Every Escort is bi or straight?

[Bearman]

My hot, go-to escort in San Francisco whom I've seen periodically over a two year period professes to be bi but he doesn't touch my cock or stimulate my nips as I'd like, but he loves to be rimmed and have my fingers up his tight chunnel. He has a son and claims to be married. It perplexes the hell out of me, but I do wish he'd be more interactive. Hung--kisses divinely-- and fucks like one hell of jackhammer, esp. when I'm on my back, my fav position in receiving.

 

So does this escort advertise on RM? From what you describe he sounds VERY interesting and just up my alley!

[RealAvalon]

I think its just laughable how they all put that. The majority of gay men are 100 percent gay. The majority of true bisexual men are living their lives as str8 men and not even claiming bisexuality. Most of these men orob havent willfully seen a vagina on the internet much less real life.

 

Now here is what i am not saying....i am not saying str8 men cant be had if price is right. I have my fair share of str8 men but rarely do they get up decide to be escorts who kiss suk n bottom.

 

For ppl who are as cerebral as they are physical the str8 fantasy is extremely enticing yet elusive.The most attractive thing about str8 men is their lack of awareness. You get to watch primal thought processes str8 from the brain to body and no cock size ass size can top that. Go on a military base or police cadet camp and watch the guys just horsing around and being themself thats as sexy as sexy gets. However if you arent cerebral you will be enthralled by nude dancers bending over til you can see inside their colon and intestines. I think the gay guys posting( cause gay guys are always hyperaware) are not ignorant to these facts and want to capitalize. What i want to know is doesnt the lack of authenticity turn you off? Doesnt it turn you off that it is so rampant and pervasive? Its like rentmen has a private academy to teach you the talking points of being a masc dom alpha supreme jock (like anyone belonging to these categories would use these words) without you actually needing to be any of these things or remotely resembling them. Is the joke on them or on us?

I expect almost all are gay, some may be bi. The dancers/strippers are almost all straight.

[studchaser]

I expect almost all are gay, some may be bi. The dancers/strippers are almost all straight.

 

Sounds about right! Except i would say some dancers are str8 not most. The irony is this practice sets the standard of str8 men as the epitome. Im not judging for many str8 men are the epitome if you revere the attributes escorts go outta there way to stress they have.

[studchaser]

A quick count, assisted by the "search" feature and some arithmetic, revealed the following results:

 

• Gay: 4,212
  
• Bi: 2,916
  
• Straight: 482
  
• Ask Me: 1,484
  

Conclusion: The overwhelming majority (46.6%) identify as being gay.

 

The ones who dont claim gay exceed it. Either they are an imported manufactured demographic that dont represent real life or knowingly lying. I put knowingly cuz i dont buy they are confused either.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I think its just laughable how they all put that. The majority of gay men are 100 percent gay. The majority of true bisexual men are living their lives as str8 men and not even claiming bisexuality. Most of these men orob havent willfully seen a vagina on the internet much less real life.

 

This sounds like bull shit based on wishful thinking and anecdotal experiences.

[+ WilliamM]

WOW, really?!! I don't remember seeing him in any fetish or spanking videos back then. I would have never guessed him straight or bi either. Interesting!

 

Billy Brandt arrived with his girlfriend, but left her at a local bar for hours. I believe he remembered the bar because I walked over with him to make sure.

 

To be fair, He and I had a very long phone conversation the night before where he talked about filming "Absolute Arid" in Australia on his 21st Birthday. He Also said "being a bottom in a video would perhaps be ok, if that is what people want."

Edited June 5, 2019 by WilliamM

[BaronArtz]

 

However if you arent cerebral you will be enthralled by nude dancers bending over til you can see inside their colon and intestines

 

 

And where exactly is this happening? You live in an interesting world ...

[gallahadesquire]

A quick count, assisted by the "search" feature and some arithmetic, revealed the following results:

 

• Gay: 4,212
  
• Bi: 2,916
  
• Straight: 482
  
• Ask Me: 1,484
  

Conclusion: The overwhelming majority (46.6%) identify as being gay.

