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    Client1985 got a reaction from Wanderoz in Comradegarcon in NYC...any insights?   
    Looks like a top.
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    Client1985 got a reaction from Asterisk in Comradegarcon in NYC...any insights?   
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    Client1985 got a reaction from InChiTown in "Discuss amongst yourselves"   
    Certainly an apology/acknowledgement. An offer to reschedule which you should graciously decline. 
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    Client1985 got a reaction from TorontoDrew in "Discuss amongst yourselves"   
    Certainly an apology/acknowledgement. An offer to reschedule which you should graciously decline. 
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    Client1985 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in "Discuss amongst yourselves"   
    Certainly an apology/acknowledgement. An offer to reschedule which you should graciously decline. 
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    Client1985 got a reaction from + nycman in Comradegarcon in NYC...any insights?   
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    Client1985 reacted to Kevin Slater in Things I wish I had known…   
    You might also want to put a link to your ad in your signature here (see my posts as an example).    Click on your name in the upper right > Profile > Account settings > Signature.
    Kevin Slater
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    Client1985 reacted to Kevin Slater in Things I wish I had known…   
    I've posted this before:
    Buy a sling.  Not every client has to use it, but some will love it, and book you because of it. Rubber sheets are a provider's friend. Install a shower douche.  Again, some clients will book you simply because you provide that. Learn at least a few basic massage techniques. You can save a ton of money by buying the gallon jug o' lube and decanting into smaller bottles. Offer them a damn shower afterwards.  Duh. Don't bother with blocked phone calls. Seriously. He's a time waster. Same for texts that come through from an email address.
      Hear a voice on the phone before heading over or giving your address. Subsequent booking can be made via text.
      It's not a bad idea to call the hotel and get patched through to the room before heading over, especially if something strikes you as 'off'. The likelihood of a future booking actually happening is inversely proportional to the number of texts, calls and emails beforehand.
      Keep note of the numbers that flake on you, for they'll do it again in six months. And that same guy has done it to me, and every other escort. Be leery of drunk. They often pass out before you get there, or after.
      He may be having a great time and want to extend the session. Mazel tov. But he may be thinking with his little head and not have the funds. Settle up occasionally.
      Every client starts as a first timer. But first timers also often lose their nerve, and you lose your time and effort. Don't front the money for a first time session (hotel, travel, etc.) and rarely for repeat sessions.
      Don't drive two hours without a deposit (e.g. Venmo or Amazon e-gift card). Key words that indicate this is going nowhere: Engineer, Nigeria, "your city".
      Don't discount your first session because he's going to see you weekly. Future sessions may be negotiable, initial bookings are always full fare. Make some friends in the biz. They've seen it all before and can offer guidance.
      Trust your gut. A few bucks isn't worth your health, safety, or freedom. Most guys you'll meet will be wonderful and pleasant. Some will be odd ducks, and even that can be fun or at least entertaining. A few are bad eggs, but those guys are extremely prolific in wasting your time.
    Kevin Slater
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    Client1985 got a reaction from + Pensant in Mr Vietnam 2020   
    Anyone had the pleasure meeting this handsome guy? 
     
    https://rentmen.eu/Nathanpmiami/#rmotd
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    Client1985 got a reaction from JUWS in Gunbigs in NYC   
    Had a session last year. I recommend. 
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    Client1985 got a reaction from MmM in Spas in NYC   
    Mid 20's
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    Client1985 got a reaction from Njguy2 in Opinion please   
    How woukd Judge Judy rule? 
    He owes you a refund for services paid for but not provided. 
    Reach out to him and discuss with him how you were disappointed with the hire. 
    If he has an attitude; forget him, leave a negative yelp review, and put him on blast on the forum as a buyer beware..... 
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    Client1985 got a reaction from Todd Jenkins in Opinion please   
    Rentboy had a choice of reducing his cost for services not render or provide the service. 
    I agree it's a business transaction.  When you start to look at it differently someone will end up getting fucked and not in the fun way.... 
     
