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And that is why you aren't or weren't an escort. If you choose to do it you know that you will have to handle these situations, otherwise find a different job.

No, he was traveling in the North East, came to my town. Said he had been based in NYC but travels along the East Coast.
He did show me the goods on a private message 😮 - No cause of concern AT ALL down there. He's probably a bit shy given that he is skinny rather than muscular, but I loved that. He's super friendly.  

Yep. He said his name is Eran or Eren. Originally from Turkey 😍

My favorite is Fabio 
https://rentmen.eu/FabioBrazilian 

I would most certainly go. 

I would most certainly go. 

If our favorite pasttime was decriminalized and male brothels became the norm, would any of you go?  I ask because I've always loved the idea of male brothel where I can have my pick like smorgasbord! 

Yep, I can relate to this. While I am not looking for love in these encounters, sometimes you find a provider that make you FEEL desired. Even when it is just 'make believe' in the end, it makes the experience amazing and you keep wanting to hire again. As other have said, a lot of it boils down to the professionalism of a "true" escort who puts the client at the center and works to please them, making sure they are getting a good experience and leave with a smile in their faces. That's an art and skill not everyone on RM has, unfortunately, even for the same price range. Last year I passed through several meh experiences one after the other that made me question whether I was just wasting money finding a needle in a haystack. 
I am lucky enough to have found two such providers and even when they are far from me geographically, I try to hire them when they come my way or I happen to be in their town. I always feel great afterwards and the smile doesn't lie  
 

Yep, I can relate to this. While I am not looking for love in these encounters, sometimes you find a provider that make you FEEL desired. Even when it is just 'make believe' in the end, it makes the experience amazing and you keep wanting to hire again. As other have said, a lot of it boils down to the professionalism of a "true" escort who puts the client at the center and works to please them, making sure they are getting a good experience and leave with a smile in their faces. That's an art and skill not everyone on RM has, unfortunately, even for the same price range. Last year I passed through several meh experiences one after the other that made me question whether I was just wasting money finding a needle in a haystack. 
I am lucky enough to have found two such providers and even when they are far from me geographically, I try to hire them when they come my way or I happen to be in their town. I always feel great afterwards and the smile doesn't lie  
 

Thank you so much for so many comments.
 
I gave another try with the same provider and this time it was very hot. Thank you so much for your advices.
Maybe the biggest difference might be that at the first occasion we could not open the wine I brought because there was no opener, second time I brought a sparkling one, so no opener was necessary??? 

Let's just say there are a lot of frogs out there and not so many princes. Also the princes don't sign up for this line of work as much the frogs do. And a lot of the frogs look like princes! Hang in there and when you do, treat him like what he is, a prince. 

He's coming yet again to NYC soon and I am forever tempted to hire him... 
Not sure I could handle that size though 😮

gee, I thought this was going to be about planning your funeral and your will.....
 

Escorting in and of itself isn't traumatic.  Experiences encountered while escorting are what can be traumatic.  At least for me the traumatic experiences have come from overly aggressive and pushy clients typically.  My most traumatic experience though was when I first started escorting.  The client wanted me to bareback which I wasn't comfortable doing.  We were having some drinks and I blacked out.  He ended up barebacking me when I was blacked out.  I learned from that experience.

Calvin Klein Co.were the first to acknowledge that clothing was primarily bought by women and gay men.   So started using unclad male models in their ads. Sometimes not even showing the clothing ...just a super hot dude. It worked beautifully. 

Ah, chemistry.
How I wish I could bond as easily as an Alkali Metal, but alas, my lack of romantic history places me firmly within the category of Noble Gases.

Like this?

If you are debating whether or not to spend 10 bucks a month for premium status on Rentmen, then you obviously can’t afford to hire any of the guys on there either. Unless you are just there to look at pictures. 

Are you talking about this as a provider or client?
As a client I like to upgrade my account when I'm actively hiring so I can see all the provider's pics and videos. And also so I can leave a review then. Otherwise I'm fine with just leaving my account in the basic free status.

Update: I negotiated a lower price (300, which is the standard imo) and he sent me some other pics via text. I decided to take the plunge, as I love tall skinny guys.  Pleasantly surprised! Definitely will hire him again when he comes back to my town. 

No, he was traveling in the North East, came to my town. Said he had been based in NYC but travels along the East Coast.
He did show me the goods on a private message 😮 - No cause of concern AT ALL down there. He's probably a bit shy given that he is skinny rather than muscular, but I loved that. He's super friendly.  

Glad you had a good experience. I was going to hire http://rent.men/Brady_g, who’s even more green.  I’m intrigued, and he was polite and articulate in his response to my inquiry, but he also quoted a $400 hourly rate, which is well above the $300 pre-pandemic norm in NYC, as well as the $350 rate that seems to be emerging as we ease into the 4th year.  
 
I’ve paid that much only once and that was for a really well known escort with stellar reviews on RM and from many members of this forum, and I had a great time.  So I’m not absolutely opposed to paying what feels, to me, like a premium rate, for someone who’s established and proven.  But for such a new provider, with no reviews, I found that to be too much.  (Did I mention that he’s only been on rentmen for 3 days?)  I politely told Brady that his rate was beyond what I’m accustomed to, and I wished him well.  

I’m not usually one for negotiating, particularly in this field, but I guess this is how the free market works, right?  The rate gets set by what consumers (in the aggregate) are willing to pay, and it remains to be seen if the standard NYC rate will rise now to $400/hour and whether just any provider can command it or only established ones.

Roughly once a month, although in the last few months it has climbed to two a month. 
I live in a smallish town, so not that many available. When I am in NYC I let myself go a bit on the wild side
I am also having Grindr hookups, but imo there's something alluring about the transactional nature of an escort experience. Makes it somehow more exciting. 

Roughly once a month, although in the last few months it has climbed to two a month. 
I live in a smallish town, so not that many available. When I am in NYC I let myself go a bit on the wild side
I am also having Grindr hookups, but imo there's something alluring about the transactional nature of an escort experience. Makes it somehow more exciting.