When are you willing to hire again?

[+ Pensant]

One local regular who I first saw over 5 years ago is hot as hell and a great role player, but not that much into kissing, even in his personal life, so that’s not an issue. Another, younger, provider, is a voracious kisser. Neither is into the party scene and are both pretty responsible, so I’m feeling that meets will occur soon. We are all looking forward to it. I’m not as risk averse as some. The other day, I hit 40 mph on a steep grade on my road bike. I doubt anyone my age would do such a crazy thing, but I like to experience life to the fullest. That said, I always wear an N95 while at the grocery or other store.

[myophile]

One local regular who I first saw over 5 years ago is hot as hell and a great role player, but not that much into kissing, even in his personal life, so that’s not an issue. Another, younger, provider, is a voracious kisser. Neither is into the party scene and are both pretty responsible, so I’m feeling that meets will occur soon. We are all looking forward to it. I’m not as risk averse as some. The other day, I hit 40 mph on a steep grade on my road bike. I doubt anyone my age would do such a crazy thing, but I like to experience life to the fullest. That said, I always wear an N95 while at the grocery or other store.

 

This.

 

For better or worse, the element of risk is a big part of the appeal for me.

[Daverwr]

This.

 

For better or worse, the element of risk is a big part of the appeal for me.

I was waiting for that kind of response. Good for you!

[marylander1940]

It's getting closer. I smell blood and sex in the water...

 

Freedom, Oh Freedom...

 

Kipp

 

Do you wear a mask when you are in public spaces?

[RomanticRick]

Yes.

This is absolutely 100% a personal decision everyone has to make. For me, kissing is such an important part of the experience that when I do hire again I’ll make sure we can kiss. I’ll continue solo until then.

Hear! Hear! If your avatar is anything like you, must be quite a treat to make out with you ?

[liubit]

Yes.

This is absolutely 100% a personal decision everyone has to make. For me, kissing is such an important part of the experience that when I do hire again I’ll make sure we can kiss. I’ll continue solo until then.

Exactly: to me, no kissing makes any meeting totally worthless.

[former lurker]

A question about kissing....

In short, does it matter?

 

If I’m in bed with someone doing the things that people do then we are well within the minimum distance such that simply talking (much less screaming someones name) would almost certainly spread the virus. What difference does kissing make ?

 

The closer the contact, the more probable the spread. Direct contact via kissing is more likely to spread the virus than being within 6 feet. But it doesn't make any sense to me to be within kissing distance and refrain from kissing because the risk of spreading the virus is great enough even without kissing.

[+ Bryan Dube]

I really really want to meet up with https://rentmen.eu/JakeKlerin right now, but am currently sheltering in place at my parents in SF. am really scared to bring it home to them, so that has kept me from pulling the trigger at this point. i guess i'll have to wait til i get back to nyc.

[down_to_business]

I am leaning towards August. It helps me to be strong (in the present) when I actually have a future date planned.

 

When I do, it will be with someone I have already met and trust.

I will ask about where he has travelled prior to meeting and will not meet up if recent travel through a hotspot.

I will not wear a mask for the meeting and kissing will definitely be a part of it.

I will self isolate after.

Edited May 28, 2020 by down_to_business

[Trick]

The closer the contact, the more probable the spread. Direct contact via kissing is more likely to spread the virus than being within 6 feet. But it doesn't make any sense to me to be within kissing distance and refrain from kissing because the risk of spreading the virus is great enough even without kissing.

 

I heard something about the viral load. My simple understanding of this is that there are varying concentrations of the virus that one can get. Droplets compared to a motherload from kissing comes to mind.

 

Now I wonder if the other kind of “load” which I love getting from escorts can give me covid as well.

[bostonman]

I heard something about the viral load. My simple understanding of this is that there are varying concentrations of the virus that one can get. Droplets compared to a motherload from kissing comes to mind.

 

Now I wonder if the other kind of “load” which I love getting from escorts can give me covid as well.

 

There have been reports that the virus has been found in semen (as well as feces) but I don't know if they've discovered if (or how much) the virus is transmissible that way yet or not.

 

As long as we're on droplets/kissing/etc, I'm not all that kinky, but let's just say that I've had great times being with guys that like to spit, lol. But I guess that's not something I'm going to be able to get into for a while now...so be it...

[+ DERRIK]

There have been reports that the virus has been found ..... (as well as feces)

 

 

I've read that a city could test waste flow - come up with estimates for number with virus in community

 

seems pretty reasonable and could show trend in a city going up or down

[Trick]

 

let's just say that I've had great times being with guys that like to spit, lol.

 

 

Just before the lockdowns, I hired a guy who liked to spit. He spit on my face a lot. Ewww

[bostonman]

Just before the lockdowns, I hired a guy who liked to spit. He spit on my face a lot. Ewww

 

You shouldn't have let him do it if you didn't like it.

