+ tassojunior Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 Yep you nailed it. I’m in Old Raleigh lol. It’s not bad, but my raleigh looks a lot different from others peoples perceptions of Raleigh. I don’t see it as a liberal hotspot. There are many northern transplants here, but I was raised here and it still has an old south good ole boy type vibe. There used to be a somewhat decent escort scene, but now it’s kind of lacking in that department. Mainly twinks and bottoms. Most likely I will be heading up to the greater nyc northern nj area. Lived there for a couple of years. It was expensive but probably worth it in the long run, I love the latino papis. Yup, Red and Richie who stripped at Secrets here were from Raleigh and said it wasn't that lively.
buckguy Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 Portland is a tough place--I've known several people with relatively marketable skills who've failed to find work there. The Triangle is heavy on strip malls and the kind of place where you always see the same people--friends have left for those reasons. Asheville is nice, but you're kind of isolated from other places. Denver goes through periods of bust and boom---which means real estate goes up and down--other things tend to be relatively expensive and salaries tend to lag salaries. Columbus is a bout the dullest place imaginable and super boosterish---it's where cake mixes get test marketed and dull fast casual and fast food chains originate. It also has easily the worst art museum I've ever seen. + tassojunior 1
Deadlift1 Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 Late twenties. I’ll give you that much lol. I don't care but it makes a big difference where you move. Are u going to buy or rent? What city is best for your career? Just ask yourself these questions.
Bearofdistinction Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 (edited) Some of the elders need to get out more. They are now building $500k townhouses in Kensington because of the influx of new residents. And 160k existing and rehabbed in Pennsport and Methodist Hosp and near the Old St Agnes 200 K+ new moving South moving south of Snyder And affordable in other areas tucked into cute little street Depends what you want --- $500K new Construction is likely 3-4 stories 3-4 BR/Baths -Garage - Roof Deck - Yard/Driveway - Granite or marble everything Or do you want a 2-3 Br 1=1.5 Bath 2 Story with a small yard - original accents - WD in the basement and street parking - Kitch/DR/ and LR =15x50 x2floors or as described above 2800-4800 Sq Feet Edited August 2, 2018 by Bearofdistinction
Deadlift1 Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 I translated that to "There is something for every budget." I agree. Bearofdistinction 1
+ tassojunior Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 Portland is a tough place--I've known several people with relatively marketable skills who've failed to find work there. . Portland is where Millenials go to retire.
Bearofdistinction Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 Portland is where Millenials go to retire. If you are Millenial and you are retiring ---- I hope you die from tree moss
+ tassojunior Posted August 2, 2018 Posted August 2, 2018 If you are Millenial and you are retiring ---- I hope you die from tree moss I think that joke means Millennials migrate there but never find a job. I've met several like that in Portland. Bearofdistinction 1
+ E.T.Bass Posted August 3, 2018 Posted August 3, 2018 I would suggest Chicago. Theres tons to do just about year round from fests, cultural stuff to food. We have an amazing lake and nice beaches . The weather isnt as bad as some say. I've been here for eight years and have yet to really dread winter. If you dress properly and pullup your big girl panties it isnt bad. Being prepared and dressing properly are key. Those that complain are often times the ones who failed to be prepared. Summers are the best! Lazy days by the lake, dippin your toes in the cool water, the beautiful sun rise.....I dont see myself leaving for another four years. Hugs, Greg It wasn't until I moved to California that I realized how much I missed by not heading to Chicago for entertainment when it was relatively close. Theater & Chicago Symphony Orchestra, for example.
JayCeeKy Posted August 3, 2018 Posted August 3, 2018 Chicago was settled by people who wanted a city like New York but in a really, really cold place.
cany10011 Posted August 8, 2018 Posted August 8, 2018 One stop, yes, but the PATH is horribly overcrowded and has shitty late night service. Jersey City lacks the transit infrastructure for all the new construction. Actually many of my acquaintances live in downtown Jersey City and love it. I have visited many times and it is a really nice area with plenty of restaurants and nice views. Easy access to west village and union square. Plus, it is a short Uber ride away and rents/costs of owning are a little less than manhattan.
pubic_assistance Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 Philadelphia area is your best bet. Much of downtown Philly is a shit hole...but there are many nice areas just outside of the city proper that are very nice and very affordable.
+ Charlie Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 Much of downtown Philly is a shit hole... I beg your pardon? Center City is where most people want to live, which is why it has become so expensive. + WilliamM 1
rustyrex Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 My first recommendation would be Philadelphia; of really big cities, it is probably the cheapest to live in (that doesn't mean that someone coming from the South would consider it cheap, however). Twenty years ago I would have said Portland, but housing cost there is rising fast. A favorite of mine is Salt Lake City, but the air pollution there is becoming a problem. Someplace inexpensive and very gay friendly, in a low key way, is Albuquerque. OMG....and here I was trying to get the hell out of ABQ!!!!
marylander1940 Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 I don't know if it was mentioned on here before. Kansas City We have a guy in common who loves your city @TruHart1 TruHart1 1
marylander1940 Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 OMG....and here I was trying to get the hell out of ABQ!!!! Santa Fe is more gay friendly, yet is so small I wonder how many gay men live there.
TruHart1 Posted August 9, 2018 Posted August 9, 2018 I don't know if it was mentioned on here before. Kansas City We have a guy in common who loves your city @TruHart1 I really love our "in common" guy myself, @marylander1940, and I always feel delighted and so privileged when he visits, as he plans to do in only a few weeks! ;) TruHart1 marylander1940 1
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted August 10, 2018 Posted August 10, 2018 Santa Fe is more gay friendly, yet is so small I wonder how many gay men live there. A lot of gay men are there... A lot of very wealthy gay men who own businesses.
marylander1940 Posted August 10, 2018 Posted August 10, 2018 A lot of gay men are there... A lot of very wealthy gay men who own businesses. Those of the number$ that really matter
pubic_assistance Posted August 11, 2018 Posted August 11, 2018 I beg your pardon? Center City is where most people want to live, which is why it has become so expensive. Don't be ridiculous. #1... I said "much of it" ...not ALL of it ...and.. #2 you're just being argumentative for the sake of it if you can't see what a shit hole much of Philly is. It's been a shit hole since the 70s. Slower to return than most big cities...which is why it's still affordable.
+ WilliamM Posted August 11, 2018 Posted August 11, 2018 Don't be ridiculous. #1... I said "much of it" ...not ALL of it ...and.. #2 you're just being argumentative for the sake of it if you can't see what a shit hole much of Philly is. It's been a shit hole since the 70s. Slower to return than most big cities...which is why it's still affordable. when is the last you were actually in Center City Philadelphia?
pubic_assistance Posted August 11, 2018 Posted August 11, 2018 when is the last you were actually in Center City Philadelphia? A week ago. But I live in NYC so Philly is still behind the curve in it's Renaissance compared to other cities.
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