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I put the massage fee in one pocket and the tip money in another pocket so for a "just okay" experience, the tip money doesn't see the light of day. 

My top 2025 recommendation goes to a duo I met during my trip to NYC! Nico and Gael! They’re the kind of handsome you see on the street and think WOW!  the kind you fantasize about, not the over-produced, overly-polished type that’s everywhere on the site. They had amazing chemistry, super smart, incredibly kind, and that natural “next door” vibe that I personally loveee! It honestly didn’t feel like I was with escorts at all (I know, sounds silly lol) total gem of a find!!  they’re visiting me in Honolulu in a couple weeks! Can’t wait to see my boys 🔥🌺 https://rentmen.eu/NicoAndGaell

https://www.boyfriend.tv/videos/1456596/calvin-banks-and-colby-chambers-in-massage-fuck/

The top has experience beyond his years. Top 10 in my book.

This might be the best one yet.  

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RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - Karl_Kelso: Beefy, Tall & Handsome Vers Man Just bringing this new provider to your attention. 
I had a session with him over the weekend. Setting it up was easy. He's handsome in an all-American, guy next door sort of way, and I great conversationalist. I enjoyed myself, and can recommend to others. 

I take many fewer fliers on new people than I did at $120-140. I stick to known quantities. If new guys want to build a business they need to provide a “soft opening” rate to build a business and not start at full (high) prices.
I have 4-5 regulars that I know and trust who charge $180-$200 for excellent service without tip expectations. I see them regularly without any drama or disappointment on either side.  
They appreciate the consistent business and respectful encounters and I appreciate the good and reliable service sans ridiculous cash grabs. We all win over and over and over.  

There are times when I want an escort but I just don’t feel like prepping for anal. It would be a relief sometimes to not have to deal with that

You all can always dm me. Haha. 💪🏾

It would help us make suggestions if we knew what part of the country you're based in. 
 

I have tried him twice. I reviewed him the first time (still his most recent review, from September 2024), where he gave me a discount as an introductory offer.  The review speaks for itself. I had a similar good experience the 2nd time.  For various reasons, I don't think I'll repeat, but he's a good masseur. 

Very reasonable rates, per what he told me via text message after I clicked on his profile. 

So cute! My kind of man.

Exactly this. 👆

I tend to not give many details in a DM, unless it’s someone I already know on the board and have communicated with before. Random DM’s asking me about posts from years ago I routinely ignore. You never know if a provider is going to give the same exact experience to everyone. I’ve had “strict tops” bottom for me when the chemistry is there…I’m not going to tell someone that in a random DM.

I have a provider who cancels when it's "too windy". It messes up his hair I guess?

I actually prefer when the massage therapist undresses with me, or invites me to undress him, or says, "How about we undress each other." I've experienced a few of these creative type guys, who know how to create a sensual mood, and boy were those sessions fun and memorable. Just think, if more of these guys would get creative, think outside the box a bit, how much busier and more successful they could be.

I have got to stop drinking vodka I cannot believe I didn't realize that was my name. LOL

I have just had a really bad experience with Seeking and wish to warn you all.
Seeking steers the "daddies" into very expensive premium memberships. I signed up for a year's premium in March for $290. It gave me unlimited messages (both to contact younger guys, and to answer the select few of the many who reached out to me [see below on that]).  But early this month, I started getting renewal notices, as if I had only paid for 3 months. I wrote to the help line about this, and although a ticket was created, and an answer promised "usually within 24 hours," no answer has been forthcoming; it's now been about 10 days. In the meantime, it seems my premium membership has ended, and with that I have absolutely no ability to message anyone on the site.  
So they have charged me a  year for what turned out to be 3 months of premium membership, and they're not responding to my complaint about it. 
As for the interactions between the younger ones, at least 1/3 appear to be bots or scammers. Another 1/3 or more are highly transactional: they want you to fly them in from another continent to visit, or they want you to send them money before they'll meet you in person, or if they're local, and there seems to be an inkling of possibility of chemistry, they won't meet you in person until you agree to a preset financial contribution.  
There are some nice guys, but you have to spend a lot of time to find them (most of that time is spent weeding out other less obvious transactional ones). I did match up, during my 3 months of membership, with 3 very nice guys, who didn't want anything up front. I met each for a date and no one asked for anything during the date (I picked up the check). And I went on a second date with each of them (again, I paid, but they didn't ask for anything extra). One of these guys said he joined because he wanted to meet quality older men and wasn't expecting any kind of ongoing support.  Unfortunately, 2 of the 3 appear to have lost interest or ghosted me; I'm less interested in the 3rd, so don't know whether there'll be a 3rd date. 
In the meantime, I'm certainly not re-upping my membership. 

