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He bottoms in the video clip that's available on RM with a premium membership (which I bought for a month to leave another provider a review).

We started off with a weekend together which was pretty great. We live in different cities, so we have spent one weekend every six weeks together ever since and we speak several times a day. The more I learned about him, the more I liked. He doesn't drink or do drugs, which makes me feel safe. He's extremely emotionally intelligent. He's smart and ambitious and finances were holding him back - he was doing sex work part-time as he was working.  He's super-kind and, most of all, honest and authentic. After 2 years, I've never heard him say something he didn't mean. It also made a difference when I learned about his past relationship history, and that his most serious relationships had been with older men - "daddy" is his type. Made me feel like our 20year age difference was okay. I've helped him financially to finish school and get closer to his dreams - always impressed by his hard work - after about nine months of seeing each other sporadically, we made a mutual decision that he didn't need to escort anymore. He also does an incredible job of taking care of me - he's very organized and he's helped me organize/manage many details of my life, as well as helping me take care of myself as I've gone through a tough divorce. I had a medical issue once, and he was absolutely incredible. He loves taking care of people, which I've never really experienced in a partner before. He's also very confident and talented sexually - I've always dreamed of having a Dom - and he loves playing that role for me. He's taught me so much about my own sexuality, and loves being my mentor in that regard. In other ways, he enjoys that I represent emotional and financial stability, emotional maturity, depth and  commitment.  We laugh about our "Pretty Woman" story but honestly I feel incredibly lucky, as does he. 

The Grammar Police note that he flunks the discrete/discreet usage exam.   🙂

Not very original myself: I love my regulars, but I do “cheat” on them often enough by sampling other treats who then might become part of my pool of regulars themselves. Variety spices consistency. 

I’m more suspicious of the word Newark. 

My buddy in the business let it lapse for a few days after the month expires and he still gets your messages.  So the RentMen fee escorts pay gets stretched out a bit.  A way for the guys to save a little money. 

My buddy in the business let it lapse for a few days after the month expires and he still gets your messages.  So the RentMen fee escorts pay gets stretched out a bit.  A way for the guys to save a little money. 

I'm semi-retired, and my regular monthly expenses are mostly covered by Social Security and drawing down my retirement nestegg. So the money I am earning from work mostly goes to vacations and hiring. In 2025, I had 3 vacations (2 European, 1 domestic) and spent about $14,000 on guys. I consider myself lucky to have found a great regular masseur, with plenty of mutually enjoyed benefits, so I spend about half of that on him, and the rest on other masseurs and a few full-service escorts.  

@BOZO T CLOWN: "He has only one photo on his RM ad. And in that photo, his back is to the camera, he is wearing a jacket, and no face is shown."
On the rentmen.eu platform, there are 11 photos, not just 1. True that no face is shown (or feet) but overall one does get to see every inch of his very attractive torso. 

I'm semi-retired, and my regular monthly expenses are mostly covered by Social Security and drawing down my retirement nestegg. So the money I am earning from work mostly goes to vacations and hiring. In 2025, I had 3 vacations (2 European, 1 domestic) and spent about $14,000 on guys. I consider myself lucky to have found a great regular masseur, with plenty of mutually enjoyed benefits, so I spend about half of that on him, and the rest on other masseurs and a few full-service escorts.  

I live in NYC and hire mostly guys offering sensual/erotic massages.  There is a core group of 3 guys whom I hire repeatedly.  I am very happy with them.  It is rare for me to hire someone who is escort only.  I pay on average $300 per incall session and hire 3-4 times per month.  Per year that amounts to $12-15k.

I'm semi-retired, and my regular monthly expenses are mostly covered by Social Security and drawing down my retirement nestegg. So the money I am earning from work mostly goes to vacations and hiring. In 2025, I had 3 vacations (2 European, 1 domestic) and spent about $14,000 on guys. I consider myself lucky to have found a great regular masseur, with plenty of mutually enjoyed benefits, so I spend about half of that on him, and the rest on other masseurs and a few full-service escorts.  

I agree100% of course we all look at an ad because of a photo, but I can pretty much tell with the text and photos if a guy would be a good match for me.
Yes: texts showing personality, finding a comfort level and being somewhat interesting. Literacy.
Photos smiling and showing their face and torso. I don't even need dick shots.
Interview answers about their other interests.
No: telling me how great they are and unforgettable it will be.
Looking for generous men.
10 dick shots or bent over shots. I don't want a dick. I want a real person who happens to have one. An asshole is not going to tell me how much I will enjoy spending time with you. 
Auto responses to specific questions with no follow up.

Fate has ways of having me spend money on this.  Just today, I was wondering about a visiting escort who I have seen twice and decided to look him up.  He has not been on Rentmen since the new year and so I dropped him a text asking if he had retired and if not to contact me the next time he was in Palm Springs.  Half hour later, I get a response that he is in fact in Palm Springs until tomorrow and has some time if I am interested.  Well I have plans with someone for tomorrow and I am not as young as I once was and I have been feeling ill, so naturally, I said sure I'll meet you tonight.  I am just about to get into the showere for that meeting and going to tha bank in the AM to get the cash for tomorrow's scheduled interlude.  

8400, counting a couple of massages that were purely therapeutic.

Previous name was Jack Benny

I have not licensed my picture for public use.  Cease and desist!  🤣🤣😅

Just scroll up and/or look at pp. 1-172 of this chain. There are plenty of links to massage videos that include more than just massage. 

Had a great 4 hand with him and Pasha for my birthday!  

By all means, go for it!

By all means, go for it!

My bad.  I forgot that I splurged this month on a premium membership, so that I could leave a review for a good friend (who's a part-time escort). 

By all means, go for it!

I would say, try to mindful of your emotions. Don’t just ignore them but understand what you are feeling and why. Remember why you are hiring someone and that this is their job. 
If you realize that you are catching feelings, acknowledge it, and take a step back or even distance yourself for some time. If you prefer, try to share it with the provider so you don’t lose the connection either way.
If there are feelings from both sides, then great. Take it from there. 

Wow! Wow! Wow! Bravo! Had to slip my pants down to finish reading this. 
I see an income opportunity for you organizing once in a lifetime trips to Madrid.