Fcfs

My best and only available time is after my second gin and tonic and before dinner.

Are we reading gay fiction here?

It goes far beyond accepting a drink. Meeting people is extremely dangerous. Poison you with a drink is just one of many ways to kill you. They can just shoot you, or knife you, or strangle you, or burn you alive. We read about these horrible things in the news and see them in Netflix. Staying locked in in total isolation is the only sane thing to do.

I am out for a drink with my partner and I see across the bar a young actor I meet regularly having a drink with a friend. Eye contact, grin, join us, ended up having a nice evening all four of us. We all knew, said nothing. Very civilised. 😆

Why are you posting links that require creating a profile & signing in? No one has time for that!

I like Grindr. It has the usual spam and scam, but also hot young guys who want to make some money without advertising as escorts.

I like Grindr. It has the usual spam and scam, but also hot young guys who want to make some money without advertising as escorts.

Geez, everything in Portland looks like a pass. The only one I had my eye on was Gianni Luka. But if you are into grungy types, its definitely an endless bounty.

I'll usually accept a drink from the escort, especially if we're drinking together or it's a repeat visit.
Once an escort asked me to pick up some flavored vodka on the way to his hotel, and we drank some of it together.
Come to think of it, I've never said no to a drink.

Italy is rather quiet. Don't expect brothels or escort bars. You may want to check Hunqz for escorts but not expect much. Just walk around and maybe you ll meet some nice Italian. 
And if you have time try the Amalfi coast during summer, or Florence. Florence is one of the most beautiful places I've been and there is so much to see. Also Milan during the men fashion weeks if you like models. 😀
 

Italy is rather quiet. Don't expect brothels or escort bars. You may want to check Hunqz for escorts but not expect much. Just walk around and maybe you ll meet some nice Italian. 
And if you have time try the Amalfi coast during summer, or Florence. Florence is one of the most beautiful places I've been and there is so much to see. Also Milan during the men fashion weeks if you like models. 😀
 

Scammers and pic collectors make up too large a percentage of the users.  Go with your gut.  
A couple hints.  Since users are not required to use the distance indicator, if they tap you, mark their profile as a favorite.  Your favorites are sorted by distance, so you’ll get an idea whether they’re local.  You can always remove them from favorites.  If they send a message and your profile wasn’t in their “nearby” tab, the message will appear with “Sent from Explore” under it.  If they don’t have the distance indicator set, add it to favorites and see where it falls.  The guy may be outside of the “nearby” range but still local.  
I had a really cute, young guy message me last week.  I have my age in my profile, so he knew how old I was.  I engaged with him for a few texts just to test him and then commented that usually the young guys who message someone my age are scammers.  The chat and his profile suddenly disappeared.  
I’m not a no pic/no chat guy.  I understand some guys have legitimate reasons for not posting one, but I always get a kick out of the guys with no pic or profile information and their first message is “pic?” Or better yet, “need my dick sucked.”  I usually reply “yes, your completely blank profile has me so turned on.”

Any experience with Ken in Copenhagen ?

We met in Mykonos. Looks like his pics and he is lots of fun.

Y’all paranoid.