That would be a plurality, as it is not 50% + 1, which is a simple majority.

[caramelsub]

One of my regular escorts identifies as straight, but I believe he is truly is bi. He is married and has 3 kids. He tells me he has sex with his wife 3 times a week. So I do think truly bi escorts exist. He was even shocked when I told him I’d never had sexual intercourse with a woman, and called me a virgin! Imagine that.

[MikeBiDude]

Meh... As I have grown older and farther away from my Catholic upbringing... sex isn't as 'binary' as everyone claims.

I could not possibly agree more! Lots of gray areas between black and white ends of the spectrum.

[+ tassojunior]

I could not possibly agree more! Lots of gray areas between black and white ends of the spectrum.

 

It is more binary as far as enjoyment though. I have a lot of escort friends who are "straight" but are passionate kissers, suckers and bottoms or tops. I commonly hear from them things like "I get enough dick, I need pussy" or " fucking a guy is like fucking a watermelon to me, no sexual feeling at all". Even guys who's sex life is mostly "business", meaning 99% men, can be married with children and just think of sex with men as work. One told me to think of a gang of male monkeys who are jerking each other off all day but as soon as a female comes by they all compete for her. ie: There is such a thing as internal wiring toward women in most men even though they engage in male sex activity. A loose concept of "bisexual" that has become the common usage today; ie: definition by activity not preference.

 

I think the really good escorts are much like character actors who actually immerse themselves in the character they are playing. Anyway, it's too confusing for me; enjoyment vs pretend enjoyment vs preferred enjoyment. As a top all I want to know and all I ask is "top or bottom" or "bottom?" If they're a good bottom the rest is immaterial static to me sexually. Socially is a different matter.

[+ José Soplanucas]

What is the most confusing to me is that despite sharing our knowledge and diversity for years in these forums, so many of us are still projecting our personal experience and pretending to make it a universal standard.

[+ sniper]

Yeah, I don't get it. I can't read minds and also escorts are people being paid to do/say WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO, explicitly or not. I have enough friends who tell me they are bi(and they have no interest in me) that I believe they exist. But an escort, odds are, is going to tell you what he thinks you want to hear. Or what he thinks you don't want to hear if he doesn't like you maybe.

 

There are people who are gay who "read" as straight and there are people who are straight who "read" as gay.

[+ sniper]

My best guesstimate (from a lifetime of anecdata) of the population in terms of what they are GENERALLY INCLINED TO WANT TO DO is;

70% exclusively straight

5-10% exclusively gay

20-25% somewhere in-between, and many of them just "round up" to one or the other.

 

In terms of what gender they are WILLING TO ENTERTAIN DOING UNDER THE RIGHT CONDITIONS, conditions which will vary from person to person and what specifically they do will vary, I'd say it's more like

30% exclusively straight

5% exclusively gay

65% somewhere in between.

 

the right conditions could be money(I have no interest in eating pussy, but there's a price for which I 'd do it), they could be getting to also be with someone else(e.g. I'd eat a pussy for a crack and Shawn Mendes or 2 of the 3 Jonas Brothers), , or it could be that the activity is severely limited. Like there's a LOT of guys who will take a handjob from anyone, but they wouldn't want to reciprocate in any way. Likewise some will do "hands only" stuff because it feels good but that feeling is independent of the person it's with, it's a tactile thing.

 

 

QED.

[studchaser]

One of my regular escorts identifies as straight, but I believe he is truly is bi. He is married and has 3 kids. He tells me he has sex with his wife 3 times a week. So I do think truly bi escorts exist. He was even shocked when I told him I’d never had sexual intercourse with a woman, and called me a virgin! Imagine that.

 

Your confirming everything i said. True bi guys are probably living a str8 life and identifying as str8 when bi. The ones who say they are bi are gay and the ones who say they are gay couldnt fool a blind unicorn.

