Anyone Ever Want Sex So Badly You Meet With Someone You Know Will Develop An Unhealthy Fixation On You?

[+ Gar1eth]

Why am I asking? No specific reason. ?

 

Gman

[+ Gar1eth]

Why am I asking? No specific reason. ?

 

Gman

[marylander1940]

Why am I asking? No specific reason. ?

 

Gman

 

I am glad you’re horny!

 

“In the storm any port” go for it!

 

Mazel tov!

Edited August 7, 2019 by marylander1940

[marylander1940]

Why am I asking? No specific reason. ?

 

Gman

 

I am glad you’re horny!

 

“In the storm any port” go for it!

 

Mazel tov!

Edited August 7, 2019 by marylander1940

[+ nycman]

Bad decisions make great stories.

 

Have fun!

 

Just be sure to report back here when it all crashes and burns.

 

We love a good tragedy.

[+ oldNbusted]

How does one know such a thing in advance? I did have one guy break into the empty house next door and camp out there but I was unaware of this until after his infatuation had passed and we had gone our separate ways. Another guy later got religion and slipped a note under my door, apologizing for all the scorching hot sex we'd had. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Edited August 7, 2019 by oldNbusted

[+ Gar1eth]

Ok to provide a bit more info. We've 'met' on Scruff. But haven't actually been able to meet. He's in his 20's about to start nursing school.

Bad decisions make great stories.

 

Have fun!

 

Just be sure to report back here when it all crashes and burns.

 

We love a good tragedy.

 

 

From the start without even meeting in person he's said he wants to date and marry me. I've said I can't be a boyfriend without getting to know you first. He's said things like, " Will it convince you if we have sex the first time we meet?"

 

He's about to go back to school 100 miles from me, and he says he wants me to visit him there.

 

The kicker -when he was 17 he was in a major auto accident. There's a video online he showed me. It looks like he was in a coma and had to go thru rehab afterwards.

 

He says he has no spasticity or speech problems. But I asked about mood swings-he says they have decreased.

 

In all honesty I'm more than likely not going to meet him. The attention is flattering, or lord knows it would be nice to find someone. But on my part-it's just too weird for him to be that fixated on me without us ever meeting. Last night he signed off and said "Love you." And again we've never met.

 

On his part-in spite of his denials-I'm concerned about some type of organic brain dysfunction causing him to fixate on someone he's only talked to online. In addition, I really couldn't commit to the type of relationship that he wants right off the bat . I'd be using him just for sex (but in a nice way as I'd want him to have a nice time too). And to do that to someone when I know he wants a deeper relationship would not make me feel very good about myself.

 

But I am fairly sex-starved. So I'm glad for the 100 mile distance. It will keep me true (as the night follows the day.)

 

Gman

[+ Gar1eth]

Another guy later got religion and slipped a note under my door, apologizing for all the scorching hot sex we'ed had. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

My sex tends to be luke warm and yawn inducing. But I'm glad you two had fun.

 

Gman

[RealAvalon]

Ok to provide a bit more info. We've 'met' on Scruff. But haven't actually been able to meet. He's in his 20's about to start nursing school.

 

 

 

From the start without even meeting in person he's said he wants to date and marry me. I've said I can't be a boyfriend without getting to know you first. He's said things like, " Will it convince you if we have sex the first time we meet?"

 

He's about to go back to school 100 miles from me, and he says he wants me to visit him there.

 

The kicker -when he was 17 he was in a major auto accident. There's a video online he showed me. It looks like he was in a coma and had to go thru rehab afterwards.

 

He says he has no spasticity or speech problems. But I asked about mood swings-he says they have decreased.

 

In all honesty I'm more than likely not going to meet him. The attention is flattering, or lord knows it would be nice to find someone. But on my part-it's just too weird for him to be that fixated on me without us ever meeting. Last night he signed off and said "Love you." And again we've never met.

 

On his part-in spite of his denials-I'm concerned about some type of organic brain dysfunction causing him to fixate on someone he's only talked to online. In addition, I really couldn't commit to the type of relationship that he wants right off the bat . I'd be using him just for sex (but in a nice way as I'd want him to have a nice time too). And to do that to someone when I know he wants a deeper relationship would not make me feel very good about myself.

 

But I am fairly sex-starved. So I'm glad for the 100 mile distance. It will keep me true (as the night follows the day.)

 

Gman

Sorry, sounds totally sketchy

[+ sniper]

Wants you to visit him 100 miles from home? And IIRC you're currently dealing with an illness that might inhibit your ability to defend yourself should things go poorly? Stay away, Gman, we want you alive.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

[+ sync]

Ok to provide a bit more info. We've 'met' on Scruff. But haven't actually been able to meet. He's in his 20's about to start nursing school.

 

 

 

From the start without even meeting in person he's said he wants to date and marry me. I've said I can't be a boyfriend without getting to know you first. He's said things like, " Will it convince you if we have sex the first time we meet?"