Maybe the site is just seeking your money.

Well, that’s unfortunate. While I’m not currently a paid subscriber, I was for over 8 years, month-by-month, and never had any trouble with their billing or support.
If you look a few posts up @56harrisond has posted several topics above that relate to seeking arrangements and their latest name seeking.com. It’s a valid point that it takes more time. I had very good luck on there, at least I did after my first year or two when I started to realize how to better filter through the profiles and messages. I’m still in a relationship right now from someone I met there almost 5 years ago, we see each other and travel 4-6 times a year…it’s not a monthly allowance type arrangement.
Many will be quick to say seeking.com leads to expensive monthly arrangements, I’ve found that’s not necessarily true, and have met many quality guys there. 

I have just had a really bad experience with Seeking and wish to warn you all.
Seeking steers the "daddies" into very expensive premium memberships. I signed up for a year's premium in March for $290. It gave me unlimited messages (both to contact younger guys, and to answer the select few of the many who reached out to me [see below on that]).  But early this month, I started getting renewal notices, as if I had only paid for 3 months. I wrote to the help line about this, and although a ticket was created, and an answer promised "usually within 24 hours," no answer has been forthcoming; it's now been about 10 days. In the meantime, it seems my premium membership has ended, and with that I have absolutely no ability to message anyone on the site.  
So they have charged me a  year for what turned out to be 3 months of premium membership, and they're not responding to my complaint about it. 
As for the interactions between the younger ones, at least 1/3 appear to be bots or scammers. Another 1/3 or more are highly transactional: they want you to fly them in from another continent to visit, or they want you to send them money before they'll meet you in person, or if they're local, and there seems to be an inkling of possibility of chemistry, they won't meet you in person until you agree to a preset financial contribution.  
There are some nice guys, but you have to spend a lot of time to find them (most of that time is spent weeding out other less obvious transactional ones). I did match up, during my 3 months of membership, with 3 very nice guys, who didn't want anything up front. I met each for a date and no one asked for anything during the date (I picked up the check). And I went on a second date with each of them (again, I paid, but they didn't ask for anything extra). One of these guys said he joined because he wanted to meet quality older men and wasn't expecting any kind of ongoing support.  Unfortunately, 2 of the 3 appear to have lost interest or ghosted me; I'm less interested in the 3rd, so don't know whether there'll be a 3rd date. 
In the meantime, I'm certainly not re-upping my membership. 

I have just had a really bad experience with Seeking and wish to warn you all.
Seeking steers the "daddies" into very expensive premium memberships. I signed up for a year's premium in March for $290. It gave me unlimited messages (both to contact younger guys, and to answer the select few of the many who reached out to me [see below on that]).  But early this month, I started getting renewal notices, as if I had only paid for 3 months. I wrote to the help line about this, and although a ticket was created, and an answer promised "usually within 24 hours," no answer has been forthcoming; it's now been about 10 days. In the meantime, it seems my premium membership has ended, and with that I have absolutely no ability to message anyone on the site.  
So they have charged me a  year for what turned out to be 3 months of premium membership, and they're not responding to my complaint about it. 
As for the interactions between the younger ones, at least 1/3 appear to be bots or scammers. Another 1/3 or more are highly transactional: they want you to fly them in from another continent to visit, or they want you to send them money before they'll meet you in person, or if they're local, and there seems to be an inkling of possibility of chemistry, they won't meet you in person until you agree to a preset financial contribution.  
There are some nice guys, but you have to spend a lot of time to find them (most of that time is spent weeding out other less obvious transactional ones). I did match up, during my 3 months of membership, with 3 very nice guys, who didn't want anything up front. I met each for a date and no one asked for anything during the date (I picked up the check). And I went on a second date with each of them (again, I paid, but they didn't ask for anything extra). One of these guys said he joined because he wanted to meet quality older men and wasn't expecting any kind of ongoing support.  Unfortunately, 2 of the 3 appear to have lost interest or ghosted me; I'm less interested in the 3rd, so don't know whether there'll be a 3rd date. 
In the meantime, I'm certainly not re-upping my membership. 

