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[former lurker]

Who’s the actor in the clip above?

 

Greg Sulkin (sp?).

[littlenut]

Sticking to your policy in this regard is probably the right thing to do - even if the reasoning seems kosher...

 

Oh, definitely. I never questioned my unwillingness to pay a deposit, but what it made me question was him.

 

I’m not suggesting he’s a scam artist. But his “confirmation policy” is... trying to find the right word... long-winded? And there’s a section that suggests by paying the deposit, he’ll like you “more”, which rubbed me entirely the wrong way.

 

Ultimately, when asking for a deposit, you can’t effectively position it with a “What? Don’t you trust me?” sentiment. By scheduling time with you, I trust that you look like your pictures, I trust that you are the person in the description, I trust that you’re disease-free (unless otherwise stated), I trust that you’re not undercover. So, yes, to a degree I trust you. Do you trust me?

 

I understand his policy, and I respect it enough to discontinue the conversation and not waste either of our time.

 

I have more thoughts based on his responses to me, but probably enough to leave it at that.

[Doe Be Doe]

Thanks

[former lurker]

Oh, definitely. I never questioned my unwillingness to pay a deposit, but what it made me question was him.

 

I’m not suggesting he’s a scam artist. But his “confirmation policy” is... trying to find the right word... long-winded? And there’s a section that suggests by paying the deposit, he’ll like you “more”, which rubbed me entirely the wrong way.

 

Ultimately, when asking for a deposit, you can’t effectively position it with a “What? Don’t you trust me?” sentiment. By scheduling time with you, I trust that you look like your pictures, I trust that you are the person in the description, I trust that you’re disease-free (unless otherwise stated), I trust that you’re not undercover. So, yes, to a degree I trust you. Do you trust me?

 

I understand his policy, and I respect it enough to discontinue the conversation and not waste either of our time.

 

I have more thoughts based on his responses to me, but probably enough to leave it at that.

 

I've read the same Tumblr posts from him. I don't see him as saying he'll like you "more" if you pay the deposit. Instead, he's saying that settling the payment removes tension. I try to approach escorts with an open mind and to understand that they have, on occasion, been burned. I also find it distasteful when clients suggest that holding payment over the escorts head is the way to ensure a good session. Same for clients who, in the past according to older posts, used to hold the potential for a positive or negative review over the escorts head. My approach is to work out the terms if they are acceptable to me and the escort and go from there.

[littlenut]

I've read the same Tumblr posts from him. I don't see him as saying he'll like you "more" if you pay the deposit. Instead, he's saying that settling the payment removes tension.

 

Fair enough. I came away with a very different feeling from his “confirmation policies”. Since it’s on a public tumblr page, it should be okay to share the part in question, and people can make up their own mind.

“In order for us to have a high quality time from the start, including starting from this text exchange, I strongly prefer you give me a vouch of trust (it’ll make me like you more. When you insinuate I’m a scammer, that doesn’t make me like you very much: not great for someone you’re going to have sex with, so things already don’t start off great).”

 

I try to approach escorts with an open mind and to understand that they have, on occasion, been burned.

That’s fine. Clients, too, have been burned, so hopefully we’re all approaching each other with open minds.

 

I also find it distasteful when clients suggest that holding payment over the escorts head is the way to ensure a good session. Same for clients who, in the past according to older posts, used to hold the potential for a positive or negative review over the escorts head. My approach is to work out the terms if they are acceptable to me and the escort and go from there.

Okay. Not sure exactly who or what this is in reference to, but perhaps I missed some conversations up thread, which I only skimmed through.

[bostonman]

“In order for us to have a high quality time from the start, including starting from this text exchange, I strongly prefer you give me a vouch of trust (it’ll make me like you more. When you insinuate I’m a scammer, that doesn’t make me like you very much: not great for someone you’re going to have sex with, so things already don’t start off great).”

 

Count me out of that one.

[former lurker]

Fair enough. I came away with a very different feeling from his “confirmation policies”. Since it’s on a public tumblr page, it should be okay to share the part in question, and people can make up their own mind.

“In order for us to have a high quality time from the start, including starting from this text exchange, I strongly prefer you give me a vouch of trust (it’ll make me like you more. When you insinuate I’m a scammer, that doesn’t make me like you very much: not great for someone you’re going to have sex with, so things already don’t start off great).”

 

 

That’s fine. Clients, too, have been burned, so hopefully we’re all approaching each other with open minds.

 

 

Okay. Not sure exactly who or what this is in reference to, but perhaps I missed some conversations up thread, which I only skimmed through.

 

WRT the last point I made, it was not in reference to comments in the present thread but to comments I've seen on the boards in the past. Not recent.

[gersonides]

Profile is down. Anybody know what’s up?

