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Holy smokes that's insane. At the point, I rather not even meet the person. 

Followed @Topform's suggested to that website. Not only is he Dante, he's also Ethan!

In his ad - He has his style indicated as "otter" yet his single photo shows a hairless torso. Someone needs to buy him a gay dictionary 😆

A little bit of perspective here. While each dating / hookup app has its own dynamic, something to keep in mind is that you may not be someone’s number one pick, but that doesn’t mean you are their last pick either. Men looking around for partners on apps and websites (especially hookup oriented ones) have limited time and attention to give to their prospects.
The guy you eye wants to make a connection on a timeline that fits within his schedule, with someone who he has a reasonably high level of confidence that he will enjoy spending time with. He can’t entertain everyone all the time. That doesn’t necessarily equate to he “wouldn’t give you a second glance”. You might be #8 on his list, but he is already juggling conversations with picks #1, 2, 3, and 4, and he can’t even meet all of those guys, much less #99, or even #8 for that matter.
Do I know if you are #8 on anyone’s list? No, but a self defeating attitude will attract less success than a confident and mature one.
This is one of the best lessons some of my clients take from hiring me. I’m thinking of one in particular who has really come out of his shell the past couple of years. It’s not all due to me, but I know I gave him a boost that really helped him in his dating and sex life. He now regularly dates lots of men younger (his preference) and more conventionally attractive than himself. He has to turn many of them away because his schedule is full. Before, he was the guy that would say something similar to, “he won’t give me a second glance”. Now he approaches apps completely differently and attracts the men he likes to see. 
I’m glad he still sees me on a somewhat regular basis, but he does so for different reasons now. Mostly convenience, but lots of other good reasons to hire a provider like exploring niche interests, zero complications, no attachments, reliability, and consistency. Recently he has been practicing his topping game with me so he can top his dates with more skill and confidence, rather than always defaulting to his main preference as a bottom. Among other reasons.
It’s not all about the way you look. And even so, my clients have lots of attractive qualities that they don’t believe about themselves. I hesitate to shower compliments or comment on their appearance in particular because it gives them the false impression that I am either being disingenuous, or only treating them well because I have some personal physical attraction. I don’t want them to get the wrong idea, either way.
Some of them are more attractive to me, for sure, but that’s not why I see them or treat them well. It’s business and they are good clients. I wouldn’t hook up with them on an app, attractive though they may be. Number one because they are clients, but even if they weren’t, I wouldn’t hook up with a lot of them for other reasons, many of which have nothing to do with their appearance.
I encourage clients here to use your hiring to boost your self confidence and self esteem. It’s not all lies. Many of you are lovely people, inside and out. A good provider has your best long term interests at heart. I do. Even when that means the client doesn’t hire me anymore, because he has a more active and fruitful personal dating life. Sometimes it’s fulfilling working myself out of a job.

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I think you’re thinking way too much about it. Enjoy the moment.
As been mentioned… yes, this is work, but sometimes people enjoy their work. Sometimes a masseur or provider will work with a client and find something about them attractive (or totally attractive) that turns them on. It might be a physical quality or it might be a personality trait.
I’m by no means an Adonis, but I know I have features, qualities, and a demeanor some masseurs/providers enjoy. I know that not everyone is into the Adonis type even though they be Adonises themselves. This has been my experience judging by some of these men’s personal porn, talking with them over time, and some of the things they’ve done at no additional cost (or free even) with me.
So again enjoy the moment… enjoy any unexpected perks that may come your way.

Graciously accept the compliment, don't overthink it.

This probably has more to do with me being insecure but I’ve had several escorts compliment me (say I’m handsome, have a big dick, great kisser etc.) but I have a hard time believing them for some reason. Their delivery seems genuine but that voice in the back of my head can’t help but nag me about it. 
 
I am asking cause the other day I met with a masseur** who was amazing but we ended up fucking and it was amazing. He kept showering me with compliments and saying he never does x or y but couldn’t help himself with me. It made me feel so good lol. He didn’t try to increase the price either and he likely won’t be back to my city any time soon (I asked).
 
I just hate where my mind went with it. I’m probably overthinking it but I guess I was wondering if it was possible for them to derive pleasure from us interacting with a client despite it being a business arrangement.

