, the question I have to ask is, what has happened to Seattle, why aren’t quality guys visiting? And I have noticed for quite some time even before the pandemic, the most desireable guys never made much effort to visit either. When I moved here in 2018, there certainly was an abundance, but I didn’t have a clue how to initiate this, the fear of it and some shame too. So, I did miss out on a golden era it seems.

 

My long term plan is to do a two week vacation in NY hopefully summer 2021. Hopefully by then we will have a vaccine. Its gonna be expensive, but its not like I’m planning to make this a regular thing anyway. Of course, I might be too picky, but when you are parting with funds, I think you have all right to be.

 

Thoughts?

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My guess would be that when the pandemic struck, Seattle was one of the first to be hit in the US. Since then of course, the virus has moved on but initial impressions may have made escorts leary of visiting your city. I don’t know how the pandemic has affected business in other major cities you cite and the same goes for here in Canada. I have resumed hiring the last three months but the pandemic is quieting down in Canada unlike in the US.

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Miami does have some nice ones and Canada is always cheaper compared to the US. Maybe I should make Canada be my first choice. I have given up on Seattle, but I am trying to lure this guy here. He visited before and I remember trying to setup a meeting over email, but I didn’t have a clue what I was doing.

 

https://rent.men/Camwright

Oh, he’s lovely. After seeing that gentleman, I understand your disappointment with Seattle offerings. I’m in San Diego, and it’s normally slim pickings here as well. Good luck with your travel plans and maybe finding someone local in time.

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I sympathize @Enronnja and you have good advice in the above posts.

 

I’m an old man now and hiring was long ago, but something you wrote resonated with me.

I might be too picky, but when you are parting with funds, I think you have all right to be.

I was always very particular. I wanted men who were especially desirable. I see nothing wrong with being picky and having standards. It seems to me that if you were to lower your standards, the date would not be as satisfying and you would not feel fulfilled. Good luck with your quest.

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Oh, he’s lovely. After seeing that gentleman, I understand your disappointment with Seattle offerings. I’m in San Diego, and it’s normally slim pickings here as well. Good luck with your travel plans and maybe finding someone local in time.

I don't find him attractive at all. Too short and dull face. If you think he is good, Seattle must be really bad. My sympathies and good luck.

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I sympathize @Enronnja and you have good advice in the above posts.

 

I’m an old man now and hiring was long ago, but something you wrote resonated with me.

 

I was always very particular. I wanted men who were especially desirable. I see nothing wrong with being picky and having standards. It seems to me that if you were to lower your standards, the date would not be as satisfying and you would not feel fulfilled. Good luck with your quest.

I am easily satisfied with the very best. :D

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One of the things that baffles me about Seattle during work visits. For a city with so much tech money and a lower COL compared to other cities (SF, DC, LA, NYC), I don't get why the quality of attractive people is lower than those cities.

 

Vancouver has more attractive men in general vs Seattle, and more options for escorts, but it's still much less than what you'll find in Toronto or Montreal.

 

Perhaps this is something to do with the culture in the PNW?

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I was always very particular. I wanted men who were especially desirable. I see nothing wrong with being picky and having standards. It seems to me that if you were to lower your standards, the date would not be as satisfying and you would not feel fulfilled. Good luck with your quest.

 

 

One just needs to be sure that their budget and their standards are compatible.

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One of the things that baffles me about Seattle during work visits. For a city with so much tech money and a lower COL compared to other cities (SF, DC, LA, NYC), I don't get why the quality of attractive people is lower than those cities.

 

Vancouver has more attractive men in general vs Seattle, and more options for escorts, but it's still much less than what you'll find in Toronto or Montreal.

 

Perhaps this is something to do with the culture in the PNW?

I agree, out of state seems to be the only options for getting a good experience. For instance, this guy from Vancouver was a great experience. Absolutely handsome and just so much fun to be with it. The reason why I was able to get him, he was on his way to Portland. It was serendipitous because I saw him a Treasure Island just a couple of days before.

 

https://rent.men/HamedRaidd

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I sympathize @Enronnja and you have good advice in the above posts.

 

I’m an old man now and hiring was long ago, but something you wrote resonated with me.

 

I was always very particular. I wanted men who were especially desirable. I see nothing wrong with being picky and having standards. It seems to me that if you were to lower your standards, the date would not be as satisfying and you would not feel fulfilled. Good luck with your quest.

 

Desirable as in looks, what they're willing to do or both?

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Desirable as in looks, what they're willing to do or both?

 

Obviously I can only answer for myself @marylander1940 and I may be very superficial, but desirable looks (face and physique) got my attention first. As a prospective first date or an initial hiring, looks decided whether I asked them out.

 

Further dates always depended on how much fun and enjoyment I had. I like men who are adventurous in bed and equally I’m attracted to men who want to please me. Their responsiveness, affectionate nature and good character were what made me interested in longer-term relations.

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I miss AF_muscles whose RM ad is down. I know he was only doing escort on side - but anyone know if has quit for good?

 

Isn’t this him?https://rent.men/Seattlemuscle

 

The pics I think are some of the same unless I’m confusing the 2. If so he just changed his name. I would love to meet him some day. He was in one of my favorite Sean Cody scenes with one of my favorite actors/escorts, Ashton.

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Isn’t this him?https://rent.men/Seattlemuscle

 

The pics I think are some of the same unless I’m confusing the 2. If so he just changed his name. I would love to meet him some day. He was in one of my favorite Sean Cody scenes with one of my favorite actors/escorts, Ashton.

Thanks - I thought it might be him too but remain doubtful. Very hot and fun for sure.

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