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I've just had a bad experience, although without meeting K_Ferrer.
He's been eager to work with my regular masseur whenever he was in NYC on other visits. So on Monday of this week, I set up a 4-hands massage with my regular and K_Ferrer at my place for Thursday at 7.  Thursday morning in a group text message he confirmed. My regular arrived a few minutes early and we sat and chatted--we're friends, and there's always stuff to catch up; and given public transportation, etc., it's common in NYC for people to run 10-15 minutes late. 
At 7:20 we each starting texting him whether he was nearby, me on the group text and my regular on the private texting they'd been doing. No response. Finally, at 7:40 my regular and I started a 2-hands massage.  (Which was fine, but still not what had been expected.)
Neither of us got an apology or explanation the next day. 

He's a great sensual masseur.

This year I had one of the most sensual massages I’ve ever experienced, and the masseur wasn’t even naked. He was so caring, his energy perfectly in tune, and the way he touched me felt more like gentle caressing at times. I could feel genuine care and devotion in every movement.
He worked wearing only his underwear, and his touch covered every part of my body. With each breath, he softly blew warm air over my skin. Every single muscle was attended to, with special attention to the glutes and inner thighs. He even touched around my balls and dick intimate, but still within the flow of the session.
I was leaking precum, but there was no happy ending. Honestly, I think one might have cheapened the experience. It was powerful just as it was. He’s clearly trained in multiple modalities and blends techniques beautifully.
After a few visits, he did end up nude once, by chance, but I respected his boundaries. And, I’ve got to say… the man was packing. I’m not even sure if he’s straight or gay. 
Now I understand that a truly sensual massage is about connection, the energy, the flow, and the way the masseur genuinely cares for you and your body. It’s a world apart from the routine rub-and-tugs that have become so common these days.
I just wanted to share this experience, but I’d like to keep the masseur’s identity private.

Also, if any of you who aren't providers might wanna come hang out too, it could be more of a CoM mixer.

Back when I was doing muay-thai kickboxing, ( pre-Covid) I was seriously in need of REAL therapeutic massage. So finding a skilled professional for me was never "sad". But finding one who's handsome, muscular and masculine but ONLY offers therapy, would, indeed be mighty frustrating.

Other than the orgasms themselves, I like nothing more than to lie back, wrapped in the arms of the young stud who's just spent themselves on (or in) me, cum drying wherever it may, just chatting, laughing and enjoying the raw, naked intimacy of it all.  Very often it's all I need to get hard again and I'm lucky enough to have enough energy (and jizz) for him to slowly jerk me off again as he kisses me deeply and I blow a second load. 
Cum (for me) - both mine & his - is definitely the main attraction but, seeing what happens afterwards when we're both covered in our respective loads is always a massive turn on and a bit of a exciting unknown.
If a provider either doesn't cum at all or shoots & leaves....we're unlikely to be a good match. 

I took the plunge. He is easy to communicate with and looks like his pictures, but the good stops there. The massage was a 4/10 at best and very mechanical. He is very stand-offish, disconnected, probably said 5 words the entire time he was there other than about hello and goodbye and seemed rushed. So don’t waste your money, too many other choices in NYC to get treated with respect.

This is a brilliant rhetorical example of damning via faint praise!
Bravo for the turn of phrase!  LOL

If you want older,More likely in their 30s, but I’ve seen guys in their 40s.

I just met him again. Every time it gets better than the previous one. He’s truly spectacular. Good soul, great vibes, wonderful skills and truly transcendent experience. 

I gotta say, that black mask pic is really doing it for me....  😈

I hired my regular go-to masseur for a 5-hour session in late August. Massage, a little play. Then, another masseur joined us for 4-hands and play (he was here for 90 minutes); after he left, my regular and I showered, had a snack, and then resumed the massage. It was a great birthday present to myself. 

I hired my regular go-to masseur for a 5-hour session in late August. Massage, a little play. Then, another masseur joined us for 4-hands and play (he was here for 90 minutes); after he left, my regular and I showered, had a snack, and then resumed the massage. It was a great birthday present to myself. 

lol you're right.  add another name to the list:
https://rentmen.eu/rashidAT

... which no longer works. 

Totally agree with @WestGuy and @Redwine56 about Blessings.
Here's another masseur with a great butt:
Sebaseslo - Male Massage & Bodywork in Manhattan, NY | RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur Sebaseslo in Manhattan, NY offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.  

Totally agree with @WestGuy and @Redwine56 about Blessings.
Here's another masseur with a great butt:
Sebaseslo - Male Massage & Bodywork in Manhattan, NY | RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur Sebaseslo in Manhattan, NY offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.  

+1 on Blessings. Amazing body all around. And a very sweet and caring guy.
Blessings - Male Massage & Bodywork in Manhattan, NY | RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur Blessings in Manhattan, NY offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic...  

He's on vacation ... he was also just in Vietnam on the same trip. I'm sure he'll be back home in NYC and working again soon. 

I like the layout of the eu site. 

I prefer Eu because it is easier to navigate. I find the rent.men confusing.

He's the Indian equivalent of a whirling dervish!
 

I found him on MF. Not sure if it was previously linked here but I will include it (again?). Thanks @Topform for the RM link. He did tell me he had to create a new one but I didn't ask for the link since I already had the MF link. 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/51177/

I can see explicit photos, and I don’t have a premium membership currently.

He started using this one: 
Tangomassage - Male Massage & Bodywork in Manhattan, NY | RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur tangomassage in Manhattan, NY offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.