In a DM exchange on the RentMen site, he referred to my ass as a pussy ... a total turn=off for me, although others may like it. I didn't pursue.

In a DM exchange on the RentMen site, he referred to my ass as a pussy ... a total turn=off for me, although others may like it. I didn't pursue.

It has been showing up this way since he created his ad. At first I thought he was a traveling masseur. But I think he doesn't realize there is a setting switched on in his profile.

His RentMasseur ad currently has a weird travel schedule.  He's based in NYC, but he'll be visiting there for 1 day in mid-December ... and then visiting Jersey City (right across the Hudson River) for 1 day the following week.  Odd!

I have had many very nice massages from this guy:
https://rentmasseur.com/massagemanforman
 

Can I see your picture?

I've also seen him multiple times. Agree with @KensingtonHomo
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I've also seen him multiple times. Agree with @KensingtonHomo
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I've just had a bad experience, although without meeting K_Ferrer.
He's been eager to work with my regular masseur whenever he was in NYC on other visits. So on Monday of this week, I set up a 4-hands massage with my regular and K_Ferrer at my place for Thursday at 7.  Thursday morning in a group text message he confirmed. My regular arrived a few minutes early and we sat and chatted--we're friends, and there's always stuff to catch up; and given public transportation, etc., it's common in NYC for people to run 10-15 minutes late. 
At 7:20 we each starting texting him whether he was nearby, me on the group text and my regular on the private texting they'd been doing. No response. Finally, at 7:40 my regular and I started a 2-hands massage.  (Which was fine, but still not what had been expected.)
Neither of us got an apology or explanation the next day. 

He's a great sensual masseur.

This year I had one of the most sensual massages I’ve ever experienced, and the masseur wasn’t even naked. He was so caring, his energy perfectly in tune, and the way he touched me felt more like gentle caressing at times. I could feel genuine care and devotion in every movement.
He worked wearing only his underwear, and his touch covered every part of my body. With each breath, he softly blew warm air over my skin. Every single muscle was attended to, with special attention to the glutes and inner thighs. He even touched around my balls and dick intimate, but still within the flow of the session.
I was leaking precum, but there was no happy ending. Honestly, I think one might have cheapened the experience. It was powerful just as it was. He’s clearly trained in multiple modalities and blends techniques beautifully.
After a few visits, he did end up nude once, by chance, but I respected his boundaries. And, I’ve got to say… the man was packing. I’m not even sure if he’s straight or gay. 
Now I understand that a truly sensual massage is about connection, the energy, the flow, and the way the masseur genuinely cares for you and your body. It’s a world apart from the routine rub-and-tugs that have become so common these days.
I just wanted to share this experience, but I’d like to keep the masseur’s identity private.

Also, if any of you who aren't providers might wanna come hang out too, it could be more of a CoM mixer.

Back when I was doing muay-thai kickboxing, ( pre-Covid) I was seriously in need of REAL therapeutic massage. So finding a skilled professional for me was never "sad". But finding one who's handsome, muscular and masculine but ONLY offers therapy, would, indeed be mighty frustrating.

Other than the orgasms themselves, I like nothing more than to lie back, wrapped in the arms of the young stud who's just spent themselves on (or in) me, cum drying wherever it may, just chatting, laughing and enjoying the raw, naked intimacy of it all.  Very often it's all I need to get hard again and I'm lucky enough to have enough energy (and jizz) for him to slowly jerk me off again as he kisses me deeply and I blow a second load. 
Cum (for me) - both mine & his - is definitely the main attraction but, seeing what happens afterwards when we're both covered in our respective loads is always a massive turn on and a bit of a exciting unknown.
If a provider either doesn't cum at all or shoots & leaves....we're unlikely to be a good match. 

I took the plunge. He is easy to communicate with and looks like his pictures, but the good stops there. The massage was a 4/10 at best and very mechanical. He is very stand-offish, disconnected, probably said 5 words the entire time he was there other than about hello and goodbye and seemed rushed. So don’t waste your money, too many other choices in NYC to get treated with respect.

This is a brilliant rhetorical example of damning via faint praise!
Bravo for the turn of phrase!  LOL