I have just had a really bad experience with Seeking and wish to warn you all.
Seeking steers the "daddies" into very expensive premium memberships. I signed up for a year's premium in March for $290. It gave me unlimited messages (both to contact younger guys, and to answer the select few of the many who reached out to me [see below on that]).  But early this month, I started getting renewal notices, as if I had only paid for 3 months. I wrote to the help line about this, and although a ticket was created, and an answer promised "usually within 24 hours," no answer has been forthcoming; it's now been about 10 days. In the meantime, it seems my premium membership has ended, and with that I have absolutely no ability to message anyone on the site.  
So they have charged me a  year for what turned out to be 3 months of premium membership, and they're not responding to my complaint about it. 
As for the interactions between the younger ones, at least 1/3 appear to be bots or scammers. Another 1/3 or more are highly transactional: they want you to fly them in from another continent to visit, or they want you to send them money before they'll meet you in person, or if they're local, and there seems to be an inkling of possibility of chemistry, they won't meet you in person until you agree to a preset financial contribution.  
There are some nice guys, but you have to spend a lot of time to find them (most of that time is spent weeding out other less obvious transactional ones). I did match up, during my 3 months of membership, with 3 very nice guys, who didn't want anything up front. I met each for a date and no one asked for anything during the date (I picked up the check). And I went on a second date with each of them (again, I paid, but they didn't ask for anything extra). One of these guys said he joined because he wanted to meet quality older men and wasn't expecting any kind of ongoing support.  Unfortunately, 2 of the 3 appear to have lost interest or ghosted me; I'm less interested in the 3rd, so don't know whether there'll be a 3rd date. 
In the meantime, I'm certainly not re-upping my membership. 

I have just had a really bad experience with Seeking and wish to warn you all.
Seeking steers the "daddies" into very expensive premium memberships. I signed up for a year's premium in March for $290. It gave me unlimited messages (both to contact younger guys, and to answer the select few of the many who reached out to me [see below on that]).  But early this month, I started getting renewal notices, as if I had only paid for 3 months. I wrote to the help line about this, and although a ticket was created, and an answer promised "usually within 24 hours," no answer has been forthcoming; it's now been about 10 days. In the meantime, it seems my premium membership has ended, and with that I have absolutely no ability to message anyone on the site.  
So they have charged me a  year for what turned out to be 3 months of premium membership, and they're not responding to my complaint about it. 
As for the interactions between the younger ones, at least 1/3 appear to be bots or scammers. Another 1/3 or more are highly transactional: they want you to fly them in from another continent to visit, or they want you to send them money before they'll meet you in person, or if they're local, and there seems to be an inkling of possibility of chemistry, they won't meet you in person until you agree to a preset financial contribution.  
There are some nice guys, but you have to spend a lot of time to find them (most of that time is spent weeding out other less obvious transactional ones). I did match up, during my 3 months of membership, with 3 very nice guys, who didn't want anything up front. I met each for a date and no one asked for anything during the date (I picked up the check). And I went on a second date with each of them (again, I paid, but they didn't ask for anything extra). One of these guys said he joined because he wanted to meet quality older men and wasn't expecting any kind of ongoing support.  Unfortunately, 2 of the 3 appear to have lost interest or ghosted me; I'm less interested in the 3rd, so don't know whether there'll be a 3rd date. 
In the meantime, I'm certainly not re-upping my membership.