[+ José Soplanucas]

[hypothetically]

Its like rentmen has a private academy to teach you the talking points of being a masc dom alpha supreme jock (like anyone belonging to these categories would use these words) without you actually needing to be any of these things or remotely resembling them. Is the joke on them or on us?

 

On the clients who continue to feed into these caricatures. If you recognize the discrepancy then you are not the demographic the marketing being used by said escorts is geared towards. Simple. Ads also read “luxury,” “XXL,” “exclusive,” and “5-star experience.” Its often the contrary.

[MikeBiDude]

What is the most confusing to me is that despite sharing our knowledge and diversity for years in these forums, so many of us are still projecting our personal experience and pretending to make it a universal standard.

This is what dooms threads about sexuality, or “masculine vs. feminine”, “what do you like most about.....” etc.

[+ oldNbusted]

Ads also read “luxury,” “XXL,” “exclusive,” and “5-star experience.”.

 

My favorite is "upscale".

[+ WilliamM]

I think its just laughable how they all put that. The majority of gay men are 100 percent gay. The majority of true bisexual men are living their lives as str8 men and not even claiming bisexuality. Most of these men orob havent willfully seen a vagina on the internet much less real life.

 

Now here is what i am not saying....i am not saying str8 men cant be had if price is right. I have my fair share of str8 men but rarely do they get up decide to be escorts who kiss suk n bottom.

 

For ppl who are as cerebral as they are physical the str8 fantasy is extremely enticing yet elusive.The most attractive thing about str8 men is their lack of awareness. You get to watch primal thought processes str8 from the brain to body and no cock size ass size can top that. Go on a military base or police cadet camp and watch the guys just horsing around and being themself thats as sexy as sexy gets. However if you arent cerebral you will be enthralled by nude dancers bending over til you can see inside their colon and intestines. I think the gay guys posting( cause gay guys are always hyperaware) are not ignorant to these facts and want to capitalize. What i want to know is doesnt the lack of authenticity turn you off? Doesnt it turn you off that it is so rampant and pervasive? Its like rentmen has a private academy to teach you the talking points of being a masc dom alpha supreme jock (like anyone belonging to these categories would use these words) without you actually needing to be any of these things or remotely resembling them. Is the joke on them or on us?

 

Come on, @studchaser, military service is not all playing around for yearbook photos. In a war zone, Vietnam, Iraq or Afghanistan, friends are vital, not who might be bi or not.

 

So my answer again is the same as above, despite your silly question mark response.:(

[+ sniper]

Your confirming everything i said. True bi guys are probably living a str8 life and identifying as str8 when bi. The ones who say they are bi are gay and the ones who say they are gay couldnt fool a blind unicorn.

Meh. I say I'm gay and people who knew me before i came out insist they had no clue. Some thought i might be asexual.

[+ WilliamM]

Meh. I say I'm gay and people who knew me before i came out insist they had no clue. Some thought i might be asexual.

 

Thanks, excellent response.

[hypothetically]

My favorite is "upscale".

 

“Premium.”

[+ tassojunior]

Your confirming everything i said. True bi guys are probably living a str8 life and identifying as str8 when bi. The ones who say they are bi are gay and the ones who say they are gay couldnt fool a blind unicorn.

NO. 20 years ago I may have agreed. But today there are less inhibitions and some very strange preferences and mixtures come out. There are mostly straight guys who only love to bottom with guys. Some are sadists with women but like to be masochists for men. There are foot fetish exclusives. There are crossover edgers and chokers and water sportsters. Some guys are just plain over-sexed and do anything (and anyone). The straight-bi-gay scale just doesn't cover it. They were always there but repressed.

[studchaser]

On the clients who continue to feed into these caricatures. If you recognize the discrepancy then you are not the demographic the marketing being used by said escorts is geared towards. Simple. Ads also read “luxury,” “XXL,” “exclusive,” and “5-star experience.” Its often the contrary.

 

Wow interesting. Your saying the gab is for the gullible?