How often is a compliment you give genuine ?

[Chuckball]

My favorite escort told me after our first meet that he felt we had chemistry. I took that as a compliment and we have many encounters over the past 3 years. The length of the Association and never being turned down has caused me to believe he was being genuine.

[TT3690]

I take them at face value since I usually have received a similar compliment for free.

 

I think this actually does cut both ways- I've had guys ask if it was good and I didn't really have the heart to tell him no or that I probably won't be seeing him again.

[orville]

A straight guy once told me that I should charge for blowjobs. Told him to leave $100 in the basket by the front door.

Not sure if I'm as good as you, but I have a few coming back for more ?

[orville]

My favorite escort told me after our first meet that he felt we had chemistry. I took that as a compliment and we have many encounters over the past 3 years. The length of the Association and never being turned down has caused me to believe he was being genuine.

OMG! I thought I was the only one. I have a couple guys like that. Great tops, always fluid, passionate, sometimes the session extends over the hour at no additional charge, regular client rate, etc. What they do to me speaks louder than any compliments. I haven't counted how many times we meet in a year but for sure I've invested 4 digits. It's a win-win.

[PetetKsfo]

I think most guys can tell a sincere compliment from an empty one. A compliment is like a seasoning. Too much of it ruins things. But just enough at the right time and the right place is nice. I don't make a compliment unless I sincerely mean it.

 

For example, I had a client the other night for a massage who is a bicyclist. He had great legs. While working his legs I mentioned how great they look. He was shy to accept the compliment, and so I followed up by saying, "well, whatever you're doing is definitely working for you, so keep doing it.'

 

I understand the reply by someone here who mentioned that he said to an escort something to the effect of "well you're getting paid to give me a compliment.." and the provider felt hurt by the comment. I often like to compare our work to a waiter-customer relationship. When you go to have dinner at a nice restaurant, of course you are paying ofr the dinner and the service, and the waiter hopes to get a nice tip. He knows that he will get that from doing a good job and giving you a great service. But at the same time he knows that simply building a good relationship with a sincere conversation will get to that end result by making it a nice experience for all involved. If a waiter gave you a nice compliment about something during the course of your dinner and you replied by saying - well you're only giving me a compliment to try to get a bigger tip at the end - I can see how the waiter would find that offensive. In the same way an escort/masseur will find that offensive.

 

So in summary, I am suggesting that escorts should offer compliments with sincerity and I hope that clients will accept them with grace.

 

Thanks

Peter

 

(eeks - I was typing late. Edited to fix some errors!)

Edited July 25, 2020 by PeterMxM

[PetetKsfo]

I think most guys can tell a sincere compliment from an empty one. A compliment is like a seasoning. Too much of it ruins things. But just enough at the right time and the right place is nice. I don't make a compliment unless I sincerely mean it.

 

For example, I had a client the other night for a massage who is a bicyclist. He had great legs. While working his legs I mentioned how great they look. He was shy to accept the compliment, and so I followed up by saying, "well, whatever you're doing is definitely working for you, so keep doing it.'

 

I understand the reply by someone here who mentioned that he said to an escort something to the effect of "well you're getting paid to give me a compliment.." and the provider felt hurt by the comment. I often like to compare our work to a waiter-customer relationship. When you go to have dinner at a nice restaurant, of course you are paying ofr the dinner and the service, and the waiter hopes to get a nice tip. He knows that he will get that from doing a good job and giving you a great service. But at the same time he knows that simply building a good relationship with a sincere conversation will get to that end result by making it a nice experience for all involved. If a waiter gave you a nice compliment about something during the course of your dinner and you replied by saying - well you're only giving me a compliment to try to get a bigger tip at the end - I can see how the waiter would find that offensive. In the same way an escort/masseur will find that offensive.

 

So in summary, I am suggesting that escorts should offer compliments with sincerity and I hope that clients will accept them with grace.

 

Thanks

Peter

 

(eeks - I was typing late. Edited to fix some errors!)

Edited July 25, 2020 by PeterMxM

[Lazarus]

I’m always told that I have a nice cook. So I guess it must be true!

[MscleLovr]

I’m always told that I have a nice cook. So I guess it must be true!

 

Definitely! A good cook is very desirable. I’ve had people compliment me on mine, and many friends tell me how much they look forward to tasting his output.

 

On a side note, my cock is a very pretty shape and I’ve received compliments about it.

[myophile]

Full disclosure out the outset: although I am a dedicated gym-rat, I DON’T look like my avatar. That said, my regular guy does, and he often compliments me on my small gym-victories, and my modest improvements. I put a certain percentage of this down to ”customer relations.“ But he’s a trainer by profession, and his comments generally reflect what I see in the mirror, and what my own personal trainer tells me, so I just enjoy it (and reciprocate). At the other end of the bullshit spectrum, if I’m seeing a new guy, and all he can think to say to me as we make out is that I have “nice eyes,” I’d rather he just shut up and fuck ...

[+ Lucky]

I was told that I had a pretty asshole. I tried so hard to check that out that I ended up with my head up my ass. Doctors were called...

The part about pretty asshole is true. Two different people told me that. I wonder why more people didn't...

[+ Lucky]

Someone sent me a link to an anus contest! At my age they'd have to make allowances.

[rvwnsd]

I was told that I had a pretty asshole. I tried so hard to check that out that I ended up with my head up my ass. Doctors were called...

The part about pretty asshole is true. Two different people told me that. I wonder why more people didn't...

Someone sent me a link to an anus contest! At my age they'd have to make allowances.

You could always go to Folsom next year, wear a jockstrap, get into a yoga position and gauge the reaction of passers-by. If you are feeling like you want to be fancy, you can first get a couple of friends and avail yourself of this deal:

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-B-dg6hEEmA:52