 

Me, on the other hand...I would have loved that.

[Trick]

You shouldn't have let him do it if you didn't like it.

 

Me, on the other hand...I would have loved that.

 

It was gross, but I loved it!

[bostonman]

It was gross, but I loved it!

 

Got it, lol. I would agree - I think the "gross factor" and the taboo nature of it is actually part of the turn on.

[+ DrownedBoy]

Just before the lockdowns, I hired a guy who liked to spit. He spit on my face a lot. Ewww

 

The term "spit in my mouth" is a standard euphemism for a bj swallow. I only hope this is a metaphor too.

[bostonman]

The term "spit in my mouth" is a standard euphemism for a bj swallow. I only hope this is a metaphor too.

 

Nope - no metaphor here.

[Trick]

Nope - no metaphor here.

 

Likewise, no metaphor in my case. He really spit in my face!

[Strafe13]

One thing I think that our community, in particular, must deal with in our new reality (or at least just me), is reassessing safety as regards to both casual and intimate methods of contact. For the past quarter century, we've known that certain intimate behavior like kissing and even oral sex is very low risk for HIV transmission, so we're accustomed to viewing those acts as "safe" or "safer" as compared to anal sex. COVID-19 turns all of that on its head because exposure to droplets of saliva and/or nasal mucus appears to be its chief mode of transmission.

 

Kissing can now be a higher-risk behavior for a potentially lethal disease than anal or vaginal intercourse. That's hard to wrap my head around. Plus, it's unlikely that we'll have an effective and widely available vaccine before early to mid 2021, at the earliest, and the U.S.'s mass-testing infrastructure has been woefully inadequate. Given this current status, how many of us can really stay 100% celibate as to all sexual and/or intimate acts for a year or longer?

[JulianLondon]

One thing I think that our community, in particular, must deal with in our new reality (or at least just me), is reassessing safety as regards to both casual and intimate methods of contact. For the past quarter century, we've known that certain intimate behavior like kissing and even oral sex is very low risk for HIV transmission, so we're accustomed to viewing those acts as "safe" or "safer" as compared to anal sex. COVID-19 turns all of that on its head because exposure to droplets of saliva and/or nasal mucus appears to be its chief mode of transmission.

 

Kissing can now be a higher-risk behavior for a potentially lethal disease than anal or vaginal intercourse. That's hard to wrap my head around. Plus, it's unlikely that we'll have an effective and widely available vaccine before early to mid 2021, at the earliest, and the U.S.'s mass-testing infrastructure has been woefully inadequate. Given this current status, how many of us can really stay 100% celibate as to all sexual and/or intimate acts for a year or longer?

 

Possibly one of the more important statements I've read on here.

 

This is the new normal.

 

Will be hard to get used and adjust to it.

 

Immunity passports will become a big thing for all of us. If they can prove immunity lasts longer than 6 months which the jury is still out on.

[+ Pensant]

I really really want to meet up with https://rentmen.eu/JakeKlerin right now, but am currently sheltering in place at my parents in SF. am really scared to bring it home to them, so that has kept me from pulling the trigger at this point. i guess i'll have to wait til i get back to nyc.

In your situation, I heartily agree!

[+ Italiano]

One thing I think that our community, in particular, must deal with in our new reality (or at least just me), is reassessing safety as regards to both casual and intimate methods of contact. For the past quarter century, we've known that certain intimate behavior like kissing and even oral sex is very low risk for HIV transmission, so we're accustomed to viewing those acts as "safe" or "safer" as compared to anal sex. COVID-19 turns all of that on its head because exposure to droplets of saliva and/or nasal mucus appears to be its chief mode of transmission.

 

Kissing can now be a higher-risk behavior for a potentially lethal disease than anal or vaginal intercourse. That's hard to wrap my head around. Plus, it's unlikely that we'll have an effective and widely available vaccine before early to mid 2021, at the earliest, and the U.S.'s mass-testing infrastructure has been woefully inadequate. Given this current status, how many of us can really stay 100% celibate as to all sexual and/or intimate acts for a year or longer?

GREAT point

[Lee_jeff]

I really really want to meet up with https://rentmen.eu/JakeKlerin right now, but am currently sheltering in place at my parents in SF. am really scared to bring it home to them, so that has kept me from pulling the trigger at this point. i guess i'll have to wait til i get back to nyc.

I feel that you may think too much The escort has not login the website since Shelter in place happens. He might not be in the market as for now...

[+ Bryan Dube]

I feel that you may think too much The escort has not login the website since Shelter in place happens. He might not be in the market as for now...

 

Lol. i mean i'm having ongoing conversations with him right now, he definitely has not remained celibate during shelter in place i can tell you that. haha.