[+ azdr0710]

Profile is down. Anybody know what’s up?

 

He finally got sick of us talking about him??!!

[littlenut]

Still there, modified name:

 

https://rent.men/HungIvyLeagueVrs

[+ MysticMenace]

met and submitted a review for him on RM. although I gave him a good review, I now hesitate whether I should hire him again. for a PT the massage was not memorable, though the bumping, kissing, and cuddling were great. the game changer for me was when he created a new profile and asked me to submit a new review for him - said I was happy to give him the same review for when we met but he insisted to create a new one for an overnight (which was not what I paid for then). felt very manipulative so left a bitter taste in my mouth

[GTMike]

met and submitted a review for him on RM. although I gave him a good review, I now hesitate whether I should hire him again. for a PT the massage was not memorable, though the bumping, kissing, and cuddling were great. the game changer for me was when he created a new profile and asked me to submit a new review for him - said I was happy to give him the same review for when we met but he insisted to create a new one for an overnight (which was not what I paid for then). felt very manipulative so left a bitter taste in my mouth

So it's no question it is the same gentlemen in photo's with his face at least?

[+ MysticMenace]

So it's no question it is the same gentlemen in photo's with his face at least?

 

he definitely looked like photos #4 and #18 on RM. he was wearing glasses before the lights were dimmed but he looked like the aforementioned photos when we met

[GTMike]

Thanks man. Appreciate the input. Sorry ultimately for the bitter after taste experience.

[xyz48B]

This man has created a lot of conversation and a good deal of it’s riddled with suspicion. Caveat emptor. Even some of those with experience have misgivings.

 

Is he hot? Yes. Would I like to have someone who looks like him fuck me? Yes. Am I going to go through all this possible headache and angst with him? No.

[jeezifonly]

Wouldn’t he still be as hot if he just had a 2 year degree from a community college? Seems like he got over educated for the work... throughout my professional life working alongside beautiful intelligent interesting people I find more than enough social intercourse. For almost $400/hr, if he doesn’t have an MD or PhD after his name, there is only one topic of conversation I’m paying for... and even then, not until after I’ve had my ...say.

[StefonNYC]

I've been trying to set up a call with him before eventually hiring and for the last 3 days it's been nearly impossible to do so. He'd message me saying he's good to do the video call, and I'd message back immediately and say I'm also ready, then he doesn't respond for hours.

[Johnny_85]

Ad is goneb?

[+ MysticMenace]

Ad is goneb?

 

I think his old one was deleted (saying he "accidentally deleted the other one while trying to temporarily deactivate the profile") and he created another one, see earlier post here:

Still there, modified name:

 

https://rent.men/HungIvyLeagueVrs

[xyz48B]

saying he "accidentally deleted the other one while trying to temporarily deactivate the profile"

Sounds like his Ivy League education is doing him a lot of good. ? If he wants premium rates for Ivy League education I’d expect him to be able to keep from “accidentally” deleting his account. That’s a state school mistake there!

[+ MysticMenace]

Sounds like his Ivy League education is doing him a lot of good. ? If he wants premium rates for Ivy League education I’d expect him to be able to keep from “accidentally” deleting his account. That’s a state school mistake there!

 

if that really was the true reason why the profile was deleted. he texted me before to ask if I could send him a review on RM for an overnight and he was saying how I could pretend to ask for one in messenger (when he was not even in my area). I told him I was more than happy to re-submit the review for the date and duration we actually met (which was not an overnight), but he said I should not do it. so idk. I do not think RM is that complex that one would not know whether they are deactivating a profile temporarily or deleting it permanently. I must also say his original venmo account looks like is being disabled as well. so definitely some red flags there.

[xyz48B]

so definitely some red flags there

There’ve been red flags since the very beginning. If you ask me, willingness to deal with this guy is evidence that a lot of guys are thinking with the wrong head.

[bostonman]

It's funny how much we've talked and talked about this guy who seems to be bad news by most accounts so far. But then again,. that's one reason this forum exists.

[+ MysticMenace]

There’ve been red flags since the very beginning. If you ask me, willingness to deal with this guy is evidence that a lot of guys are thinking with the wrong head.

 

Guilty as charged. I am trying to get better at it. Lol.

[former lurker]

It's funny how much we've talked and talked about this guy who seems to be bad news by most accounts so far. But then again,. that's one reason this forum exists.

 

Not all readers are swayed by the opinions of posters who haven't met the escort. The ones who have met him have good things to say, although Joe M has a mixed response based on post meeting requests for a review that suggested an overnight when he didn't do an overnight with him.

 

Let's face it, much of the shade thrown at the guy is based on his rates. For that reason, most of the negative comments are from people who didn't see him because they consider him overpriced. None of the people who have seen him say he's misrepresented himself or failed to deliver what he agreed to do.