Yukon21

Welcome to the site and for posting immediately. Though this is not very helpful without a name or link. 

One of my favorites with all the answers to those requests, and he kisses like a king.
 
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I told a provider I was on my way to his place and he replied, “I'm a bit behind schedule with another client. I’m trying to speed up.”  He told me to give him 20 more minutes.
I should just have canceled.  He couldn’t get it up no matter how hard he tried.
 

If they happen to say that they are running late with another client, that’s an automatic cancel.
Any delay for any reason with someone I’ve never seen before is also an automatic cancel.
An escort I’ve already got a track record of on time performance- if they are running late I can normally forgive up to an hour 

Is it reasonable for escorts to expect clients be flexible with appointment times if the escort has a last minute issue?  I've had a few reach out prior to the appointment and ask for an extra hour.  Glad to accommodate if I can.  If I can't, I cancel.  If I get to an appointment and I am asked to wait in the lobby or my car, I wait 15 minutes and then I am done.

Weird I've been seeing a lot more ads lately, a lot of newcomers. In my area - no idea about the other markets.

I've had 3 guys ask for their donation at the beginning of a meeting; and, I gave it to all three, since it would not be the end of the world for me if I wasn't satisfied.
Two were less experienced guys, who I think were genuinely nervous about being ripped off. They did everything agreed to and were a enjoyable enough experience, but not repeats, probably because of their inexperience. The third was more experienced, had a "My Own Private Idaho" suburbs-gone-street-trade vibe, did everything we agreed and more... had a great time with him and would think about a repeat if I was in the same city.
In all three cases, I felt that the request came from their sense of vulnerability in the situation and not from a desire or plan to rip me off.
I get it. When I was their age and working as a provider, I was ripped off by one client: at the end of the session he informed me he didn't have cash and proceeded to write me a check from a closed bank account. Fortunately for me, it was a low effort encounter and I just wrote it off as bad experience. 🤷‍♂️

I prefer clarity. If the time agreed is 1:30 then if it’s an outcall I aim to be there at 1:30. I’ll check the location and for example if I’m visiting his hotel then I’ll get there early and I can sit in the lounge until the time. If the client is coming to me and we agree a 1:30 start time then I’m ready and waiting at 1:30. It’s really simple. The time agreed is the time to be there. If you’re unavoidably late then communicate it. 
 

I am selective about when I log in. I review potential profiles AND THEN I log in to re-examine or contact providers that I may have interest in.

I'm the same way. I do all my browsing while logged out. I only log in if I want to send a message to a provider, communicate with another client, or leave a review.

Met him yesterday in Detroit area.  Agree with comments above.  Very sexy, big hard dick and very focused during our meeting.  

I would be most surprised if that were the case. Eleven inches is somewhat more likely.

Hot pics .. 11niches would be nice but the last Max I hired that said 11 inches was more like 9.. still big and impressive but not 11 inches so I’d be curious if this guy is actually 11.
 
hot guy none the less 

will be curious to see if he changes his handle again in the next few minutes like he apparently did an hour or so ago when his previous handle was announced here......

More like Latin_dud.  Met him today in Detroit.  Agreed to BFE with normal activity in advance for $300 per hour for 2 hours ($600 total).  Required his money when I walked in the door.  My mistake when I gave it to him.  He finished on my chest in 35 mins not doing much from what he agreed to and suggested I shower to clean up.  I did.  When I returned he was fully clothed.  I asked him if he was still going to charge me for 2 hours since I've been here now 45 minutes.  He said if I wanted I could wait there.  Not looking for a confrontation I left.   His pics are outdated and he hasnt visited the gym in a long, long time.  I should have known better since most of his reviews are old and there wasnt much on this site about him. If I havent linked his profile correctly I apologize. 
 https://rent.men/Latin_stud

More like Latin_dud.  Met him today in Detroit.  Agreed to BFE with normal activity in advance for $300 per hour for 2 hours ($600 total).  Required his money when I walked in the door.  My mistake when I gave it to him.  He finished on my chest in 35 mins not doing much from what he agreed to and suggested I shower to clean up.  I did.  When I returned he was fully clothed.  I asked him if he was still going to charge me for 2 hours since I've been here now 45 minutes.  He said if I wanted I could wait there.  Not looking for a confrontation I left.   His pics are outdated and he hasnt visited the gym in a long, long time.  I should have known better since most of his reviews are old and there wasnt much on this site about him. If I havent linked his profile correctly I apologize. 
 https://rent.men/Latin_stud

Agree with the other most recent comments.  Avoid.  There are lots of better choices.

Ive showered with several over the past few years. Some on the suggestion of the escort, others mine.  Depending on the connection between the parties it can be an added plus to the experience. 

I find that showering together before or after the session is often a possibility once you become more of a regular with providers who already offer showers to their clients. Usually after 2 or 3 appointments I can get them to shower with me and various levels of play ensues depending on the provider. More often than not, they are glad to rinse off too. Happens less if you are already out of time on the appointment, which is a reason I tip well and sometimes book a 60 min massage but pay for 90 to accommodate the shower, so the time element becomes less of a factor. 

A true BFE means you are lovers or acting like lovers, and the experience should be close to what you’d imagine with a true BF or lover. For this to happen requires either chemistry between the provider and yourself, or a great provider who can make it happen. 
 
Some providers are simply not good at it, and it feels like they are going thru the motions.
 
You will not know the outcome unless you try it out with someone. When you find that perfect BFE, then that’s your LT arrangement. Enjoy while it lasts. 

now @FunGuyUS......you KNOW the rules.......three bumps and you have to go ahead and meet him yourself........we've gone over this before!  😀

He is real.  His pics were accurate when I met him two years ago.  Hes a get to business, not a lot of talk guy.  Sex was good.  No kissing or oral.  He returned to my area a few months ago but I didnt see him.  That would probably tell you what you need to know. 

I consider myself a regular to a provider who visits my city regularly.  He’d contact me before each visit so he can reserve the time slot that works best for me. There were times when he even arranged his trips and schedule to fit mine.

A regular is someone who knows me personally, who I know personally, knows exactly what I'm into, and someone with whom I have mutual respect.
It's someone that I can text, ask if they're available at x o'clock, and schedule with no fuss.
I'd say I hire a regular at least 4 times a year, while others I hire 10+ times a year. When you have several regulars, you can't see them every month, especially when they travel.

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session.