 

He's about to go back to school 100 miles from me, and he says he wants me to visit him there.

 

The kicker -when he was 17 he was in a major auto accident. There's a video online he showed me. It looks like he was in a coma and had to go thru rehab afterwards.

 

He says he has no spasticity or speech problems. But I asked about mood swings-he says they have decreased.

 

In all honesty I'm more than likely not going to meet him. The attention is flattering, or lord knows it would be nice to find someone. But on my part-it's just too weird for him to be that fixated on me without us ever meeting. Last night he signed off and said "Love you." And again we've never met.

 

On his part-in spite of his denials-I'm concerned about some type of organic brain dysfunction causing him to fixate on someone he's only talked to online. In addition, I really couldn't commit to the type of relationship that he wants right off the bat . I'd be using him just for sex (but in a nice way as I'd want him to have a nice time too). And to do that to someone when I know he wants a deeper relationship would not make me feel very good about myself.

 

But I am fairly sex-starved. So I'm glad for the 100 mile distance. It will keep me true (as the night follows the day.)

 

Gman

I would really like to be able to imagine an up side within these circumstances, but I just don't see any possibility for a soft landing within this flight plan. I wish you a safe and pleasant experience should you decide to participate.

[hypothetically]

Ok to provide a bit more info. We've 'met' on Scruff. But haven't actually been able to meet. He's in his 20's about to start nursing school.

 

 

 

From the start without even meeting in person he's said he wants to date and marry me. I've said I can't be a boyfriend without getting to know you first. He's said things like, " Will it convince you if we have sex the first time we meet?"

 

He's about to go back to school 100 miles from me, and he says he wants me to visit him there.

 

The kicker -when he was 17 he was in a major auto accident. There's a video online he showed me. It looks like he was in a coma and had to go thru rehab afterwards.

 

He says he has no spasticity or speech problems. But I asked about mood swings-he says they have decreased.

 

In all honesty I'm more than likely not going to meet him. The attention is flattering, or lord knows it would be nice to find someone. But on my part-it's just too weird for him to be that fixated on me without us ever meeting. Last night he signed off and said "Love you." And again we've never met.

 

On his part-in spite of his denials-I'm concerned about some type of organic brain dysfunction causing him to fixate on someone he's only talked to online. In addition, I really couldn't commit to the type of relationship that he wants right off the bat . I'd be using him just for sex (but in a nice way as I'd want him to have a nice time too). And to do that to someone when I know he wants a deeper relationship would not make me feel very good about myself.

 

But I am fairly sex-starved. So I'm glad for the 100 mile distance. It will keep me true (as the night follows the day.)

 

Gman

 

Whimsical Wednesday’s.

[+ Keith30309]

Ok to provide a bit more info. We've 'met' on Scruff. But haven't actually been able to meet. He's in his 20's about to start nursing school.

 

 

 

From the start without even meeting in person he's said he wants to date and marry me. I've said I can't be a boyfriend without getting to know you first. He's said things like, " Will it convince you if we have sex the first time we meet?"

 

He's about to go back to school 100 miles from me, and he says he wants me to visit him there.

 

The kicker -when he was 17 he was in a major auto accident. There's a video online he showed me. It looks like he was in a coma and had to go thru rehab afterwards.

 

He says he has no spasticity or speech problems. But I asked about mood swings-he says they have decreased.

 

In all honesty I'm more than likely not going to meet him. The attention is flattering, or lord knows it would be nice to find someone. But on my part-it's just too weird for him to be that fixated on me without us ever meeting. Last night he signed off and said "Love you." And again we've never met.

 

On his part-in spite of his denials-I'm concerned about some type of organic brain dysfunction causing him to fixate on someone he's only talked to online. In addition, I really couldn't commit to the type of relationship that he wants right off the bat . I'd be using him just for sex (but in a nice way as I'd want him to have a nice time too). And to do that to someone when I know he wants a deeper relationship would not make me feel very good about myself.

 

But I am fairly sex-starved. So I'm glad for the 100 mile distance. It will keep me true (as the night follows the day.)

 

Gman

Don’t do it.

[+ Keith30309]

What could possibly go wrong

 

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[+ Gar1eth]

I know it's weird. But with my prospects being so dismal, I'm flattered that he's chosen me.

 

I actually think he's sincere in wanting to meet me. I don't thinks this is a scam. But the entire situation with his history of a severe car wreck, being in a coma, there being most likely some personality changes due to brain injury (plus other changes -he told me it had affected his libido-he's frequently horny and takes him 45+ minutes to orgasm-on the hand he's only 25-the accident was at 17-but the libido could be totally him and have nothing to do with the accident), and saying things in correspondence - like the way he signed off last night with 'love you' when we haven't even met yet make me certain that at least as regards relationships, he's probably not stable.

 

I have to admit that I've had brief houghts of Glenn Close from Fatal Attraction pass thru my mind.

 

All summer he's been 50 miles away-I'm assuming living at home and unable to meet. I'm glad when at school he'll be 100 miles away as it will prevent my little head from overriding my big head's decision not to meet no matter how sexless my life is.