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    Client1985 got a reaction from Medin in Opinion please   
    How woukd Judge Judy rule? 
    He owes you a refund for services paid for but not provided. 
    Reach out to him and discuss with him how you were disappointed with the hire. 
    If he has an attitude; forget him, leave a negative yelp review, and put him on blast on the forum as a buyer beware..... 
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    Client1985 got a reaction from Todd Jenkins in Opinion please   
    How woukd Judge Judy rule? 
    He owes you a refund for services paid for but not provided. 
    Reach out to him and discuss with him how you were disappointed with the hire. 
    If he has an attitude; forget him, leave a negative yelp review, and put him on blast on the forum as a buyer beware..... 
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    Client1985 reacted to Todd Jenkins in Opinion please   
    We ALL know that legally 'escorts are paid for their time" yes. But we ALL KNOW what escorts are REALLY paid for - and THEY KNOW IT, TOO. So, this one poster who was like 'well, he spent time with you even though he was sick'....girl, bye. 
    Text him and say you want to have a chat about a future trip. Have him call you and then gently say something like "hey. While we're on the topic of future trips, can we talk about the last trip? I KNOW you got sick and that is 100% not your fault, nor mine and of course it was something that could not be avoided. But, I don't feel like I completely got my money's worth in the time shared. I don't want to insult or offend you. But, Is there something we could about that? How do you feel?"

    His response will tell you EVERYTHING you need to know. 
    I had a regular escort one time that was coming through town. He wanted to see if he could 'crash' at my place and he would give me a very discounted rate for an overnight. 
    He arrived. I phucked him. Then, I took him to a wonderful dinner and one of his favorite country artists just happen to be in town that night. Because I work in entertainment, I had the chance to get backstage passes and take him to the show as a guest of the performer. 
    To say he was thrilled to go to the show and hang with the artist is an understatement. We got back to my house and the sex was INCREDIBLE! He was on a HIGH from the night. 
    This guy is supposedly Mr. Bi/Straight man. The next morning he did not feel 'in the mood' ... I said the following: "hey listen, I get that. I do. But, we are in more of a business relationship than a friend/lover/hookup thing. This isn't a hookup, you aren't my boyfriend. I gave you an amazing night and allowed you to spend the night with me in my bed based on the notion that I would receive sex this morning. So, you can either just charge me half of what you were going to charge or you can go get in the shower and prepare."
    He said "you're right. I'm on the job. Headed to the shower, Sir."
    We had a fun time and he left. 
     
    BOTTOM LINE: He was on the job and he could not perform. He should return at least 50-75% of the money paid.
     
     
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    Client1985 reacted to + EVdude in Spas in NYC   
    Reasonably tall, 5’9ish, medium built, Asian. Grade A thera-sensual technique. Incredible scalp massage that almost put me to sleep. Super nice guy.
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    Client1985 reacted to MmM in Alvin @TSMS NYC very dissapopinted.   
    These guys get $20 out of the $60 the spa charges. I would say 60 would be the bare minimum for a decent massage, and more if they deserve it based on services provided.
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    Client1985 got a reaction from + glutes in Monkey Pox & Massages   
    Note to self... avoid circuit parties... 
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    Client1985 got a reaction from Spiritualadvisor in Rafabrazilian - 100% Tip   
    Absolutely agree! 
    I've scaled back on a few tips because they were lackluster. I've tipped generously when the massuer did an amazing job. Usually the next appointment is even better. I usually enjoy the following appointment because the transitions are natural and the massuer knows what I enjoy. 
     
     
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    Client1985 reacted to harlow in Amazing Thai Massage in LA!!   
    Met him yesterday and WOW....what and amazing time.  Get with him while you can before he heads back to Thailand!
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    Client1985 got a reaction from Tactile Daddy in Masseurs contacting me   
    I'm sure it's because they're into you. Pick your favorite and have a ball or two!!!
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    Client1985 got a reaction from yowhatsup in 411 on MeltInMyHands NYC (Michael)   
    I also had a few sessions with him years ago. He was in Long Island City.  Decent massage, nice guy.  Different name back then, don't remember. 
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    Client1985 got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Monkey Pox & Massages   
    Note to self... avoid circuit parties... 
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    Client1985 got a reaction from ontheroad in Monkey Pox & Massages   
    Note to self... avoid circuit parties... 
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