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That might be the reason why some go into the business

 

That’s probably the MAIN reason. BUT, when I started out in Miami in 2007, I was offered a place to stay for my first month of college, $300, and “unlimited sex”. Hard to pass on.

 

Later, I was liking the dinner dates, going to neighborhoods I could never afford, etc.

 

Then it just became...a thing I enjoyed.

 

Any escort whose profile mentions being broke, needing help paying bills, looking for generous men, etc. Hard pass.

 

True...but your current avatar would probably scare those ones off. Just like my last client lived 100 miles from town, on a dirt road, with chickens and cats everywhere. And the sign on the door said, “we’re all nuts here”.

 

I was like, this is how they died on Texas Chainsaw massacre and Get Out. It was even more crazy when his 20 something year old son answered the door. All in all, it was fun...but initially scary.

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Mocha Mentor

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What!? U can’t blue ball is like that. Lol.

Mocha- U can’t end a story there.

Was it a hot tag team father and son thing!?!

 

Hahaha...you know, I won’t lie and say I imagined it for 5 seconds, but then I couldn’t tell if it was his adopted son or biological son. Either way, that woulda just been weird to ask, but I did have to confirm he was over 18...I can’t be doing hokie pokie with underaged kids in the vicinity. Considering his partner (who I also happened to meet after the session) was not a “mom”, I couldn’t tell.

 

I guess these are the things that one graduates to once they reach daddy status. Guess I’m old enough to “pass” in such situations.

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Any escort whose profile mentions being broke, needing help paying bills, looking for generous men, etc. Hard pass.

If you're hiring sex workers on a regular basis, you're guaranteed to have hired someone who wasn't making ends meet with their other/previous job. If you want escorts to be savvy marketers and not mention their situation, well, that's fair. I can understand that focusing on the financial transaction can sour the vibe. But let's not kid ourselves, generous clients is exactly what every escort is looking for-what makes a quality escort quality is simply that they genuinely appreciate the kindness and generosity of clients and offer the same in turn.

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Hahaha...you know, I won’t lie and say I imagined it for 5 seconds, but then I couldn’t tell if it was his adopted son or biological son. Either way, that woulda just been weird to ask, but I did have to confirm he was over 18...I can’t be doing hokie pokie with underaged kids in the vicinity. Considering his partner (who I also happened to meet after the session) was not a “mom”, I couldn’t tell.

 

I guess these are the things that one graduates to once they reach daddy status. Guess I’m old enough to “pass” in such situations.

 

Wait ... how often do you arrive for a session with a client and there are other people there, especially family not participating in the session? I can understand an apartment mate or housemate being cool ... but an adult child? Did he know why you were there? This is a great short story or film waiting to happen.

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Wait ... how often do you arrive for a session with a client and there are other people there, especially family not participating in the session? I can understand an apartment mate or housemate being cool ... but an adult child? Did he know why you were there? This is a great short story or film waiting to happen.

 

...perhaps I will write about it ? There was another recent one after the previous in fact.

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In London recently, an escort wanted to know if I wanted him to bring "supplements". I'm assuming he didn't mean Muscle Milk.

Had an escort tell me he provided blue supplements if I wanted. It was interesting to get the offer... I assumed they were viagra

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Although I don't need Viagra, I wont do.ldn't have held it against him. I think he was referring to other drugs, which I don't do.

I am hoping that was what he was meaning since he said blue... who knows he seemed on the level.

 

I did have one in txt after we came up with all the arrangements ask me if I would be bring some snow to our party, he helped him get horny .. I decided not to respond to that

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Had an escort tell me he provided blue supplements if I wanted. It was interesting to get the offer... I assumed they were viagra

 

I personally wouldn’t offer that voluntarily. The blue pill can have some side effects or interact with other things. Wouldn’t want to be responsible.

 

Even the head cleaners I’ve gotten away from readily having on hand...Some people go beyond the limits.

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PNP

 

Major red flag!

 

I always encourage clients/escorts to be well equipped with resources that can be used by the person who is struggling with addiction (if they want help). Otherwise, leave it alone. Stigmatizing is a much bigger red flag than PNP.

 

Would you say “HIV! Major red flag!”

I doubt it. Be careful. You don’t know who your audience is and what they are dealing with.

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I always encourage clients/escorts to be well equipped with resources that can be used by the person who is struggling with addiction (if they want help). Otherwise, leave it alone. Stigmatizing is a much bigger red flag than PNP.

 

The person who is struggling with addiction should seek help from his friends, family, neighbors, etc. instead of calling a stranger (who happens to be an escort) at 3 A.M. and ask him if he can get there A.S.A.P. to share drugs.

 

Don't get me wrong I feel sorry for him but if I was an escort I wouldn't go to see someone who suggests using drugs.

 

If you get a text message by someone suggesting PNP late at night would run to go see him?

 

Would you say “HIV! Major red flag!”

 

Huh... before PrEP I would only hire escorts who use condoms. HIV was then and now preventable!

 

 

 

I doubt it. Be careful. You don’t know who your audience is and what they are dealing with.

 

Isn't this forum supposed to be about sharing thoughts, experiences, opinions, etc?

 

You certainly have no issues expressing your opinions, maybe that's why you don't link your escort ad to your post and you don't accept being hired from this site.

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I personally wouldn’t offer that voluntarily. The blue pill can have some side effects or interact with other things. Wouldn’t want to be responsible.

 

Even the head cleaners I’ve gotten away from readily having on hand...Some people go beyond the limits.

 

Besides in most places sharing a pill that is not over the counter is illegal and might have consequences if something goes wrong.

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The person who is struggling with addiction should seek help from his friends, family, neighbors, etc. instead of calling a stranger (who happens to be an escort) at 3 A.M. and ask him if he can get there A.S.A.P. to share drugs.

 

Don't get me wrong I feel sorry for him but if I was an escort I wouldn't go to see someone who suggests using drugs.

 

If you get a text message by someone suggesting PNP late at night would run to go see him?

 

 

 

Huh... before PrEP I would only hire escorts who use condoms. HIV was then and now preventable!

 

 

 

 

 

Isn't this forum supposed to be about sharing thoughts, experiences, opinions, etc?

 

You certainly have no issues expressing your opinions, maybe that's why you don't link your escort ad to your post and you don't accept being hired from this site.

 

You’ve completely diverted and gone on some tangent/story none of us are aware of. You also didn’t quite catch the correlation between the sensitive topic of HIV and addiction. Seems you started a subliminal topic about Pnp instead of actually sharing the story you just spit out while feeling some type of way that i called you out on being insensitive.

 

A person struggling with addiction SHOULD reach out to friends and family but often times DOESN’T out of fear, because of stigmatizing (which you’ve just done).

 

Also, my ad can be found in the signature on my profile and I’ve had no trouble being hired via the forum. You’re triggered because of a conversation that transpired between you and I. (Also, completely unrelated to you stigmatizing).

 

You can find me here since you decided not to look at my profile. You’re welcome.

http://Http://www.Rentmen.eu/AndreNYC

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