 

And really it's better for both of us. Since I can't see a boyfriend relationship with him, he won't be giving up sex in hopes that I'll change my mind.

 

Gman

[LookingAround]

You seem to be obsessing on him. This whole thing is creepy, weird and makes zero sense. Your intuition is to recognize how goofy and unrealistic the whole thing is. Why are you ruminating so much on it. I’d give it one nanosecond of thought and forget about it thinking he’s a bit disturbed.

[jjkrkwood]

Ok to provide a bit more info. We've 'met' on Scruff. But haven't actually been able to meet. He's in his 20's about to start nursing school.

 

 

 

From the start without even meeting in person he's said he wants to date and marry me. I've said I can't be a boyfriend without getting to know you first. He's said things like, " Will it convince you if we have sex the first time we meet?"

 

He's about to go back to school 100 miles from me, and he says he wants me to visit him there.

 

The kicker -when he was 17 he was in a major auto accident. There's a video online he showed me. It looks like he was in a coma and had to go thru rehab afterwards.

 

He says he has no spasticity or speech problems. But I asked about mood swings-he says they have decreased.

 

In all honesty I'm more than likely not going to meet him. The attention is flattering, or lord knows it would be nice to find someone. But on my part-it's just too weird for him to be that fixated on me without us ever meeting. Last night he signed off and said "Love you." And again we've never met.

 

On his part-in spite of his denials-I'm concerned about some type of organic brain dysfunction causing him to fixate on someone he's only talked to online. In addition, I really couldn't commit to the type of relationship that he wants right off the bat . I'd be using him just for sex (but in a nice way as I'd want him to have a nice time too). And to do that to someone when I know he wants a deeper relationship would not make me feel very good about myself.

 

But I am fairly sex-starved. So I'm glad for the 100 mile distance. It will keep me true (as the night follows the day.)

 

Gman

 

Gar, with all due respect, I wouldn't even have engaged in the conversation. It seemed silly, almost juvenile.. Ive learned to trust my gut, and with THAT conversation, my gut would have been churning.

[+ Gar1eth]

You seem to be obsessing on him. This whole thing is creepy, weird and makes zero sense. Your intuition is to recognize how goofy and unrealistic the whole thing is. Why are you ruminating so much on it. I’d give it one nanosecond of thought and forget about it thinking he’s a bit disturbed.

 

Gar, with all due respect, I wouldn't even have engaged in the conversation. It seemed silly, almost juvenile.. Ive learned to trust my gut, and with THAT conversation, my gut would have been churning.

 

I'm not obsessing. And while I've known it wasn't a good idea to meet, it was just re-impressed on me two days ago when he signed off 'Love you.' However when sex is concerned the body and good intentions can be weak. Not that it's really a (good) defense-but how many people on here have met escorts that they knew they shouldn't have or endured a session when they knew they should have left.

 

But you are def right JJK-the meeting is a no-go.

 

Gman

Edited August 8, 2019 by Gar1eth

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

This is a case of thirst. I think an abbreviated line from The American President fits well here:

 

'So thirsty that you'll crawl through the desert toward a mirage, and when you discover there's no water, you'll drink the sand.'

 

No one writes monologues quite like Aaron Sorkin

[rvwnsd]

Don't listen to them, GMan. Go for it. Maybe he has a good recipe for bunny soup.

[jjkrkwood]

This is a case of thirst. I think an abbreviated line from The American President fits well here:

 

'So thirsty that you'll crawl through the desert toward a mirage, and when you discover there's no water, you'll drink the sand.'

 

No one writes monologues quite like Aaron Sorkin

 

 

If you're thirsty, have V-8

[+ tassojunior]

 

But I asked about mood swings-he says they have decreased.

 

 

There were a bunch of paragraphs above but this line is all I saw.

[marylander1940]

I know it's weird. But with my prospects being so dismal, I'm flattered that he's chosen me.

 

I actually think he's sincere in wanting to meet me. I don't thinks this is a scam. But the entire situation with his history of a severe car wreck, being in a coma, there being most likely some personality changes due to brain injury (plus other changes -he told me it had affected his libido-he's frequently horny and takes him 45+ minutes to orgasm-on the hand he's only 25-the accident was at 17-but the libido could be totally him and have nothing to do with the accident), and saying things in correspondence - like the way he signed off last night with 'love you' when we haven't even met yet make me certain that at least as regards relationships, he's probably not stable.

 

I have to admit that I've had brief houghts of Glenn Close from Fatal Attraction pass thru my mind.

 

All summer he's been 50 miles away-I'm assuming living at home and unable to meet. I'm glad when at school he'll be 100 miles away as it will prevent my little head from overriding my big head's decision not to meet no matter how sexless my life is.

 

And really it's better for both of us. Since I can't see a boyfriend relationship with him, he won't be giving up sex in hopes that I'll change my mind.

 

Gman